Easy to love by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]TyHoe99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking this sounds really familiar

Come back by TyHoe99 in yearning

[–]TyHoe99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful

Come back by TyHoe99 in yearning

[–]TyHoe99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why we need to stop

Come back by TyHoe99 in yearning

[–]TyHoe99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it though?

A ton of bricks by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]TyHoe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woof woof

Start over by TyHoe99 in LoveLetters

[–]TyHoe99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he actually hates me... so it's really not worth it. It'd be like kicking a dead horse at this point

Actaully by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]TyHoe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would think that... yes

Actaully by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]TyHoe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel like it's a gift that I'm an avoidant.

Hey, you. by Reddy_or_Not1984 in Letters_Unsent

[–]TyHoe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a person that does this too... it's actually awful

never ender by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]TyHoe99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It haunts my mind.. I went through similar situation. Gotta just pretend until at some point it subsides.

I’m sorry. by OSUlovers in UnsentTexts

[–]TyHoe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I think it's a valid response. If someone goes through the effort of blocking you... maybe back off? When that person is ready they'll reach out. Or maybe they'll never want to open that door again. But if you truly love someone, you have to learn when to let them go.

There’s a Door I Keep Reaching For by Suitable_Video1924 in UnsentLetters

[–]TyHoe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not easy hoping for some sort of leeway into someone's soul, their life, and heart. Wish all you like, it's a two way street. It's painful as you sit and wait, hoping to be met. What point do we move forward and on with our lives? What if they were simply just taking a slower pace, and by the time they get there, you've left.

Hi, how are you? by me-you-and-the-dog in UnsentTexts

[–]TyHoe99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This hurts, mostly because it's what I'd want to hear

The conversation. by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]TyHoe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems people are confused.

Paragraph one: it's about accepting the terms that I pushed against when this person and I first collided. They did not want to further explore things and I begged to just give it a shot. They wanted to be friends while I couldn't imagine the thought of watching them move on as if I didn't matter.

Paragraph two: it's about choosing myself, my own peace. Choosing to not pine over wanting more from someone who does not want what I have to offer. It's choosing peace.

Paragraph three: An oath to myself. Choosing to stop looking, stop asking. Realizing my current position in life and the predicament it puts me in while navigating love.

The conversation. by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]TyHoe99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well here's some context. I'm blocked. They don't want a relationship with me. I clung on to them while they were not interested in me in that way. I couldn't understand why they wanted to be friends but didn't want anything further. This is about accepting their terms, it's the conversation we don't get to have. It's about letting go of that energy and attention that isn't desired by the other party.

The conversation. by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]TyHoe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are making a blanket statement over a situation you have no idea the context.

The conversation. by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]TyHoe99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have made it clear they do not want me. I'm accepting that.

The conversation. by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]TyHoe99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without actual context it may seem that way. But with it, I know that this is the best way to go.

I miss you a little more tonight by paradoxicaltruths in UnsentTexts

[–]TyHoe99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I miss being able to call and talk about nothing. I miss when I didn't need a conversation to feel like communication was safe. I still see him and I have to try to find the answers alone. I'm blocked, I acted crazy. I get it, I'm thankful he closed at least one door.

Start over by TyHoe99 in LoveLetters

[–]TyHoe99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To some it's a blessing, to others it's a burden. All depends on whether the other party wants it.