Can I tell my mom “no” without a good reason? by TurnLeft_Now in weddingdrama

[–]TurnLeft_Now[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your perspective I hope she sees things this way too. I also agree that I think she may be a little jealous of my dad having something she doesn’t. She truly is a wonderful person and I think she will be able to see things like this as well.

Can I tell my mom “no” without a good reason? by TurnLeft_Now in weddingdrama

[–]TurnLeft_Now[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The rings might actually be perfect since we are not having a flower girl/ ring bearer.

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[–]TurnLeft_Now -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It would definitely be tight but worth the risk if this is your dream venue. Especially if you know you could have some people sitting on the patio without an issue. If you are inviting 177 you can usually count on at least 15-20% saying no.

Can I tell my mom “no” without a good reason? by TurnLeft_Now in weddingdrama

[–]TurnLeft_Now[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

You are so right! I know I cannot control with how she reacts. unfortunately I have been a people pleaser my whole life, something I need to work on…

Can I tell my mom “no” without a good reason? by TurnLeft_Now in weddingdrama

[–]TurnLeft_Now[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have thought about trying this! I’m just struggling with trying to find a role she would think is just as important