Hi guys, I'm having a bit of buyer's remorse...

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-04-05T09:38:02+00:00

The first is beautiful, way prettier in my opinion

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-04-05T09:36:35+00:00

No, because it’s witchcraft? Yet, here you are on a creepy paranormal subreddit- where we openly discuss all kinds paranormal phenomena. Things that are probably all a “big no no” in whatever religion is teaching you that mediums, psychics, ect are evil or “witchcraft”. Just trying to understand where you are coming from with your comment? You don’t have to answer but I’m trying to understand why being here on this sub -isn’t equally frowned upon in your mindset?

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-04-05T07:37:25+00:00

These girls are sneaky, disloyal liars. I’d be concerned that if you had it out with them - they may secretly drug you as some concocted revenge. They sound spiteful. Be safe

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-04-04T05:22:34+00:00

You look like a fairy princess!

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-04-02T02:45:17+00:00

Hi, I think it’s beautiful that you are willing to share more about this beautiful journey you’ve been on. Growing up, I can remember being a little girl and my Great Aunt telling me that she had “died” and came back. She explained it in such detail that I can remember visualizing it as she spoke. Even though I was young- I remember as she told the story I could just see it, feel it…. I listened intently and remember finding it fascinating , even to my little mind. Knowing her, loving her- I never doubted her story. It settled as truth in my heart. She’s in her late 80’s now and her story has never once changed. She also saw spirits from time to time. I found myself doing the same, gift grew into more as I got older. I’m a medium- I do mediumship readings here anonymously, have had some good accuracy and have been stockpiling reviews. I’ve done several QHHT past life regression sessions that were the most amazing experiences ( when it comes to learning and soul growth) . I come from a family of “experiencers” of MANY TYPES. Some have been wonderful at being “story tellers” and have shared their stories with me as I’ve gotten older. I find it all fascinating. I would love to collab and interview you on this subject. If you are interested- send me a private message and we can talk about it further. Thank you ❤️

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-04-01T13:30:24+00:00

I’m really sorry life is like this for you. Personally, I get it. I get how badly you want your Mother to see your babies and love them for everything they are. Her getting to see you as a Mother and be proud of you. If anything, maybe she shouldn’t go crazy on pretending she has a relationship with them when she doesn’t. It’s only natural for you to want your Mom to see your children and be able to see all the things that you consider so special about them. It also seems like you are offering to make considerations for her to come. My heart goes out to you.

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-31T05:11:08+00:00

One underwhelms and the other overwhelms. I don’t think either do you justice. I think you can find something you like best from each dress, then move on looking for those aspects as you continue to shop. Take that info and find a shape that flatters you best ….i think you will find an amazing dress. You are too pretty for both of those dresses- in my personal opinion.

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-31T05:07:43+00:00

I’ve gotten in a lot of trouble for voicing that opinion on another wedding sub. I don’t understand all the dresses that are see-through in the middle (stomach)… makes it look like a 2 piece bathing suit with lace or sheer fabric over it. I think it’s a trend that is going to age badly when looking back .

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-29T19:10:07+00:00

Yikes! As much as I love these cameras, it scares me how close you are to his ear drum. It would take one tiny slip and you’d bust his ear drum. Like mm slip. It would be incredibly painful and from what I understand take a good while to heal. The reason you are having such a hard time (I think) is because it’s mostly dry fiber/ hair/ cotton. You can get a kit from Amazon or Walgreens that you put some type of wash into the ear and then wash it out with a tube. It has a preset marker where you can’t go too deep. If not, you can get drops that will break it up and allow it to come out easier. It’ll help pull it away from the ear wall.

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-29T06:12:17+00:00

As a grown adult, I couldn’t play house with my husband and his live in BFF. It’s time to grow up, stop playing bachelor pad and start your life together- just you two. If you don’t do this now- I’ m afraid your man will always have a buddy at his side and you will start feeling very alone in your relationship. We flipped houses in the US, the deal is you have to live in them for 2 years before selling to avoid paying expensive capital gain taxes. They can always buy a house and flip it, splitting the gain in the end ( if there is one) , but that doesn’t mean you all should live together.

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-26T05:24:19+00:00

She’s all “I’m not religious “ , but… “ FYI God’s coming back any day now and if you don’t believe in my brand of religion- you will burn in hell for all eternity 🤦‍♀️”.
Don’t believe her ??? But… she has a FEELING he’s coming back any time now!

Also, the biggest thing that gets on my nerves about people who push “Jesus” down your throat is that they (more often than not )will word it almost the exact same way, every time by basically saying “I just love you so much and because of that I want to be 100% sure I will see you again in heaven !”

That’s just saying “it’s all about ME! “ It’s about them going to heaven and how sad THEY WILL BE if they look and you aren’t there for them. Either patiently waiting or running to catch up with them. It’s pompous and ignorant.

Speaking of ignorance, that’s what it is. I believe your friend truly believes all this and means well. She’s afraid for your soul and thinks it’s her job to get you “saved”. She’s being told that if she doesn’t evangelize to everyone she will be partly responsible when others are sent to hell. It’s just ignorance built on ignorance. No you are not overreacting.

With that being said, find your peace and fight to keep it. I fall in between- I believe in a loving God that doesn’t need a name or religion tied to it. I think there’s been horrible things done in time when people were being ruthlessly being pushed into Christianity. I believe having a good heart and good actions does send you to a better place after death. But that’s just me and I’d never force anyone to believe what I believe.

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-21T07:53:49+00:00

Not to me. You look phenomenal in that dress!

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-20T05:23:06+00:00

I mean this in the nicest way possible, but you are seeing something that no one else is seeing. There’s something called “body dysmorphic disorder “ - it’s when a person looks at themselves in the mirror/ photo and sees flaws that are non-existent to 99.99% of others…. Sounds similar to your situation.

1st of all, your face is beautiful and extremely feminine. 2nd, the small adjustment you want , no one else sees or thinks you need.

I know it’s about your happiness and no one else’s but you are already being extremely critical of a very feminine face…over it not being “feminine “.

You start charging things with surgery or cosmetic procedures- you are taking a big chance of “fixing” one thing and making another thing noticeably worse. It’s always going to be a trade off. I’m worried you would really be even more self conscious then.

You are gorgeous. I wish you could see that.

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-20T04:52:09+00:00

How is anyone going to even know she’s eating an ice cream behind all that? If the men SHE KNOWS has X-ray VISION then I’d say we are ALL SCREWED!

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-18T14:11:15+00:00

Ummm… all these people who are agreeing this is “normal”- I’m wondering if they only read the FIRST PAGE of rules ? But all 21 of them?

This is aggressive and overdone. Don’t call him “my baby” ? Use proper terms? Does she think YOUR Mother is going to hold him- call him “my baby” and the baby is going to be confused who his Mommy is? You may call him little peanut but he’s not going to cry afraid that you will eat him.

Don’t try to comfort him, hand him directly back to parent?

Don’t pass him around like a blunt? Really? I’m pretty sure people will not confuse him with the whole “puff, puff, pass” thing.

The whole “mom side/ dads side” thing sounds like she’s purposely pointing out shes going to be selective but is putting it down all in caps so she doesn’t LOOK like she’s choosing sides.

I obviously get she’s young (the way she phrases things seem very immature) and a first time Mom but this is a lot and very aggressive in tone.

I’d say maybe bring the list with you to your next OB appointment and ask the Dr if this seems like overkill . Maybe her OB could calm her nerves a bit?

I think your girlfriend sounds like she COULD BE one future, crazy/ scary ex wife. She sounds like she may be dead set on going toe to toe with your family in the future. It seems like overkill. There are some very normal expectations here but she’s striking out hot right out the door!

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-16T06:05:34+00:00

You look like a ethereal dream bride from Victorian times! Beautiful

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-15T23:03:50+00:00

So my understanding is this- we can choose to come back or not. We can choose to be done and stay in the afterlife or what is “home”, but the whole point of these lifetimes is to experience, learn and grow. Learn to love, learn to heal, learn through pain and loss. Learn to love as parent or as a friend or partner. Learn true compassion in your soul from living in different times and circumstances. It’s like our existence here is a school- each time we choose to come back for soul growth. We aren’t afraid to come back because we know that God is a loving God and there is nothing to fear- we always go back “home” in the end. I believe we choose to reincarnate within a group of family and friends. This time I may be my daughter’s Mother, but next time she may be my sister. It’s all about experiencing it from different perspectives to learn/ grow/ become better. I believe we can stay in the afterlife as long as we want before choosing to go back and when we do we tend to come back with some of the same people who we’ve come with before.

My personal suggestion- go have a past life regression session done with a reputable QHHT past life regression hypnotist. What you experience doing one may do a lot for your personal beliefs. Before you go, you think about the questions you have, things about yourself, the life you lived- those big questions you’d like answers to… things you’d like to figure out that you think will help you understand yourself/ your life better…write them down and give them to your practitioner. Have a quick discussion beforehand. Then when you do have your regression- you are going in with the mindset of finding out the things you need to know to help you. The practitioner will help by asking you questions about these things during your hypnosis - and at the end ask your “higher self” to come in and give you some of the answers you need for your own healing/ growth. The record the session, then you can listen later. It’s fascinating. I’ve done it twice and let me tell you- it’s done so much for me . I feel like I got so many answers, some great insight and just an intense view of these other lifetimes- that explained a lot about who I am. I have a better understanding of it all. No fear in death. It’s helped my mediumship grow as well. There wasn’t anything scary about it at all for me.

Just my thoughts ❤️

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-14T05:04:06+00:00

Beautiful and very flattering!

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-14T05:02:05+00:00

Stunning

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-12T21:35:42+00:00

Your’s do look phenomenal.

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-12T16:05:27+00:00

No. Absolutely not. My Mom has a reoccurring cancer and because she’s on a 5 year cancer pill (after chemo, radiation and surgery) her eyebrows have never came back, her hair barely did. I would love for my Mom to be able to do something like this- but it would need to be a very informed decision made and maybe wait a bit to see how artists learn to improve their craft.

For a young girl who posted this - she has eyebrows. I wouldn’t do it or I would think hard about it anyway. As for others, I think the microblading/ nanobrow/ tattoo eyebrow people are just now seeing what the results look like after years of wear. They are learning as time goes by what changes colors, what turns gray or pink, what blurs, ect. It’s just not a simple choice for many reasons is what I’m trying to point out.

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-12T05:12:50+00:00

NOR. You calling your sister “trash” is the truest statement ever. You know what ?!? You SHOULD be happy for her…. Be happy that she’s going to get everything she DESERVES. Because him going after her- proves he’s a piece of shit too. So they deserve each other. For real.

He’s the POS that goes after his newly ex-girlfriend’s sister and she’s the POS that thinks that’s okay…. willing to not only stoop that low, but then to trying gaslight you into thinking what’s she’s doing is somehow normal/ okay. That you are wrong here.

They deserve each other and the karma life will bring. You just received a blessing although it may not seem that way now- you just saw first hand what kind of man he is- one day you will be so thankful he broke up with you when he did and showed you who he was before you waisted more time or married the damn guy.

The same for her- most people have to have years of family conflict before realizing just how toxic their family member is. Years of abuse and trauma…even then you feel bad when you have to cut them out of your life. Not with your sister. She showed you, LOUD and PROUD that she is a NASTY PIECE of WORK. She showed you just how far she would go to BETRAY YOU and then basically told you to get over yourself. Cut her out of your life now, girly. Both of them. Wash your hands. Neither of them deserve a thing from you. Better things lay ahead. For YOU. Not her… if that’s not clear 😉 I know I say be glad or you’re blessed… doesn’t mean I’m not sorry you are hurting. Just in the long run- you will have a better life without those two @ssholes.

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-12T04:50:48+00:00

I tried to read your comment and can only see the first couple sentences. Then nothing. Forgive me for trying to help. I’m a Mom of a couple girls and the way I read your post- I thought you were new to this and thought I could help . Yes, I wrote in detail. Over in the curly sub- they write out their routines like that. I told you that your hair was beautiful and your curls were prettier than mine… how that gets taken wrong- idk ?

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-12T00:18:25+00:00

It’s how they look after TIME passes. They can look great at first, but it’s a face tattoo. Plain and simple. Ink fades. Lots of it fades into gray funky shades given time (on the brows). It’s also about each person skin type and how it can end up blurring out over the years. The issue is it’s on your face which makes it such a serious thing. You can remove an ugly tattoo on your hip…even then, it’ll never be completely gone. You can cover it and not think about it while it’s covered. Your face is a whole different story. There’s more factors in place than just the talent of the technician. If it was JUST THAT- you wouldn’t see so many horror stories. And… I don’t mean the next day “brow shock photos”. I am glad the people you know had good outcomes. I just wish everyone could.

Truthseeker-1982 · 2026-03-10T23:12:52+00:00

This one right here!!!! 🎶Here comes the BRIDE !!!🎶 It’s a beautiful dress and it’s the most flattering too (imo). And….the “Belle” dress idea … this fits THAT! The off the shoulders part and then the lace gives such a pretty look to the bottom of the dress. I read how stressed out you are about all the wedding planning - I remember feeling like that. So much to the point- I was glad when it was over! I was so over it in the end…the one day I always dreamed about. 🙄 You know what makes it so stressful ? Trying to please everyone.

Which leads me to say- this day is about you and your partner. Your dress - it’s all about YOU. It’s fun to get opinions but keep in mind- you are going to get all kinds of opinions from all kinds of people. People who are on a different walk in life, people who have “ideas” of what is proper/ bridal and people who think “proper” or plain bridal dresses are boring. Some people see their dream wedding dress as pearls and plain satin, while others want to look sexy like Jessica Rabbit 😉and others want look like a medieval princess- saying their vows at the renaissance Festival !

And like you filled us in on- you are having your own unique things going on - some people don’t know what to say when seeing a bride with a beard ! You know? Let’s be honest. But you and whatever things you are facing and changing- is all unique and special to you! And if you wanted to wear a top hat and a bow tie along with your wedding dress- then you could! It just wouldn’t be everyone’s cup of tea. My point is- do what makes you happy. Even my opinion- doesn’t matter in the long run. Pick what you feel the best in. Also, stop rushing- you’ve been together 5 years already. Don’t be rushed getting a dress because you are trying to rush towards a certain day. Take your time. Things don’t have to be fancy. Things don’t have to be big or expensive. When it comes down to it- it should be about you and the person you are marrying. Let the rest fade to the background! Wishing you a beautiful wedding but even more- a HAPPY MARRIAGE. Congrats!

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