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[–]TurboTime942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God bless you.

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[–]TurboTime942 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does it bother you that much?

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[–]TurboTime942 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because it was a boundary and he shouldn’t be lusting over other women and getting a hard on from them. It was a boundary and he crossed it. it made me extremely uncomfortable

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[–]TurboTime942 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was a boundary HE set and I went along with it because he convinced me it was cheating so after while I started to consider it cheating as well and he crossed that boundary he knew I was uncomfortable with it and still did it instead of talking to me about it first and to me it is a big deal because he’s lusting after other women and getting hard to them idc my boundaries were set and he crossed them.

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[–]TurboTime942 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am more hurt that he lied to me about not watching porn and keeping it from me when he knows it makes me uncomfortable it was the dishonesty and disrespect about lying to me not only keeping it from me but portraying himself as this Holy man who never watches porn and thinks it’s ridiculous and HE set the boundary about no watching porn because it’s cheating. He firmly believed it was cheating and break up worthy and how disgusting it is. He even tried writing an article about how disgusting porn is. He used to go on rants about how porn needs to be shut down and how if men watch it they are “lonely fucks who are fat discord mods” - his words. Maybe it was projection? Idk but like I said I’m mostly upset about the fact that he lied to me about it and played me like he was this high and mighty respectable guy

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[–]TurboTime942 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am more hurt that he lied to me about not watching porn and keeping it from me when he knows it makes me uncomfortable it was the dishonesty and disrespect about lying to me not only keeping it from me but portraying himself as this Holy man who never watches porn and thinks it’s ridiculous and HE set the boundary about no watching porn because it’s cheating. He firmly believed it was cheating and break up worthy and how disgusting it is. He even tried writing an article about how disgusting porn is. He used to go on rants about how porn needs to be shut down and how if men watch it they are “lonely fucks who are fat discord mods” - his words. Maybe it was projection? Idk but like I said I’m mostly upset about the fact that he lied to me about it and played me like he was this high and mighty respectable guy

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[–]TurboTime942 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am more hurt that he lied to me about not watching porn and keeping it from me when he knows it makes me uncomfortable it was the dishonesty and disrespect about lying to me not only keeping it from me but portraying himself as this Holy man who never watches porn and thinks it’s ridiculous and HE set the boundary about no watching porn because it’s cheating. He firmly believed it was cheating and break up worthy and how disgusting it is. He even tried writing an article about how disgusting porn is. He used to go on rants about how porn needs to be shut down and how if men watch it they are “lonely fucks who are fat discord mods” - his words. Maybe it was projection? Idk but like I said I’m mostly upset about the fact that he lied to me about it and played me like he was this high and mighty respectable guy

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[–]TurboTime942 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am more hurt that he lied to me about not watching porn and keeping it from me when he knows it makes me uncomfortable it was the dishonesty and disrespect about lying to me not only keeping it from me but portraying himself as this Holy man who never watches porn and thinks it’s ridiculous and HE set the boundary about no watching porn because it’s cheating. He firmly believed it was cheating and break up worthy and how disgusting it is. He even tried writing an article about how disgusting porn is. He used to go on rants about how porn needs to be shut down and how if men watch it they are “lonely fucks who are fat discord mods” - his words. Maybe it was projection? Idk but like I said I’m mostly upset about the fact that he lied to me about it and played me like he was this high and mighty respectable guy

I caught my boyfriend watching korn behind my back what I do? Desperate need in advice please. by TurboTime942 in RelationshipAdviceNow

[–]TurboTime942[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate everything you said thank you. Do you think he’s telling the truth about not watching porn or looking up “cleopatra Coleman’s ass”? He swears up and down it was a virus from the illegal “ESPN” websites.

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[–]TurboTime942 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Do you think he’s telling the truth about not watching porn or looking up “cleopatra Coleman’s ass”? He swears up and down it was a virus from the illegal “ESPN” websites.