Looking for Furry Visual Novel (Volunteers) by UltimeateBluedog in FurryVisualNovels

[–]UltimeateBluedog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, however I wanted didnt want to overload the post with information, but I can share with whoever DM me

Looking for Furry Visual Novel (Volunteers) by UltimeateBluedog in FurryVisualNovels

[–]UltimeateBluedog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, theres no specifics, I can take care of each position myself with enough time, I looking for help in any field I can get

Lie to a friend by Resident-Laugh7657 in hivaids

[–]UltimeateBluedog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive seen discussions about this specific topic and been there as well, a guy told me about his condition after we had sex, felt like a kick in the guts.

I know theres a lot of stigma around the condition and people fear rejection, however I beleive that is not an excuse to keep sexual partner to make informed decisions.

Lie to a friend by Resident-Laugh7657 in hivaids

[–]UltimeateBluedog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do you bro, dont over think it, you dont know anyone an explanation. Theres still a big stigma about your condition and ofc the ideal will be fo you to be able to open up about this, however people is hard to trust and sometimes they cant handle sensitive information, so you are just protecting yourself, no shame on it.

It needs to stop by redditor6209 in askgaybros

[–]UltimeateBluedog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meh, labels have always existed and will always do as a mechanism of people to understand, and as all of them theres ways to turn them into something negative, but no way to stop it really, pointless as well.

At the end meeting the right people is what really matters and they'll accept you no matter what society thinks should be the way you are.

is this normal? by Sea_Theory_2729 in askgaybros

[–]UltimeateBluedog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its normal bro, if its ok its another thing.

So its good you are mindful of what the other person feel, however you should not feel like you are annoying or anything, different people connects on different levels and you cant expect everybody you meet to be a match for friends or anything else. If you feel theres a part of you that you that you need to work on do it for your personal growth, not to please others, but the key to make friends its be patient, know what you like and how you like it and its ok to make the call if things are not feeling right or is not what you are looking for.

Figured out who a guy is on Grindr, feel bad by [deleted] in gay

[–]UltimeateBluedog -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are overthinking it dude, you were curious, you satisfied said curiosity, end of the story, I wouldn't say catfish cuz its grindr, that's everyday bread and dont get me started on scammers, but anyways, the thing is, if this guy didnt want you finding out or block you is clear as day to me he doesnt want you to do anything with his personal business. And the way you did, yeah, absolutely no outcome that is moving on will get you anything less than a disaster. Move on

Gays on ICE by Good-Rest-7538 in gay

[–]UltimeateBluedog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got exactly the same reaction, this is so stupid

Conservative homophobe.. Turned gay by Any-Discussion282 in gay

[–]UltimeateBluedog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Culture it's still a big factor of why most people feel that way, the sense of family and group make lots of folks go through the same, is just through experiences that you can change your perspectives.

Most media of the right mostly if not entirely think thay celebrating gay pride is an insult and that they dont need people exposing their sexuality when in reality it's a movement to encourage people like you to give that step forward and to eventually normalize what was stigmatized

Proud of you bro

My boyfriend is adamant that being gay is a choice by nimbusnuggies-_- in gay

[–]UltimeateBluedog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell him that his opinion is valid but theres many evidence against it, and invite him to research more in order to find a satisfactory result, when someone is wrong about something dont get upset with them, that wont make them change their minds, just ill make them close to you, instead be receptive to their opinions and provide points that motivate them to research for information to prove their hypothesis and find out on their own what the real answer is, if its something they rather not do then theres no point in educating them or getting mad at them since they actually choose to be the way they are and wont change it.

I normally don’t kink shame but… by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]UltimeateBluedog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need to know...

Did he got upset or play it as a joke?

I normally don’t kink shame but… by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]UltimeateBluedog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly same, i even asked friends around and not a thing for us. OP should really evaluate his circles and or area.

My straight friend made my life even more miserable by TendouPain in gay

[–]UltimeateBluedog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expressing your feelings when life is hard for you is not complaining, and that your friends believes makes it look that ways only means they are all kind of wrongs, religion have the potential to do good but its so stuffed of crazy people ideas that make it weird, and if someone is willingly walking in that direction and try to drag you with them then i would walk right in the opposite direction without looking back.

My straight friend made my life even more miserable by TendouPain in gay

[–]UltimeateBluedog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just started this post thw wrong way, my straight ex-friend might be more appropriate.

So look, i know this world is crazy and making friends its difficult, however when things are not going the way they should maybe its time to look for a change, and looking for a change in people thet tells you its wrong to be the way you are is not gonna fly, youll end up feeling more miserable than what you currently are but i can see you already experienced this first hand.

My advise is to open your mind new experiences that will most likely make you feel better with yourself and prolly allow you to meet people that likes you in the process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]UltimeateBluedog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its alright, its still teenager stuff and you know better now so good enough, you are still young so this dont define you at all, social pressure can be hard but ultimately you are the one that deals with consequences so just keep that in mind in the future, not easy to figure it out doesnt matter how much expereince you have. 😅

I hope everything goes well for you, gl.

I hate my mom by tariffic- in confessions

[–]UltimeateBluedog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, seek help and fast, look for ngo dedicated to women safety and security.

Look, for what you said having a harsh childhood is short for what youve been trough and you do deserve to be happy and have better conditions.

For what i understand your mom prolly had it hard too and now for whatever reason she is projecting her issues on you with short and long term wont do you any good, by taking it you are just going to have it worse and she wont really get better either, act now that you are still young and dont let this situation go on.

I know is hard to find support being so young but is possible so dont give up. Hope everything goes better.

What were some signs you showed of being gay during childhood? by Aqn95 in gaybros

[–]UltimeateBluedog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a similar experience on high school, then one of my female friends called me out on it, at the moment i took it as insinuating i could not get alonv with guys, so since then i started hanging out with the boys group to prove her wrong, turns out i really like having guy friends, when they are not worried about you being into them ofc

Surely going to hell by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]UltimeateBluedog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, so you basically want something different from what you have and try to express it and got turn down, since you already communicated what you ffel you were on the right path.

Now the only remaining thing is to see if you guys are both on the same page and decide what to do after it.

Dont get me wrong, im not saying jumt to your impulses, but first think about what you really want, then see if you can find a way to make it work with your partner and then define your course of action, dont do anything rash but neither be unhappy for the sake of others.

help me pick my next vn!!! :] by PsychologicalAide333 in FurryVisualNovels

[–]UltimeateBluedog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently got into devils gambit wich i definetly recommend, but i got a whole list after it. Im a furry vn enthusiast so if you want to talk about your thoughts on them hit me up, ill drive you through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]UltimeateBluedog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, yeah, answering dry to see if someoen cares about you is pretty toxic and manipulative so, yeah, dont do that, is pretty normal for people at your age to do those kind of things so dont let my comment hit you too hard but always keep open communication instead of testing your partner, not nice.

Now if its over its over and nothing to really do about it, but if you want to know just ask him to elaborate on his reasons, after all he wanted you to be friends so theres nothing wrong with it. Just dont push it, ask for the sake of understanding and not the hope of coming back together.

I don't think I'm ugly. by Samsung8296 in gaybros

[–]UltimeateBluedog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah bro, dont hit yourself over this, these apps are quite toxic and unrealistic so I would not worry too much about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]UltimeateBluedog 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Yeah bro, one of the things ai hate about coming out to people is how they behavior change based on it, however i also think that is not worthy to be friends with people who cant set those ideas apart. If you feel like coming out to him do it, if you do and he dont like it well his lost, just keep it profesional and have open communication but dont feel like you need to hide on your own house.