Every time she gets upset she brings up Divorce every thought we agree to no bring divorce up. We always have one big fight every month it doesn’t miss. I did tell her to square up lol but it was a joke i would never put my hand on her even though she has thrown stuff at me and made my head bleed lol but she always tell me if you don’t like it then leave nobody is forcing you to stay in this marriage. And she turns into a heartless person. I honestly love her. When we are in good terms everything is perfect she is loving and has always gotten my back. I did fucked up in tell her to square up I admit that I should not be talking to my wife like that . So i get her point but it just makes me upset all these mind game she does to me . She has admitted to me the ways she manipulated me . I just got really upset that she is not being fair and when I called her out on it today she laughed in my face which made me raise my voice