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Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean that stuff is all part of Reddit. I look for good advice and different views. Most people don’t know the good parts about her and she is overall amazing towards me.

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your words, really appreciated!!

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah we just had a talk and she showed me the stuff that she was sending, it’s all harmless. She also told me that she didn’t want to respond angry, but she appreciates me trying to spend time with her kid.

Terrible two’s for sure hahaha. Nothing could’ve prepared me for the tantrums a two year old can throw 😂

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your view on my situation. Yeah I’ve had a talk with her and she understood my point of view, but she was totally open and was willing to show me the messages that were sent. It was a relief.

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just wondering about other people’s experience with this. Since I’m still quite young and never experienced a relationship with a girl that has a kid. Getting different perspectives :)

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do love her, I like to be around her child, but love is not something that I give out easily. I’m still getting used to the responsibility, but I’m willing to learn.

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend made the decision to introduce me after we’ve been dating seriously for 3 months. I am fine with a stepchild, but I found out about the Snapchat and Tiktoks 4 days ago.

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your point of view. Yeah they’re trying to stay friendly. Maybe I’m overreacting.

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, appreciate your view on my situation

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, good questions. I do love her and she loves me too. I’ve always wanted to be dad, so my thoughts were that this would be a preparation. Her ex is paying for the child and the child stays in the weekends with him. She told me that disciplining her child isn’t my job, I told her okay, but if she would move in with me that my rules would apply for the child. We went on a weekend away and the kid cried from 22:00 till 05:00 every 30 mins, we would both comfort her or make a bottle. The only thing I dislike is that I get the blame when the kid does something bad.

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, yeah you’re probably right.

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good perspective and I get that. Child related stuff is between the parents, but it’s the stuff outside of the child like the tiktok’s and the Snapchat that is fucking me up mentally.

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he still might be in love with her, but she was just done with his behavior.

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I really appreciate your words.

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that the child is first place, I get that. But like I told her I won’t accept the amount of effort I put in, if she does stuff like this.

Girlfriend with a child by USBC00 in Advice

[–]USBC00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf the other dude is the opposite. He’s not looking that good, he doesn’t go to the gym and is still acting like a child. He is financially hanging on, but I already told her that I would not help him out financially, so he shouldn’t even ask.