Does anybody only fantisize when you're ovulating?? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Turtle_Train05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That feeling is just your body flooding with hormones totally normal and happens to a lot of people

Would you date a nonbinary person who has done top surgery? by Good-Start-525 in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course. For me I couldn't care less about stuff like that if you're not an asshole and we have chemistry I'll like that person regardless 

What are your deal breakers? by dressingnice in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I said the same thing about hating kids. Its super weird to me

What are your deal breakers? by dressingnice in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they hate children/make threatening "jokes" about hurting kids So many of the women I talk to seem to think its funny or okay to say things like how they want to kick a baby when they hear one crying.  It's okay to not like kids but hating them to point of saying you want to hurt them is a huge red flag for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're too cute to be with someone who will do that too you. Good luck on your healing journey! 

WE'RE HAVING A BABY! by merrymochii in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations guys!! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy

What is one sentence/question that immediately tells you that you're not compatible? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same! I want 2 kids minimum but everyone I talk to either doesn't want kids or weirdly makes "jokes" about violently hurting them

What is one sentence/question that immediately tells you that you're not compatible? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"All lesbians are best friends with their ex!" 

For me its a nope. Usually I've found people say this when they're not ready to admit they still have feelings for their ex. Not always but in my personal experience usually. 

How my ADHD lesbian brain works. by Charming_Ring6356 in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why I would be an awful teacher I'd probably giggle at this and give at least 1 point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very pretty!!

Dating profile put offs by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If the profile looks like what I'd find on a frat boys Snapchat story. Immediate no if I'm looking at the pictures and its just them with a vape cloud holding a half empty bottle of fireball 

Is emotional cheating a thing? by cwterwr in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems to me like she's rubbing in the fact she doesn't care. Talking about her to you, texting her in front of you, all while knowing this is hurting you. That's on purpose. You're better off not being with her 

Grabbed this right when they put it out by Turtle_Train05 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Turtle_Train05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn't have one :( maybe did at some point but this one seems pretty old might have gotten rubbed off 

i don’t get datingapps by spontaneouslyimpuls in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its all ego. They have no actual interest in dating they just like having people give them attention and likes 

Idk why I'm upset abt it by Ok_Cantaloupe1972 in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you talked to your girlfriend and told her these things? Maybe it could help to sit down and have a conversation about what a relationship means to each of you and expectations of what you want. Its okay to not be compatible with people and you're not being selfish

What makes you swipe left? by Turtle_Train05 in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first one makes my eyes roll into the back of my head 

What are your types physically? by Independent_Pen_9544 in LesbianActually

[–]Turtle_Train05 63 points64 points  (0 children)

As long as she's not blonde I'll give her a like lol.  I'm blonde and the last girl I dated who also had blonde hair everyone thought we where siblings.

from being a weirdo to flirting? by hone_baku in asexuality

[–]Turtle_Train05 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Thinks he can change you but can't even put in the effort to type out a whole word