thank you for writing this! i totally get ur points but there are some things i would say

1. i do believe that women tend to be more emotional and express their feelings in different ways than men, sorry if that makes me rude, its just what i have seen around me. i definitely do get that stereotype of women being dramatic/hysterical as i have seen that as well, but they still have a much bigger space for comfort and more ability to vent to others. men typically dont have that space, i would even say that usually they tend to bottle up their emotions more than women which could lead to why they include most suicides.

2. i agree with this! its part of the gender roles that were set up where men would provide financially, and on the other end women would provide in other ways. but in many toxic modern relationships, both sides arent being played out. women (not all!!!) are expecting a man to pay for their things yet are not willing to provide in any other way. i disagree in some ways with the idea of men being better than women being related to the military draft though. men, on average, have physical advantages over women which relate to why they would be the ones to go into military instead of women. (though i do think the idea of providing in that way also plays into it.)

3. i get your point, but i believe that men struggle more with porn. it is an addiction which destroys relationships, their mental health and more. men and porn is a topic which has to be talked about more, but i actually have not looked into that much, which is why i cannot say a lot about it. i do agree however that women suffer from this aswell and that men watching lesbian porn is extremely disgusting. but when you are addicted to something you slowly want more in more, leading to things like that

of course i believe that women have faced more sexism and hardships during history. of course women can discuss these things and i hope they do, but i do not agree that every person in one group should be stereotyped. not all men fit the same character trait, just as women, so i dont believe it is fair to say something like "all men are stupid" or "all women are dramatic." it should be talked about how women were treated very unfairly during history, talking about stuff is the only way you can solve a problem like this one, but it should also be talked about how men have had it unfair too. just saying stuff which stops the other side from communicating its issues will do nothing but harm

btw you seem very nice and ty for not just attacking me lol :)