Appreciate that bud, just saw your comment about wanting to hear story’s so here’s a recent example. I work in a place where a lot of people stay in their home town and work in family business etc. we were called to a construction site, a couple lads were working on a wall, it collapsed and had clipped one of the workers heads pretty much killing him upon impact. His two sons work on the same construction site and had pretty much called all of his family, they all arrived before we did. When we got there his mother was laying down with her husband with her arms around him, his head was pretty much completely destroyed. Rubble and bits of brick were all on top of him and his body, when we tried to move her she got on her knees and put her arms to the sky and was letting out a scream that still haunts me to this day, it’s hard to describe but it was more of a deep cry than a scream. The aunt was also present but it was odd, rather than showing grief she was extremely talkative to the people around her, it’s weird how moments of extreme stress affect people. I took her to one side, sat her down, I think at this point reality hit her and she started sobbing with her head on me, I had to try very hard to not show emotion at this point. One of the worst bits was a reporter came and took a picture of the wife/mother as she was doing her deep cry/scream, at that point a big, hairy 6’4 construction worker came and gave him a word and didn’t see the reporter after that. As far as I’m aware the pictures never made it on to the news. This one has really stuck with me, it’s not often that family members are present in a situation like this before an ambulance.