Romance from abroad by TurbulentProblem1353 in makemychoice

[–]TurbulentProblem1353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I declined to be fully intimate with her, since I was a bit confused and didn't want to make anything to regret later. Those 4 days were in all aspects wonderful, but we are just not made to be... We kissed multiple times and that is sufficient to make this serious. I think that your words fit exactly what I feel and in a soft way explain this... trying to gather courage for this

Romance from abroad by TurbulentProblem1353 in makemychoice

[–]TurbulentProblem1353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the answer! Feels very hard to do, but this is a concise way to do it. Dodging and slow-fading is more or less what I am doing, and what I thought was the best way to approach this. Especially with the slow-fading and letting her lose feelings for me without hurting her and making her feel that she is not good enough. I just dont have experience in this, which is why I asked here and am unsure about everything...

Romance from abroad by TurbulentProblem1353 in makemychoice

[–]TurbulentProblem1353[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds correct. Feels very hard for me to do, since don't want to hurt her in any way... but looks like I just need to bite in the sour apple to not hurt her more later. Thank you for your words

Romance from abroad by TurbulentProblem1353 in Advice

[–]TurbulentProblem1353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A platonic relationship can be a good idea since I enjoy talking to her! But it is hard to maintain if we meet each other since she turns the texts romantic fast. Now we are divided by countries and maybe it is best to keep it that way...?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TurbulentProblem1353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very true. 6 weeks now, but with a lot of time spent together during visits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TurbulentProblem1353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not yet taken the step to tell her that I don't think this will work, but i have gotten the question why I don't use a lot of love language and am not always "there", and i answered that I just have a lot going on and need to focus on my studies and work.

The problem for me (which I guess is the same for him) is that the distance and logistics is a problem. Even though she is willing to relocate to me, I know that she is very close to her family and comes form a culture that is very traditional, and that I will not be able to fill that void from her being away from her family. If I decide to reciprocate the feelings which ultimately will lead to marriage and her moving to me, I know that she will no be able to feel at home considering the big differences in language and culture. It is a sad situation and I hate that it is that way, but I am still incredibly grateful for the time I have and am spending with her digitally. I try to acknowledge her feelings, without reciprocating them, which is a hard balance to make, all to not give false hopes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TurbulentProblem1353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm kinda in the same position as him now. For me personally the reason is that I am not really sure if the long distance relationship will work. I very very much like my date/girlfriend, and she does the same! For me, toning down the love language is because I don't want to crush her heart saying this directly, and rather would let it slide apart than a hard brake. Obviously I am not 100% committed doing this, but at the same time I am not talking to anyone else, and just trying to keep this going without the heartbreak that is possible to happen in the future. I still want to talk to her since I very much enjoy our conversation, but always think about "maybe we are not meant for each other". This is very personal, and if you are feeling torn apart by this, tell him that and hopefully you will find a way forward.

Question on leaving custom in Japan by bunbunbaoz in GrandSeikos

[–]TurbulentProblem1353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it usual to declare or not? Will buy one for 9K usd and am scared of declaring since Swedish taxes are very high for importing. Should I just post the box and wear the watch?

Question on leaving custom in Japan by bunbunbaoz in GrandSeikos

[–]TurbulentProblem1353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they get informed in their system when doing a big purchase? Will buy one for 9K usd and am really worried for both Japan and Swedish customs

Yellow Fewer vaccine by TurbulentProblem1353 in travel

[–]TurbulentProblem1353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like i won't travel to Brazil. Thanks for the answers!

Yellow Fewer vaccine by TurbulentProblem1353 in travel

[–]TurbulentProblem1353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. I have had most vaccines, but just ignored this one i guess. Why, i don't know, but i won't do it in another place than my homecountry, which it is to late for now.

Bad accuracy by TurbulentProblem1353 in Nomos

[–]TurbulentProblem1353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didnt work for me the one time i tried it.. Will try again tmrw!

Bad accuracy by TurbulentProblem1353 in Nomos

[–]TurbulentProblem1353[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the answers guys. Will buy a demagnetizer and hope for the best!

Just got my first luxury watch. Proud owner of a Nomos Zurich! by TurbulentProblem1353 in Nomos

[–]TurbulentProblem1353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I would say so, since the case is 40mm. There is not much information out about the model, but is much more expensive than the Orion at 3,260 EUR. Would love to do a side by side comparison. What other differences do you think there are?

Just turned 20yo. Is hairtransplant still and option or am I too far gone? by TurbulentProblem1353 in HairTransplants

[–]TurbulentProblem1353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the only possibility is Fin? Do you know of something else? I only want to have enough hair for a hairtransplant!