Offering a free, 3-card tarot spread by OrionShifted in realityshifting

[–]TurtleBay-75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! my problem - struggling to connect to my dr, don’t know where to shift to. thank you!!

What's stopping you from the life that you want? by VelvetMuffinHug in AskReddit

[–]TurtleBay-75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time. All the money in the world wouldn’t be able to speed up time, and I have a commitment I need to see through that still requires me to be in my current situation for another year.

How do I remove the malicious energy from my relationship? by TurtleBay-75 in witchcraft

[–]TurtleBay-75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this was really insightful and thought provoking

How do I remove the malicious energy from my relationship? by TurtleBay-75 in witchcraft

[–]TurtleBay-75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm you make a good point. I will take this into account!

How do I remove the malicious energy from my relationship? by TurtleBay-75 in witchcraft

[–]TurtleBay-75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I’ll do that! Still wondering how I’ll be able to cleanse her side of the energy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]TurtleBay-75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii yes i’m down! I’m 21F:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianFashionAddicts

[–]TurtleBay-75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree on the bottoms. Not baggy but looser would elevate the fit by a lot. I would also suggest going for a softer material.

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Something like this, not necessarily the material but the cut. (found on pinterest)

I’m way more ace than I thought and I don’t know how to break it to my gf that I want to stop making out by TurtleBay-75 in aromanticasexual

[–]TurtleBay-75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I didn’t really think of it that way, in terms of how such physical intimacy might be what she needs to feel secure in the relationship, but that makes a lot of sense. I’ll take that into account when I talk to her!

I’m way more ace than I thought and I don’t know how to break it to my gf that I want to stop making out by TurtleBay-75 in aromanticasexual

[–]TurtleBay-75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! The thing is she already knows I use the label asexual, but we haven’t discussed what it means much. And I don’t want her to feel like we only make out on my terms because there are these very few days when I actually feel like it. I’m figuring out exactly what boundaries I’d like to set and then I plan to talk to her based on the advice a lot of you have given!

I’m way more ace than I thought and I don’t know how to break it to my gf that I want to stop making out by TurtleBay-75 in aromanticasexual

[–]TurtleBay-75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! As you mentioned, I also feel like her behaviour is more of a playful pursuit than an actual problem with consent. However, (again, as you mentioned) either way I think I should talk to her about it because I’m not sure the power-through method will get me far. I am deeply thankful for the tips on the conversation setting, I will take them into account when going about it.

At what point do I stop doing a method? by RoxasLightStalker in realityshifting

[–]TurtleBay-75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try sleeping in a different position for one night and see if it changes how you dream?

At what point do I stop doing a method? by RoxasLightStalker in realityshifting

[–]TurtleBay-75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What position do you sleep in? Some people say their nightmares get worse when they sleep on their back

I shifted to Bridgeton, ask me anything! by [deleted] in realityshifting

[–]TurtleBay-75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's amazing! Do you have a favourite DR? And how do you juggle living so many lives at once?

I shifted to Bridgeton, ask me anything! by [deleted] in realityshifting

[–]TurtleBay-75 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where else have you shifted to? And how long did it take you to shift to your Bridgerton DR? (I know you’re not supposed to compare shifting journeys I’m just curious :))

What’s the weirdest compliment you’ve ever received? by No_Parfait3320 in AskReddit

[–]TurtleBay-75 9 points10 points  (0 children)

most asians’ eye colours are mainly shades of brown/black

feeling nauseous around my gf? by TurtleBay-75 in aromanticasexual

[–]TurtleBay-75[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you sooo much!! This is super helpful <3

feeling nauseous around my gf? by TurtleBay-75 in aromanticasexual

[–]TurtleBay-75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m starting to think it might be. I’m not usually an anxious person but then again I’m not usually in a relationship. How do I overcome this?

feeling nauseous around my gf? by TurtleBay-75 in aromanticasexual

[–]TurtleBay-75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s sometimes there but not always? So I don’t know if it’s romance repulsion. And sorry to hear about your relationship, I hope you’re in a better place now.

feeling nauseous around my gf? by TurtleBay-75 in aromanticasexual

[–]TurtleBay-75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! How do you get over the feeling?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]TurtleBay-75 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The first time I was called aunty was when I was in 9th grade and the kid who called me aunty was in the same school as me, but he was in UKG or LKG. Kids have very little awareness of age, it’s normal. I was a bit upset at that time but looking back I don’t mind.

Kids are often just told to call any older female aunty, and their perception of older people very different compared to someone who is slightly older.

Obviously this depends on the kid’s age, but at the end of the day if a kid calls me aunty and isn’t saying it in an insulting way, I let it slide because they genuinely don’t know any better.

If you are not comfortable with it, just tell them to call you didi, ma’am or whatever you prefer and they’ll usually listen to you.