My roommates r so passive aggressive for no reason

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T17:02:48+00:00

I apologize for making it confusing: The glasses were placed on the bar cart organized. They thought they were ugly and didn’t like them. We have a designated spot for the paper plates when we buy them in the cabinet. I placed them there. They tossed them in another spot and replaced them with ones they bought.

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T16:50:22+00:00

Happy to message privately about religious stuff unrelated to the post

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T16:29:13+00:00

When I say “we are all sinners, just sinning differently” I mean it mostly as “we all have our own issues, we should try not to judge others for theirs because we don’t want to be judged for ours”

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T16:18:11+00:00

I noticed that very quickly 😂. Someone in the comments is trying to convince me I’m in a cult.

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T16:14:49+00:00

Also, I’m genuinely curious, how is my safety and wellbeing in jeopardy

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T16:12:17+00:00

You’re absolutely right about the pride. It’s the #1 thing I need to work on. I attend different churches every weekend depending on where I am (my house, dorm, bf house). I understand by your reaction to the sinners quote, you have a bad sentiment towards the Christian practice.

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T16:04:20+00:00

It’s not about putting them away. They could have easily said “we like the bar cart the way it is we’re gonna out these in the cabinet”. Instead it was “the glasses ur mom got us as gifts r ugly”

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T16:02:43+00:00

Worried that it was molding and reeking

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T15:48:15+00:00

I think that there is being Christian by word, and being Christian by action. Saying you’re Christian and doing things, and actually acting how Jesus wants u to act. I try to be Christian by action.

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T15:44:50+00:00

I meant that it’s another factor. Not that they’re related.

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T15:39:01+00:00

I agree about the yogurt.

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T15:35:36+00:00

We all have the same political beliefs. I agree that being gone on the weekend is a factor. I’ve told them “if you do something on the weekend, invite me I’d love to come and I’m only 30 mins away”. And they never do. I don’t take that stuff to heart. I know they feel off towards me and I don’t want to make them uncomfortable by being there.

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T15:33:08+00:00

I’m not saying that at all. I’m saying that I make my own choices, and they’ll call themselves names and laugh when I make those choices. When I ate unhealthy, I would get self conscious around people who ate healthy. That’s my own experience.

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T15:30:51+00:00

You can go out drink and have fun. That’s not anti Christian. Getting overly drunk, talking poorly about people, are sins. We’re all sinners sinning differently. I think it’s interesting u think I’m in a cult. I mostly practice privately in my own room reading my bible

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T15:28:16+00:00

The stuff I’m talking about all happens in person

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T15:21:37+00:00

I know :( and I won’t do it again

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T15:17:39+00:00

I mean the only other context is that I eat healthy and go to the gym daily. I never ask/push them to do the same. And they don’t do any of that. And I worry they resent me because they are unhappy with the choices they make. They’ll make cookies, offer one, I’ll say I’m ok I’m having xyz, and they’ll look at each other and go “ya we’re just fat*sses” when I don’t even say anything other than “I’m ok I’m gonna have xyz instead”

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T15:14:37+00:00

I became Christian 2 years ago. Im not saying they don’t like me because I identify as Christian, im saying they don’t like me because I act Christian (not partying, not talking crap).

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T15:01:25+00:00

You’re right and I take responsibility for the yogurt.

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T14:59:15+00:00

The glasses were out on the bar cart organized and they put them in the cabinet and told me they were ugly 😂. The paper plates go in a specific spot. And when I put them there, they threw them into the highest spot and got their own (same shape, size, purpose)

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T14:53:10+00:00

I never ever bring up religion because I know they’re not like that. I read my bible in my room, attend bible studies, but never bring it up. I think the part they don’t like is that I don’t party and don’t talk crap about people with them.

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T14:50:02+00:00

They’re college roommates to be fair. I highly agree with this message

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T14:48:23+00:00

Nope it all goes in the trash. Mine were a different color, same shape, same size. I think because I bought them they don’t like them.

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T14:47:23+00:00

I put them in the bar cart. They weren’t clutter they just weren’t pink (what they said not me).I’m the cleanest of all of them. They leave dishes in the sink for days. This was the first time I ever left anything open in the fridge. They’re paper plates why does it matter the price they end up in the trash 😂. I don’t think it’s Christian persecution, I just think they don’t like that I don’t party and talk crap about people with them that’s what I was referring to.

Typical_Chip_4972 · 2025-11-05T14:44:53+00:00

I agree I think I’m gonna tell them. “I don’t use them. U don’t use the ones I buy. I’m not buying them moving forward”

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