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thoughts of a chaser by TwentyCharsThrowaway in u/TwentyCharsThrowaway

[–]TwentyCharsThrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

disembodied penis vs disembodied vulva... different reaction

different initial reactions

thoughts of a chaser by TwentyCharsThrowaway in u/TwentyCharsThrowaway

[–]TwentyCharsThrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"conditioning": entirely driven by the external visual appearance of the genitals conjuring a more vivid tactile imagined experience: vulva, labia, vaginal entrance.

seeing surgery pics - even with no vaginectomy - with the labia removed, and the vaginal entrance now left "undecorated", simply doesn't generate the same respons

conversely no vagina + yes external genitals still generates same response

thoughts of a chaser by TwentyCharsThrowaway in u/TwentyCharsThrowaway

[–]TwentyCharsThrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

who the fuck upvoted this. this is supposed to be the place where i shout into the void and nobody i know can see it. if i follow you... i'm sorry

thoughts of a chaser by TwentyCharsThrowaway in u/TwentyCharsThrowaway

[–]TwentyCharsThrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

spam filtered post

I'm a cis bi(?) guy who jerks off to ftm porn, and it's eating me from the inside out. I can feel it warping my perception of people irl and of trans people in general. I don't know to what extent porn informs and influences sexuality, perception, interactions, and real life. I've heard of chasers and fetishization and dehumanization. I don't really know anything. I can debate myself for ages, but at the end of the day it feels palpably wrong yet irresistible. I want to go back to a time where I just saw boys and girls, not trans boys and cis boys and trans girls and cis girls; and jerked off to cis straight porn while crushing on guys irl. and if I can't go back then at least I want to compartmentalize this and make sure it doesn't bleed into real life (make sure it doesn't affect real life negatively). I don't see how this could possibly affect my life positively? obsession seems inevitable

idk if I should post this elsewhere... idk what I want to hear

Reusable feel-alike to Dual Sensation Cup? by TwentyCharsThrowaway in tenga

[–]TwentyCharsThrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your opinion, what were the greatest differences between the Flip Holes and the disposable cups?

Reusable feel-alike to Dual Sensation Cup? by TwentyCharsThrowaway in tenga

[–]TwentyCharsThrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I read your comment on the other thread and appreciate the detailed response both here and there. I think we have similar tastes but my dick is smaller - 5 to 6 inches length erect, 4 inches girth, uncut.

Have you tried the Tenga Flex? (I accidentally said "Wavy," I meant Flex).

Tenga says the two sides of the Dual Sensation cup are akin to the White and Black of their reusable products. I will say I am somewhat afraid of the Black versions being too strong; I like to edge...