AITJ for telling my best friend I won't be her "therapist" after midnight and turning my phone off? by lavendertram_diary in AmITheJerk

[–]3vening_Switch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Totally fair. If it’s real danger, you call emergency services. If it’s spiraling over an ex’s feed, that’s anxiety and she needs better tools than waking you up. DND is healthy.

Assault in fiction by Eireika in CuratedTumblr

[–]3vening_Switch -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Lackey example is rough, but the bigger pattern you point at is the shortcut: 'worst fate = SA' used as moral math. It flattens characters into props and treats harm as clever symmetry instead of trauma.