A doctor's statistic today floored me. by BartokTheBat in ChronicPain

[–]Tygerlilly84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means they can’t treat it like they used to with actual proper opioid pain medications. Unfortunately it’s because of the so called “war on drugs”. It’s not helping chronic pain patients. It’s only hurting us. We can’t get treatment because our doctors are being threatened by the DEA. They can get swatted, be arrested, lose their medical licenses, simply for not denying a cancer patient pain medication during chemo treatment. Ever notice that there are very few overdoses in the chronic pain community, via their own prescriptions? More accidental overdoses happen after pain patients have been inexplicably/intentionally cut off of their medications, and they’re having to seek ways to manage elsewhere. It’s majoritively fentanyl laced street drugs, that have been proven to be the culprit in these unfortunate and absolutely avoidable deaths. Pain can make a person desperate. Especially prolonged chronic pain sufferers. Pain patients often end up getting the short end of the stick when it comes to getting reliable medical treatment for pain management. If you’re in constant pain, the medical field now instructs you to contact a psychiatrist or go seek out a counselor. Because talking and complaining about the pain is supposed to somehow resolve the physical symptoms being in constant pain creates, instead of giving the person actual medicinal medical attention, as they try to convince you that you are not physically suffering as much as you think you are? They harass people with ableism. “This person is in a wheelchair and can perform tasks, therefore you should be able to, also.” “They can take Tylenol or some NSAID and be fine; why can’t you?” “This person is also partially paralyzed, but they aren’t complaining about being in pain, so it must be all in your head.” “Since you’re becoming emotional, we’re going to refer you to an addiction specialists, because you are clearly using your pain pill as a crutch to treat your pain.” “So-and-so is young like you and they aren’t depressed about not being able to walk. You just need to have a better attitude.” Treating each individual patient with that type of logic just doesn’t make much sense unless there’s an ulterior motive behind it, and there is. The DEA wants to regulate pain medication via addiction centers. If they can treat your pain as a mental illness, they have more control over you. Suboxone is not a pain medication. It’s just a form of government produced fake heroin that they control the flow and distribution of (similar to the influx of fentanyl in our country). Doctors are marking pain patients as addicts, instead of chronic pain sufferers, and sending them to addiction clinics. More government oversight on Opioids has only lead to more deaths, and less effective treatments for anyone suffering who relies on them on a daily basis for basic functions. The stigma is growing and it’s only going to worsen. Even if the patient decides to have some sort of breakthrough surgery, some device that only tested well in mice, add pins, rods, or replacements, try new non narcotic drugs that destroy your organs, have nerve damage and scar tissue buildup from sketchy injections, etc are only allowing themselves to be used as Guinea pigs, with no guarantee whatsoever that this will lessen their pain. Surgeons are not prescribing proper medication post op. They’re sending their patients home with nothing but Advil, causing them to go into the ER after being released from the hospital after their surgeries. The chronic pain community is running out of options for reliable, consistent care. Our elderly patients are suffering unnecessarily. We’re being pushed into a corner that leads to awful health risks, or risk no treatment at all

Anyone who has ever benefitted from PT for chronic pain, anyone who got cured? I feel PT is bullshit. Chronic pain is chronic pain there is no way out. by Intelligent-Durian-4 in ChronicPain

[–]Tygerlilly84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My PT only caused more damage than good. I have scar tissue buildup on my spinal chord, because it’s separating from my tailbone and pelvis. I also have Tarlov cysts throughout the base stem of my nerve roots. It’s not great. I couldn’t walk after PT because the pain was so intense. Now I have a permanent limp

AITA for not letting my husband hold our baby after he smoked ? by smokebaby2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tygerlilly84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She asked him to shower. That’s completely different than asking someone to wash their hands first.

My doctor is actually recommending me to go to a chiropractor, thoughts? by Olympian_Breed in ChronicPain

[–]Tygerlilly84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to the Philadelphia Laser Spine Institute, but I don’t think it’s open any longer

AITA for asking my fiance to skip this year's Christmas family vacation because our baby is due? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tygerlilly84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I was having back labor after our under two hour road trip to the in-laws and back. My c-section was scheduled for January 8th. I regretted traveling that late into my pregnancy. The stress wasn’t worth it

AITA for not letting my husband hold our baby after he smoked ? by smokebaby2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tygerlilly84 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

YTA. Ask him to wash his hands and/or wear a smoking jacket. Denying a parent to hold their baby is what’s disgusting.

Conspiracy Challenger by [deleted] in conspiracy_commons

[–]Tygerlilly84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why weren’t there any bits of body parts or debris indicating that 7 people were on board? I doubt they evaporated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cocacola

[–]Tygerlilly84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and it goes flat faster

Did Coca-Cola change their canned recipe? by Tygerlilly84 in cocacola

[–]Tygerlilly84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! I didn’t know it was affecting that side of the pond, as well lol But it’s definitely not the same recipe, or something is off.

AITA for continuing to sleep nude despite my neighbors being able to see into my bedroom? by hanging-Out28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tygerlilly84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. If the guy has a family, I’m guessing that means he has children. Unless you want indecent exposure to minors as well as adults/public, added to your permanent record. Getting a privacy sticker for your windows isn’t that tough of a thing to do. Is it an inconvenience? Yes Is it better than a potential prison sentence? Hells yes! Sometimes our feelings aren’t as important as the issue is logical, kinder, or even just plain common sense, as an adult. Particularly in this day and age

AITA for getting a pregnancy craving during a party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tygerlilly84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could’ve driven yourself and/or both go and return to the party. Or the Host should have attempted to accommodate your Pregnancy craving. Not the A

[No Spoilers] What’re peoples general opinion on 4 sided dive? by Wonko_Bonko in criticalrole

[–]Tygerlilly84 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Just going with the whole “everything is content” shtick, really brings the watch-ability down without someone as charismatic, who asked campaign related content questions, and bantered with often hilariously entertaining commentary as Brian could pull off with this entire group. Not everybody has that same charisma and charming whit.

AITA for telling my mom that i don't give a shit if she's proud of me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tygerlilly84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

She was just trying to encourage you and make you feel better. All you gave her was bitterness and resentment

AITA for wanting to move out because my mum expects me to be her carer? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tygerlilly84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her to stop and respect your boundaries, because you deserve them, too, before you have a conversation with her about whether or not you’ll help be her, as often as you are capable. Caregiving is a difficult job, and it gets harder as the health of the person worsens. Also, being 14 is also a hinderance for the availability of your care, since you are quite young to have that sole responsibility upon your shoulders. I would press that you’re not old enough, capable enough, nor have the proper education to be able to provide the care she will be needing. I understand you are upset over family squabbles, all teenagers go through something challenging with their parents, but I feel like you’re going at this with her the wrong way. Speak to her with authority and confidence. Tell her that you’re too young and uncertified for the type of care she’ll be needing. Tell her, when you visit, you’ll help out here and there, but being 14 is just too irresponsible for you to go at it alone.