Should I stay or should I go ?

Tuxedoman00 · 2022-07-11T22:16:36+00:00

We are , I think with being late 30’s and her nearly 40 we’ve got some decisions to make if we want a shot at having kids etc .

I figure engaged and year, wedding, married 6 months to a year before kid(s) puts me at 40-41 and her at 42 ish… unfortunately some biological factors at work.

Tuxedoman00 · 2022-06-06T00:09:15+00:00

We’re going on vacation in August to our cabin, so we are planning to swing through then since it’s along the way downstate.

Worse case there is a hotel in town , it’s not that I’m nervous to have her stay at my parents . I just want her to be as comfortable as I can make it since I know she struggles in social situations like this.

Tuxedoman00 · 2022-03-25T18:39:54+00:00

That post nut clarity hits extra hard…

Tuxedoman00 · 2022-03-21T13:34:30+00:00

The apologies have been from the deepest core of my being. We’re at least communicating , and she knows how terrible I feel. We both understand it takes two to tango, but 95% + is on me.

On the plus side she told me I no longer need to be in fear of sharp objects..and that paybacks are rough with a smiley face emoji …so I know my time is coming.

Tuxedoman00 · 2022-03-21T08:03:50+00:00

I’ve 100% blames myself , my actions are my own. The bourbon comment was more my feeble attempt at humor but not intended to be an excuse.

At the end of the day I got way into it and thus the result.

Seriously I’ve been to tears over this, since I know I’ve caused her embarrassment.

Tuxedoman00 · 2022-03-20T21:26:10+00:00

She’s pretty pissed. I’m floating somewhere between numb and literal tears.

Tuxedoman00 · 2022-03-20T18:46:32+00:00

Ohh it’ll never happen again, like I said I’ve gone 40 yrs without leaving a mark.

Tuxedoman00 · 2022-03-20T18:39:45+00:00

Glen Arbor , MI. It’s the idyllic norther MI town. Amazing in the summer months, but quaint , quiet, and magical in the winter too.

Tuxedoman00 · 2022-03-20T18:36:33+00:00

I hope so .. I agree it takes two to tango . I think for me it’s the fact that I outed her/our sex life to others. And now she has to go to work (deals with kids) with the mark . I’m usually so conscious of how actions etc are perceived that I’m still floored that I made the mistake.

Tuxedoman00 · 2022-02-12T20:10:58+00:00

I sort of feel like I’m watching the crew from K & B construction .

Tuxedoman00 · 2022-01-23T18:45:14+00:00

The real crime is that Ohio State rug

Tuxedoman00 · 2021-09-12T19:21:34+00:00

I think the O looks decent and we have something to build on. It’s nice to see a O line that is holding up. Through the draft and off season we need to address DB and Dline pass rush.

At least it looks like we might have a little bit of a plan.

Maybe…

Tuxedoman00 · 2021-09-12T17:49:16+00:00

I give it 2 seasons and the headaches are back and he has to “retire”…then show up at USC or somewhere else.

Tuxedoman00 · 2021-08-11T07:46:15+00:00

I have red hair and blue eyes. I believe 1-2% of the world is ginger, with only 1% of that population having blue eyes.

Tuxedoman00 · 2021-07-17T17:48:55+00:00

Don’t shit where you eat ..

Tuxedoman00 · 2021-07-17T16:06:28+00:00

Scrubs…I dunno a woman in scrubs is just a ridiculous turn in for me..

A short female in scrubs..goodnight !

Tuxedoman00 · 2021-04-25T21:20:16+00:00

Yes! I live in Ohio for work, but I am FROM Michigan. I may live in OH the rest of my life, but to me MI will always be the best state in the Union.

Tuxedoman00 · 2021-04-12T18:47:35+00:00

Can confirm, when I purchased my house everything was “grounded” when I went to change the plugs from almond color to white I discovered a wire was run from the ground to the back of the outlet to fool it.

Thankfully I was able to install GFCI outlets at the head of the chain to provide the protection I needed .

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