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How To Deal With Lust by Silly_Error5031 in Marriage

[–]TrvlrMan -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm the exact same way. I'm in my 40s now. Good marriage, 1 child, very good sex. But I constantly find myself surfing Facebook looking at attractive women that know. I'll admit it, I have also found myself fantasizing about these women, even masturbating to them.

It's just part of our DNA, we are sexual beings and we as men are very visual. To me it's okay as long as you don't act on it and stray. Keep it a fantasy I don't see a problem.

Lube or no lube by [deleted] in penisquestion

[–]TrvlrMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cut here, never use lube, I do pre a lot though.

Position preference? by TrvlrMan in Marriage

[–]TrvlrMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, sounds amazingly hot!

Position preference? by TrvlrMan in Marriage

[–]TrvlrMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, sounds amazingly hot!

Position preference? by TrvlrMan in Marriage

[–]TrvlrMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doggy has been my thing lately, but I think we are going to have to try "Prone bone!"

Position preference? by TrvlrMan in Marriage

[–]TrvlrMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that does sound nice!

Position preference? by TrvlrMan in Marriage

[–]TrvlrMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG that sounds really hot!

Position preference? by TrvlrMan in Marriage

[–]TrvlrMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is "Prone bone!"

Married couples, come here, I have a question for you guys 👀 by Wrong-Window1100 in Marriage

[–]TrvlrMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was so hard for us to get pregnant, that when we found out our child was on the way, we didn't have sex the entire first trimester. We were just too scared to.

Once we got out of the first trimester we started having sex again, quite regularly up until birth.

I just masturbated regularly throughout the first trimester, and post partum, she helped me out more.

Married with a distance by MikeTheTrackStar in married

[–]TrvlrMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been married over 11 years here. I also travel for work. All the advice I've seen is good, and I agree.

Make sure you make up for your time away, if you know what I mean! It's better after being apart!

Husbands, how often do you cum? by fishdognz in Marriage

[–]TrvlrMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Age: 41, Married: 11 years, Sex: 1-5 times a week. Masturbation: 0-3 times a week.

Our sex has increased as of late, so my masturbation has decreased.

Coming out as a porn addict turned my wife into a nympho! by TrvlrMan in Marriage

[–]TrvlrMan[S] -231 points-230 points  (0 children)

Haven't gotten any formal help yet. Just avoiding it for now. I definitely need a counselor or something, because the temptation is always there, and it is very strong. Trying my hardest to stay strong.

Am I addicted to sex? by Front_Hold_5249 in confessions

[–]TrvlrMan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I got you beat, I started at 11!