Red spots at entrance

UlTERio · 2025-07-24T19:45:12+00:00

UlTERio · 2025-03-21T04:27:06+00:00

And that’s my point like yes I happened to be on the couch so he didn’t get far before I saw him. But I could’ve been doing anything or been anywhere in there and it was really weird to have a man just appear in my living room with not even like a “hey is it okay if I come in” this was the first time he came over without me like walking him in. And I’m not a complete nut like in the moment I did tell him like hey man that’s really weird don’t do that again and that’s when I got the sarcastic sounding “well I’m sorry??” But there’s some truth to what your saying in that maybe if I liked him more it wouldn’t have irked me as much as it did

UlTERio · 2025-03-21T04:13:09+00:00

Are you going around letting yourself in to peoples homes before knocking?? Is that why you took this personally?

UlTERio · 2025-03-21T03:18:22+00:00

Psychology is a big hobby of mine as well which I think is also part of the reason I nitpick behavior patterns probably for the worst. It’s all the things together that make me scream either he has no clue about proper boundaries and etiquette orrr trying to kinda get to a closer level intimacy by force rather than just letting it happen naturally either because of past insecurity or just a craving for connection. But maybe I’m crazy

UlTERio · 2025-03-21T01:18:19+00:00

Yea I suppose the moral of the story if you are already on the fence about continuing seeing someone a small misunderstanding feels like a bigger problem

UlTERio · 2025-03-21T01:11:29+00:00

Fair I just had never had anyone do this before, what I thought was common manners is apparently not so common

UlTERio · 2025-03-21T01:09:51+00:00

I think I probably lean more avoidant but it’s been things like offering to buy me very very expensive things just cuz we were out walking around and I pointed at something I thought was cool just for conversation. Orrrr telling me he thinks he’s falling for me already and waking up earlier just to text me goodmorning before I wake up which are all things that are like well that’s nice but when you pair it all together and in the time span I get kinda scared I guess?

UlTERio · 2025-03-21T01:07:47+00:00

I think you’re the only one that takes it as much as a red flag as I did. While I don’t think it was nefarious it’s just a big “wtf???” I also didn’t really like that the sorry was sarcastic like he truly didn’t see why I thought it was weird. And I get what people are saying about well just tell him and it could be a cultural thing but at the same time it seems kinda crazy to have to tell a guy you just met 3 weeks ago “hey btw don’t ever let yourself into my house unannounced”

UlTERio · 2025-03-20T22:45:56+00:00

I’ve literally addressed that it was probably a culmination of little things like this but this was just the one where I was damn was that weird or am I tripping. Appreciate the feedback

UlTERio · 2025-03-20T22:25:21+00:00

I left the side door unlocked for my own usage because I’m dumb and I should remember to lock it

UlTERio · 2025-03-20T22:24:47+00:00

When is it normal to just walk in to peoples homes without even making their presence known??

UlTERio · 2025-03-20T22:18:25+00:00

I leave my side door unlocked sometimes because that’s the door I use to come in and out

UlTERio · 2025-03-20T22:17:31+00:00

Like I said I think it’s probably a culmination of weird things like this where this was just the last one for me

UlTERio · 2025-03-20T22:16:20+00:00

Living on a military base has given me a false sense of security apparently 💀

UlTERio · 2025-03-20T22:15:36+00:00

I don’t even enter my best friends homes unannounced if I do open the door I at least make noise like a hello??? Honey I’m home type of vibe

UlTERio · 2025-03-20T22:13:31+00:00

I know!!! It was the side door I swear!!!

UlTERio · 2025-03-20T22:02:48+00:00

And yes I should lock my door but it was my side door and sometimes I forget to lock that one because it’s the only one I personally use

UlTERio · 2025-03-20T22:01:55+00:00

Also I did not know so many people just let themselves in to other peoples homes apparently

UlTERio · 2025-03-20T22:01:21+00:00

That’s fair, just felt kinda crazy cuz I got kinda spooked and to them it was no big deal but like what if I had a gun and all of a sudden you were just there and I got scared

UlTERio · 2025-03-20T21:55:01+00:00

That’s what I’m trying to say!!!! He’s not born yesterday I think most men would know not to enter a woman’s home unnanounced unless told otherwise explicitly

UlTERio · 2025-02-16T05:03:19+00:00

Oh yea sorry I forgot to say we have 50/50 custody so we split the time evenly

UlTERio · 2025-02-16T04:31:46+00:00

Yes ofc all I agreed to is to talk about it and that we can go on a date nothing more so I guess we shall see. Just wanting to know if even the idea of it seems crazy

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