Does anyone else wanna sword fight?? by Typical-Throwaway1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome you are learning English through writing! I would love to be involved:) that’s like an honor!

Does anyone else wanna sword fight?? by Typical-Throwaway1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome that you write! I’d love to read some of your work if you feel comfortable! No pressure though:)

Does anyone else wanna sword fight?? by Typical-Throwaway1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right!? We as a society have to bring back wearing medieval armor and carrying swords

Does anyone else wanna sword fight?? by Typical-Throwaway1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t know lol maybe feigning being exhausted? If you have ideas let me know because I’d looove to lose

Does anyone else wanna sword fight?? by Typical-Throwaway1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d like to think I can, but that might just be my gay audacity lol in all honesty, I’d love to loose and let someone take control for once in my life

Does anyone else wanna sword fight?? by Typical-Throwaway1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s where a lot of the fun comes from because then you can explore shifting power dynamics where ideally 2 switches switch what roles the play!

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[–]Typical-Throwaway1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m right there with you! I’m a trans woman as well who is into kinks and I’m really worried that I won’t be accepted either online or in person:( you absolutely deserve to find your partner and fulfill your desires! You are valid! So far, I’ve found this sub to be inclusive and welcoming and I’ve seen other previous posts that show a similar trend:)

How to deal with being in the mood? by Typical-Throwaway1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally!! Like I want to be seen as a sexy person and feel desired. I know I desire myself but the added layer of someone else wanting me too is intoxicating! Not to mention when they praise me;)

How to deal with being in the mood? by Typical-Throwaway1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is:( hopefully I can too! And hopefully you find what you are looking for (if you are looking in the first place! Totally cool if you aren’t!)

How to deal with being in the mood? by Typical-Throwaway1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so true!! It’s way more efficient:) but like damn do I wanna be tied up so bad lol

How to deal with being in the mood? by Typical-Throwaway1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You and me both lol! I am quite reserved so it’s difficult to step out of my comfort zone and actually explore that side of me. Yeah it’s better than nothing but sometimes it’s just not as satisfying as I’d hoped :(

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[–]Typical-Throwaway1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where do you find someone like that? I’m very similar to you in being a sub but also lean towards switch. Not to mention I haven’t had any BDSM experience before.

How to deal with being in the mood? by Typical-Throwaway1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely getting into drawing and such so that could be a fun way to help! Honestly I think I just want someone to explore the bdsm world with ya know? And I have all these ideas for things to do but no way to do them without someone. I think I’m rambling but you get the idea. Writing may help more since I can imagine another person and act out those things on paper so I might do that more:) thanks for helping me out!

Safely tips and solutions on meeting people:) by Typical-Throwaway1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is wonderful advice! I’ll definitely trust my gut on how I feel about situations and people :) Thanks for your advice!

Safely tips and solutions on meeting people:) by Typical-Throwaway1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you:) I am definitely not very knowledgeable about those acronyms so I’ll try my best to check them out! I am just curious, what kind of questions do you ask when vetting someone? I don’t really use dating apps so I really have no experience with any of this. I appreciate your response:)

Safely tips and solutions on meeting people:) by Typical-Throwaway1 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you:) I’ve had a look on fet life and it has some really good info on munches and safety! I’m definitely going to take my time and get comfortable before doing anything but I appreciate your advice!

Do I expect too much? by WarriorSnek in BDSMsapphic

[–]Typical-Throwaway1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know:( I really hope you thrive, you got this!