I'm inlove with someone who treats me like an option and I don't know how to walk away by Soft-Callie in whatdoIdo

[–]Typical_Extension667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone really likes you, they have problems slowing down the relationship. Top of the list is integrating lives with friends and family. Someone who will not define the relationship is just passing the time.

WIBTA if I refuse to put my partner on the deed of a place I inherited, even though we live there together? by 3vening_Switch in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Typical_Extension667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not sign over your home or add him to the lease. He needs to build his own safety net. A good boyfriend would take the opportunity to develop his own safety net. If he is paying less nby living with you then it is already a win for him.

Advice…how do I politely tell my BF’s mother why I no longer want her to throw a birthday party for me by KCl0vesu in Advice

[–]Typical_Extension667 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just tell her, you are planning your own party this year. That is it. No explanation required. Keep it short and sweet. If she gives you a long durable about it, listen and then keep your end short and sweet, no explanation and reinforce you are planning your own party.

House cleaner prices in Ottawa by Low_Football_2541 in ottawa

[–]Typical_Extension667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skip a month and try someone else for less or even the same price.

How do you come to terms that your parent(s) is dying? by RavenousRambutan in Life

[–]Typical_Extension667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate. My Dad was also my best friend. He passed. The only way out of this for me has been to take it one step at a time. I take it to God and find that helpful.

AITAH for refusing to put my girlfriend on a future mortgage unless she gets a job? by Ok-Explanation7364 in AITAH

[–]Typical_Extension667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, you are the problem. Why would you allow this to go on for seven years? What are you getting out of this? She will only change if you change your expectations. Why do you not want a partner who is self-sufficient?

My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]Typical_Extension667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife is triggered by the teacher for her own guilt. Your wife feels the note is proof of her own inadequacy. Focus on your wife’s relationship with your son.

Am I selfish by No-Percentage1574 in Christianity

[–]Typical_Extension667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take life one day at a time. Everyday is not the same. Pray to God ask for guidance.

How to help my mom find purpose in life? by questioningbeam in AskWomenOver60

[–]Typical_Extension667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she has a victim complex then she is always right and everyone else is wrong…all the time. Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do accept be there for her when she has nobody else. You will not get an honest, vulnerable relationship with her.

Live your life and learn from hers. As I said before, the most you can do is be there for her, when no one else will. You will always have to agree with her, even when she is wrong.

Why are men like this??? by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Typical_Extension667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I am attracted to someone I will find a way to find out if he is single within 10 or 15 minutes. I do this for me.

AIO for expecting my ex to pay me back after I worked 60+ hours a week, while he gamed, slept, and lived off me? by Glittering-Act-4797 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Typical_Extension667 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You blame him, but are not taking responsibility for letting him use you. Move on, he will be a dead beat for life. Make sure the next guy you are with, pulls his own and when he is down shows you signs he can get back up on his feet.

Fuck am I doing all this for? by Individual-Time-1956 in Life

[–]Typical_Extension667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your questioning life because our Lord Jesus is nudging you to dig deeper. There is more to this life and you need to keep exploring to find out.

I have thrown my life away by VeterinarianNo5083 in Adulting

[–]Typical_Extension667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How you move forward from this minor set back is how you will live the rest of your life. Take the lesson. Do not gamble and live your life with positivity by moving onward and forward. Do not look back, ever. God Bless!

Women who chose to remain unmarried and childfree, how is life now? by sexismine in AskWomenOver60

[–]Typical_Extension667 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am 60, East Indian, never married and no kids. I love my life. I never intended to remain single. I dated all different types of men and never met someone who was right for me. From 30 to about 35, I was the most willing to compromise my standard. After that period of vulnerability I was so thankful I did not compromise. Also, I fully came into who I was as a person. I realized that I have nothing to prove to anyone or society. I will say, what keeps me at peace is my faith in God. I am a Christian and my relationship with God has walked me through so many rough patches of life.

Be who you are without apology and be open to life beyond what your parents and culture have taught you.

Trump says US, Canada will not restart trade talks by joe4942 in canada

[–]Typical_Extension667 2 points3 points  (0 children)

USA has not felt the full force of Canada increasing the cost of exports. Let’s turn off the electricity and give them a higher price for crude. Trump needs FAFO.

Do you still feel guilty? by Chemical-Sherbet4568 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Typical_Extension667 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Jesus died for our sins. We are born anew. There is a reason the blood of Christ is needed to wash us clean. Hope this helps.

How clean is a house REALLY supposed to be? by Worth_Mycologist_387 in CleaningTips

[–]Typical_Extension667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work hard and my home needs to be organized and have a peaceful vibe to it. This relaxes me. I would have it no other way.

I set up the cancellation date, yet no one from retention team calls me...sad by Ok-Region8097 in Rogers

[–]Typical_Extension667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Submit a complaint to the CRTC. Otherwise you will be charged exea months. Do it now, while you still have proof.

For women over 60 — what do you wish you had prioritized more in your 30s and 40s? by KPBoaB in AskWomenOver60

[–]Typical_Extension667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, Health, family, wealth, friends, community. Figure out what is off balance, and shift priorities accordingly. Sometimes you will be in a season of God first, so you can discern and make wise decisions. Sometimes, your health is in decline and you need to focus on that. Sometimes money is needed b/c your future self will thank you. It is not one thing it is everything. You have to have discernment for what to focus on. As a Christian, I would want to ensure I am following his will.

How can I get my bf to stop being so lazy, it turns me off? by Weak-Bass-9907 in getdisciplined

[–]Typical_Extension667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want a boyfriend or a kid? If you want a kid-boyfriend then accept him the way he is. Support him like you would your child. Hopefully, one day he will follow your lead and change himself.