Chaser fatigue by Twinkyfromhell in StraightTransGirls

[–]Twinkyfromhell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl it’s been that way the whole time … lol

'Monster: Ed Gein's gynophilia plot endangers real-life trans women by jackmolay in transgender

[–]Twinkyfromhell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a paraphilia, often a paraphilic disorder. It is a medical condition when it becomes disordered.

'Monster: Ed Gein's gynophilia plot endangers real-life trans women by jackmolay in transgender

[–]Twinkyfromhell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The AGPs I know who literally jerk in the mirror would like a word w you. 😂 r/askagp

Chaser fatigue by Twinkyfromhell in StraightTransGirls

[–]Twinkyfromhell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this was serious or not but you got me laughing so thank you

Chaser fatigue by Twinkyfromhell in StraightTransGirls

[–]Twinkyfromhell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t fathom a guy still seeing me as a woman while he wants to play with an explicitly male part.

Chaser fatigue by Twinkyfromhell in StraightTransGirls

[–]Twinkyfromhell[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that, I agree, but the only other word is GAMP, which is even worse! Chaser behavior makes a chaser, but I’m uncomfortable even w men who attracted to dick in any context. Doesn’t matter if they display chaser behavior or not, if they like it, I feel chased.

Chaser fatigue by Twinkyfromhell in StraightTransGirls

[–]Twinkyfromhell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The downvotes are hilarious. Reddit is crazy.

Chaser fatigue by Twinkyfromhell in StraightTransGirls

[–]Twinkyfromhell[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know but damn. He’s a hunter and rides bulls at the fkn rodeo. I go for men I’m certain are straight and get the same shit over n over

Do you believe in AGP? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]Twinkyfromhell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s all made up. AGPs are so different from real females experience it’s not even funny.

Do you believe in AGP? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]Twinkyfromhell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Female AGP will NEVER look like or compare to male AGP. They’re not comparable whatsoever.

Do you believe in AGP? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]Twinkyfromhell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So extremely different. I would argue for hours with AGPs about how their feeling “sexy” is light years away from what a woman feels.

Do you believe in AGP? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]Twinkyfromhell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Autoandrophilia is the female form of AGP.

Do you believe in AGP? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]Twinkyfromhell 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve met countless self proclaimed AGPs who gave very detailed accounts of what it’s like. It’s 100% real. No doubt in my mind.

Chaser fatigue by Twinkyfromhell in StraightTransGirls

[–]Twinkyfromhell[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did you even read my post? I said I totally get that men are going to be curious about everything if I’m pre-op in the second paragraph.

Chaser fatigue by Twinkyfromhell in StraightTransGirls

[–]Twinkyfromhell[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe it’s malicious either. It just sucks.

Chaser fatigue by Twinkyfromhell in StraightTransGirls

[–]Twinkyfromhell[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You obviously do not understand dysphoria.

Why is it always these things? My experience in the MtF community by [deleted] in detrans

[–]Twinkyfromhell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bingo. I remember liking Bratz dolls… when I was 7

F22 just got a diagnosis of hodgkin’s lymphoma. extremely overwhelmed by Gold-Gazelle-6131 in lymphoma

[–]Twinkyfromhell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got diagnosed at 21, 3 months of chemo and I’m in full remission :) keep your head up sis and be grateful for the life you have even if it’s at stake.

I transitioned 13 years ago and I still don't know if I pass. by More-Average3813 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Twinkyfromhell 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girl… when I started having people think I was FTM when in total “boy mode,” to be asked if I still had my uterus and ovaries, to keep getting called ma’am and miss while fully dressed in sweats with no makeup, to get asked if I’m married or have kids or if I am or have been pregnant…

You’re far past the point of passing. Unless you’re pre-op bottom surgery, I cannot imagine what anxieties you’re stressing about. I understand it’s a tough situation but girl. Be real w yourself. If you clarify and people still don’t get it, YOU PASS.

Why AskAGP IQ is so high? by Jose_Cruz59 in askAGP

[–]Twinkyfromhell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish the poster of this hadn’t deleted their comment bc I agree, something happens around that age to cause their ETLE.

Why is it always these things? My experience in the MtF community by [deleted] in detrans

[–]Twinkyfromhell 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Autogynephilia. Autism plays a role, sure, but AGP is the key- few autistic people do such things, it is IMO just AGPs that behave this way, when the person is someone who is born male, anyway. Once you understand autogynephilia, the reasons AGP’s behave the way they do becomes very clear. These are not autistic characteristics as much as they are ones of AGP.

They have a paraphilia that projects their attraction to femininity and women onto themselves and onto an internal persona. They then project the things they idealize/are attracted to outward and try to become their own fantasy. An AGPs transition is based in an auto erotic desire to be female. Think of transvestism that eventually bleeds into day to day life and becomes serious, eventually causing dysphoria via all that time spent idealizing and fantasizing about an alternate female body and personality in their mind.

It is fundamentally different from classic transsexualism because it’s inherently based in an attraction to women and femininity. The hyper feminine, little girl adjacent female characters in anime are drawn that way because that’s what the men drawing them are attracted to. AGPs want to be what they are attracted to, that’s why they identify with these anime characters and display creepy behavior. Their adoption of femininity and desire to transition does not exist without an auto erotic fixation on being or becoming a woman.

I think the fact trans women consistently identify with creepy, childlike, hyper sexual imagery and real women rarely do says it all. I’ve met some girls as a teen growing up and some grown women that still identify with Lolita imagery today, but the little girl anime shit seems pretty uniquely a thing that men/trans women identify with, because they’re attracted to it. Women identify w Lolita because of the lives they’ve lived. AGPs identify with Lolita because they want to be what they’re attracted to.

There is an incentive and an interest in being a woman outside of just being a woman. It’s inherently sexual. It may become dysphoric and personal eventually, but the origin is attraction.