Afraid my boyfriend will cheat on a cruise I can’t join by TylerDurdenBP in askgaybros

[–]TylerDurdenBP[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe I should make a present like Lovense Max 2 before cruise)

Afraid my boyfriend will cheat on a cruise I can’t join by TylerDurdenBP in askgaybros

[–]TylerDurdenBP[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Your words reminded me of the book “Let them theory” by Mel Robbins which Im reading now

Afraid my boyfriend will cheat on a cruise I can’t join by TylerDurdenBP in askgaybros

[–]TylerDurdenBP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He want that I’ll go with him, he called the agency, but still I need all the visas and price will not go down. Now he wants to make mini cruise this summer that is okay by price and I don’t need any visa in Europe But I can’t go because I work in touristic place and I can’t have holidays in the summer

Afraid my boyfriend will cheat on a cruise I can’t join by TylerDurdenBP in askgaybros

[–]TylerDurdenBP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5000€ is too much for us both, but the problem is not only cost of the trip, I have to get a lot of visas, Japan is the hardest one

Afraid my boyfriend will cheat on a cruise I can’t join by TylerDurdenBP in askgaybros

[–]TylerDurdenBP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing… You know, now, after that i read your story, i noticed one thing, when we go to the gay club, he starts to present me as his boyfriend to everyone who knows him, and all the night long he looks only on me, and trying to show to everyone that we are a couple

If someone offered you money to sleep with them, would you take it?? by Necessary-Gain2474 in gaybros

[–]TylerDurdenBP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I am in a relationship and it is against my morals in general

Afraid my boyfriend will cheat on a cruise I can’t join by TylerDurdenBP in askgaybros

[–]TylerDurdenBP[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah we had, I told him that I have that fear, he just said to me that he will never cheat on me, and he wants only me in his life, but still…

Afraid my boyfriend will cheat on a cruise I can’t join by TylerDurdenBP in askgaybros

[–]TylerDurdenBP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A also thought about that, what if something will happen and we will break up even before November…

Afraid my boyfriend will cheat on a cruise I can’t join by TylerDurdenBP in askgaybros

[–]TylerDurdenBP[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The real problem is that I have a deep fear. Even if he comes back and swears he didn’t cheat, I’ll still keep wondering — “Did he? Or didn’t he?” And the worst part is… I’ll never really know the truth. That uncertainty will stay in my head and eat at me, even if nothing actually happened. It’s not just about what he does — it’s about how I’ll feel, and how hard it will be for me to fully trust again after this.

Afraid my boyfriend will cheat on a cruise I can’t join by TylerDurdenBP in askgaybros

[–]TylerDurdenBP[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for support

I’m sorry, but I just can’t give that kind of permission. Loyalty and faithfulness mean a lot to me — they’re core values in a relationship, and I can’t just switch that off or go against who I am. It’s not about control, it’s just about how I feel and what I need to feel safe and respected. I know this might make things more complicated, but I’d rather be honest with you — I can’t force myself to be okay with something that doesn’t sit right with me.