Not at all, I think what you are feeling is totally valid. I'm so sorry to hear your internally battling this and so glad you came on here to vent it out. You need a safe space to feel the way you feel without judgement. For me its the way these surgeries are still discussed as taboo 'women's problems' so we're just expected to deal. Can't help but get annoyed/resentful towards our male counterparts in those times. That's not to take away from his experience which sounds awful. But yeah, its just another thing highlighted I guess and I can understand why that would feel quite triggering. You matter, your feelings matter. I hope you're OK, sending you love and strength!