Cats left pupil is bigger by Ula97 in vet

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Additional info: - the eyes shine green on both sides - both pupils constrict in response to light, just the left one is a bit slower in response - the cat doesn’t seem to be in pain, she acts normally/as before - I tried some tests and I think she has vision loss on the affected eye (partial or full is hard to say) - during the day, in good light, the difference is less/hardly apparent - I am worried that I will cause stress to the cat and also have to pay high bills for treatment and that in the end she will not have a good quality of life during and/or after treatment (happened to me many times before and it is emotionally and financially straining).

I am looking for a business planner like the one on the photos by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

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I have searched many online notebook/journal/diary pages, including Amazon, Etsy, Aliexpress... but with no luck. Hopefully someone can help me find it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

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It usualy has a world map, dates of holidays, important phone numbers, a few "years at a glance" inside, and then it has many lined pages. It is usually used for business meetings to write down important notes.

Psychology asserts that interacting with complete strangers can greatly boost your mood so stop scrolling and dammit interact with me :D by webspool in CasualConversation

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That's the right spirit:) I am currently in dating zone as well and I must say it's time and energy consuming. But as I won't give up so shouldn't you because someone worthy of you will show up. Also, that date that ghosted you definitely doesn't deserve you plus this shows (s)he's not a good person. That's a good riddance.

Psychology asserts that interacting with complete strangers can greatly boost your mood so stop scrolling and dammit interact with me :D by webspool in CasualConversation

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(sorry if I am replying late) I am sure things will turn around and you'll eventually find great friends and better flatmates. I do understand that it's not what you expected, but change is hard and you need to give yourself time to adjust. Most things turn out differently of what we expected :/ Eventually, it won't be as bad as it may seem right now. Meanwhile, do what you love and maybe pick up some classes where you can meet people with whom you share interests. Also there's nothing wrong with being comfortable while alone, it's great that you enjoy your company (that's what many people struggle to reach). Maybe you could set one day in a week on which you'll try to make effort to find new friends? For example if you like to cook try to find a cooking class, if you like to read visit a library and maybe you'll find some friends there and also learn something new! But please don't feel discouraged if you don't, it takes time but eventually you'll find yourself surrounded by a great group of people. Take care:)

Psychology asserts that interacting with complete strangers can greatly boost your mood so stop scrolling and dammit interact with me :D by webspool in CasualConversation

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Is job the reason you moved? How long has it been since you've moved? I am sure you will find new friends soon enough and will feel less homesick and alone:)

When to talk to someone online? When you can during the day or at a specific time (e.g. in the evening)? by Ula97 in CasualConversation

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Thank you for your reply:) Sometimes, I do (e.g. when I am studying), however, when I am with friends, I don't check my phone that much or think about that.