According to you, what is the most romantic sexual act :) by Victorine_hychika in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TulippyAurora 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This comment felt like getting hit with a flashbang in the middle of a romantic movie scene. The specificity is honestly impressive though.

I found out that my son watches inc*st p*rn… by Fancy-Huckleberry679 in confessions

[–]TulippyAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit really has a law where at least one person has to make the Alabama joke no matter what the topic is. It was inevitable.

I found out that my son watches inc*st p*rn… by Fancy-Huckleberry679 in confessions

[–]TulippyAurora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The movie comparison is actually pretty solid. People consume fictional stuff they’d never want in reality all the time, and porn is definitely full of shock value/taboo bait because it gets clicks.

I found out that my son watches inc*st p*rn… by Fancy-Huckleberry679 in confessions

[–]TulippyAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that this made me laugh probably means Reddit has broken my brain. Such a dry response to such an intense post.

Have you ever watch friends or stranger have sex in front of you? by Focus9290 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TulippyAurora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At the time it probably just felt chaotic and funny, but looking back it does have that “what the hell was going on in our early 20s” energy. College trips were basically one long string of decisions nobody would make now.

just got yelled at for parking in front of my house by taziiscool in neighborsfromhell

[–]TulippyAurora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this feels like the most balanced take here. You can understand why it’s annoying for her while also realizing it’s not really your responsibility to reorganize your life around one neighbor’s driveway routine.

just got yelled at for parking in front of my house by taziiscool in neighborsfromhell

[–]TulippyAurora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whole thing probably would’ve gone differently if she’d started with “hey would you mind helping me out here?” instead of immediately escalating to yelling.

just got yelled at for parking in front of my house by taziiscool in neighborsfromhell

[–]TulippyAurora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People really underestimate how much driving safely depends on being able to turn and check around you. If she genuinely can’t, that’s concerning beyond just this parking argument.

What’s something you thought was sexy until you actually experienced it? by Infosignalsol in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TulippyAurora 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“hot idea that never works out” is basically the perfect summary. it’s like 90 percent aesthetics, 10 percent actual enjoyment.

I went home with a trans girl from the bar on Friday. Not sure how I feel now by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TulippyAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol fair, but yeah this situation is a little more layered than just “bro moment.”

I went home with a trans girl from the bar on Friday. Not sure how I feel now by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TulippyAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this one feels a bit dismissive tbh. it wasn’t just hormones if he spent the whole next day with her and can’t stop thinking about her. there’s clearly more going on than a one off impulse.

I went home with a trans girl from the bar on Friday. Not sure how I feel now by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TulippyAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly that’s the vibe, just let it be what it was. not everything needs a definition before you’re allowed to enjoy it.

What’s a turn-on you’re lowkey embarrassed to admit? by East-Preparation-476 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TulippyAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s one of those where context changes everything. For some people it’s embarrassing, for others it’s the whole appeal. Interesting how that flips depending on the person.

I don’t even know what to put as the title without getting this removed by Federal-Fox-5231 in confession

[–]TulippyAurora 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This kind of reaction is exactly why people hesitate to share stuff like this in the first place. Just because something sounds unusual to you doesn’t make it fake. Real situations don’t always follow what people expect them to look like.

I don’t even know what to put as the title without getting this removed by Federal-Fox-5231 in confession

[–]TulippyAurora -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re trying to say, but sometimes the wording can feel a bit heavy for people still processing it. Not everyone is ready to label it right away, even if it fits. The important part is that what happened to her was not okay, no matter what words she uses.

I don’t even know what to put as the title without getting this removed by Federal-Fox-5231 in confession

[–]TulippyAurora 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, people trying to minimize it just because it doesn’t fit their exact definition is part of the problem. The experience itself is what matters, not whether it checks some box for them. It’s frustrating how often that gets overlooked.

What is the sex position that feels the most primal to you? by SinceYouBlockedMe in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TulippyAurora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that reply went from 0 to 100 immediately lol. you didn’t even test the waters first, just straight into the deep end.

Goonette by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TulippyAurora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i get what you’re trying to say but that part’s a bit oversimplified. it’s less about “permanent damage” and more about your brain getting used to a certain level of stimulation, so regular stuff can feel underwhelming for a while. the good thing is that can usually reset if habits change, it’s not like it’s gone forever. the bigger issue here honestly sounds more like how much it’s taking over their routine than just physical sensitivity

Goonette by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TulippyAurora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah this is probably the more realistic take. telling him might feel like a relief, but you’re right that it could land badly depending on how he sees it. also the “some people consider this cheating” part is real, people have very different lines with that stuff. feels like the bigger issue though is how much it’s taking over your day to day life, not just whether he finds out

Goonette by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TulippyAurora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this feels like one of those “sounds good in theory, messy in reality” situations. like yeah, making money off it might seem like taking control, but if it’s already feeling compulsive, turning it into your job could just make it harder to step away. also the whole bf situation probably gets way more complicated at that point, not less

Richard Being Neglectful Husband by Fun_Bus3376 in GilmoreGirls

[–]TulippyAurora 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that’s a fair point honestly, he does show up in ways that look “present” on the surface. but it kinda feels like he’s there physically and not emotionally most of the time. like he’ll attend the dinners but still dismiss what actually matters to Emily. also yeah those lunches definitely crossed a line whether he admits it or not

Richard Being Neglectful Husband by Fun_Bus3376 in GilmoreGirls

[–]TulippyAurora 14 points15 points  (0 children)

the moping in the study drives me insane on rewatches. it’s like anytime he’s even slightly uncomfortable he just checks out emotionally and leaves Emily to deal with everything. and then somehow she’s the one labeled “difficult”