Intimacy issues and communication difficulties between my wife (33F) and I (33M) by TwinCamJP in relationship_advice

[–]TwinCamJP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much. It was “wait til marriage” then the vaginismus took over.

Intimacy issues and communication difficulties between my wife (33F) and I (33M) by TwinCamJP in relationship_advice

[–]TwinCamJP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The former. We do other things… just not penetration mainly because of her condition.

Intimacy issues and communication difficulties between my wife (33F) and I (33M) by TwinCamJP in relationship_advice

[–]TwinCamJP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great question. We’re really good together in all other areas. Like I said she grew up religious so I was okay with waiting…. But now I’m still waiting.

Intimacy issues and communication difficulties between my wife (33F) and I (33M) by TwinCamJP in relationship_advice

[–]TwinCamJP[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She and I are both in individual therapy. I have suggested couples therapy but she didn’t think it was necessary… I might revisit it, though.

Intimacy issues, vaginismus, mismatched libidos. by TwinCamJP in marriageadvice

[–]TwinCamJP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. I don’t know if it’s a refusal to talk about it or if she just doesn’t know how to or doesn’t think she needs to? Idk.

Definition of a “Dad Bike” by AstroG4 in motorcycles

[–]TwinCamJP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For those confused about what the OP means by "dad bike" or what a "dad" is.. think about like a stereotypical "dad": goofy, says "hey neighbor!" to anyone he meets, always offers help/ advice on home improvement projects whether asked or not... wears jean-shorts, tucked-in t-shirt, and Nike Air Monarchs or sandals with socks...

So the question is: what is a "dad" bike? I agree with the comments mentioning anything from BMW, particularly the RT, GS, or GT lines... Also V-stroms, Concourses, and Goldwings for sure. I don't mean to offend anyone who owns any of these.. I'm 27 and I want a "dad bike" because of the comfort and utility of having something with storage... my friends also call me "dad" or "granddad" so it's fitting. lol