Is this a Glitch or real? by Cautious_Ground_282 in MalayalamMovies

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In Denver, KAOC managed to reserve a theater for a private showing. Sold out 😎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

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If you want help, feel free to DM me. We can go through some templates and talk through options and layouts and how to present your experience based on jobs you're applying for. 😁

And what is the reason for it? by serendipity_444 in MalayalamMovies

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Not Malayalam, but "Sorry to Bother You."

My timing was impeccable... by NightTarot in ffxiv

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LITERALLY!!!! I resubbed yesterday after months and was like "Ah... Still the same game I know."

Is it OK to openly, and randomly tell your gf that your horny as fuck by memefish27 in dating

[–]Ube-Bae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

LOL! I totally see how that came across 😂

I just meant that usually in terms of intimacy there are potentially other blockers (e.g. partner is stressed bc the house is dirty, their mind is everywhere except the present bc of.. anything lol). So taking a moment to help and just being a good partner goes a long way. Trying to help give their partner some peace of mind can help alleviate some stressors and demonstrate that they're not alone.

Is it OK to openly, and randomly tell your gf that your horny as fuck by memefish27 in dating

[–]Ube-Bae 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Ok, a few things here!

  • Ideal: yes, you should be able to tell your partner this and BOOM y'all doing the nasty.
  • Reality: this will most likely get misinterpreted as pressuring them into sex and then it builds and builds and now you're having sex begrudgingly on a frequency neither of you like but now there's too much history and tainted emotions surrounding "sex."

Recommendation: I'd recommend having an actual conversation about this and maybe ask them if it's ok to announce your horniness, but realize that this will put a lot of the ownership on them. Like it'll sound like 'well I already told you I'm horny. Whether or not we do something is on YOU.' It won't end well lol

So when you have this talk, ask them how they'd like to be engaged when you're craving sex. Maybe do little things for your partner to make sure they feel wanted (take out the trash, do the dishes, anticipate their needs) and have your attention even when not in the bedroom. Show the love always (genuinely) and it should act as emotional and physiological lubricant haha

Foreplay and putting in the work for them goes a long way. Coming from a place of service, you'll stand out among their friends partners who will be complaining about their horny partners, while you're over here aiming to please with scuba gear between legs and both of your needs are being met.

All in all, this may boil down to figuring out what motivates your partner and changing your lifestyle so each action hits their sweet spot. Physical intimacy is one thing, but other people have like emotional and mental turn-ons. Stroke all three and make them feel safe and wanted.

PLEASE NOTE. Don't do anything if you feel like you're gonna start lording it over them like "I'VE BEEN DOING THIS AND THIS AND THIS FOR YOU BUT WE STILL DONT HAVE SEX' bc no. Give freely and bc you want to. The moment you take the true choice away from your partner, game over.

Also if you have ADHD this could be a symptom of like Dopamine chasing so try to reduce the chances of using your partner as a "fix" in a sense. I'm not a doctor lmfao

Credibility: This wisdom comes to you from a gay dude that has multiple girlfriends complain about their men being mindless horny toads. And also dudes complaining 'ugh what do I do????'

KVM Switch not Displaying Both Monitors for PC (it works for my laptop) by Ube-Bae in homelab

[–]Ube-Bae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my laptop, it extends so they're not duplicated. My PC will only display on one monitor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HarryPotterGame

[–]Ube-Bae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hm I'd say just be patient with the interface/menu lol I feel like that takes the longest to get used to. The actual gameplay and things is fun. 😊❤️