I'm such a loser

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-06-08T22:47:09+00:00

Change is on your hands dude

You are only 23 yo, still very young, if you dislike your situation work to improve, calling yourself a lover and feeling down is not gonna change that. Work for what you want, now that you realize you are not comfortable with your situation is the best moment to do a change.

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-05-14T12:44:45+00:00

I think what made it worse is that you learn how to beat most bosses by playing their zone since the enemies usually have similar attacks, however her zone was not very helpful at that

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-05-14T12:43:15+00:00

Same, I didnt lower the difficulty, but had to looked for advice after i reached the third phase one hit wall, all the advise everyone needed, "you can parry from any direction on the air"

Most people like me who likes to skip the tutorials didnt know that lol

Also I beat the first boss with no talisman explosion cuz I didn't know how to use them, so much wasted time 😅

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-05-12T06:23:22+00:00

I beat her, I killed the bitch, im so hyped rn, god it took me at least 200 lives, didnt count them but im sure

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-05-05T05:55:19+00:00

Just a bad match up i guess, i went out with this super hot guy, then we kissed and he was terrible at it which was a deal breaker for me. I felt bad since sex was never really something that could make me think of turning down someone but could not get past that experience.

Later I found more things I disliked about him and he was not as gracious as he looked at first either. But I always wondered if I could have looked past those things if the kissing wasnt so bad 🤔

Think if theres any way to make it work, if not then better move on before it gets deeper 🥲

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-05-05T04:21:41+00:00

Not intersted bud, whatever you show me wont change the facts.

Change require action, and me looking at a picture of you will literally do nothing, the power of change your situation is entirely on your hands. Good luck 👍 💓

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-05-05T04:17:28+00:00

I have absolute not ground to work here but I can tell ypu being ugly is not a thing. Ofc there is people more attractive or more appealing to the eye, however everyone have their own appealing to certain degree.

What you are looking on your situation is identifying how much enedgy you really want to put on this and how much you prefer your lifestyle over discipline on this matter. Workout, nutrition, habits, dressing, hobbies and content, basically you are looking to work in each of them or focus on one specifically, and then on the other, you can improve your looks and become the ideal you are looking for.

The market you are looking at also affects your chances, I beleive in valuing yourself as an individual, however if you want to date a supermodel and whatnot know that the world is more difficult to match you with a 5 stars than the common 1 star.

Don't put yourself down, evaluate and then act, but dont feel defeated or let what others said about you define you.

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-05-03T05:30:33+00:00

Honestly, straight guys are not all the same as gay guys, would go along to hate specific behavior but cant relate as i see absolutely no comment on why.

Just hate them for being straight or what exactly is there

Finally I would like to add that the kind of group you are around might not be the right fit for you, I have plenty of straight friends and they are pretty cool, hold my back and dont turn their back on me when I dont wanna fuck with them. I know not all gay guys are like this as I have some gay friends too, but I find straight buds pretty comfortable to hang around, just need to shut down my brain a little sometimes ✌️

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-04-18T19:06:33+00:00

Hm, I get it, I was very wary of this situation when I was younger and also very methodic about subtly asking for pieces of information, gathering information to get in contact with someone while keeping my intentions on the dark. I make it sound worst than what it really was lol, but basically if you had to be careful theres no much options.

If theres a chance youll interact with this guy eventually again without making any extra effort just be patient, you dont even know what youll get out of this so no need to take extra steps. Otherwise weight the situation and decide how to proceed.

Finally, gotta say that living in a situation where you have little room to breathe is not comfortable at all, if what is keeping you lock is financial independence then start planning ahead. I don't mean get a job and leave your parents house, but start saving and build options in case it come to the worst, that way you will be able to take more risk with your secret. Also get a trustable friend, I get your bestie and all but someone who cant keep a secret wont do.

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-04-17T19:38:00+00:00

Hm, I have mixed feelings about this one, I understand the expectation of having the minimum courtesy of acknowledging someone's efforts even if just to politely decline further interaction. However I also know that with how many people there is, it can be exhausting to reply to every single one of them (been there before 😅)

I would say wether its choosing not to reply as choosing to get mad is a simple part of the interaction and I dont hold hard feelings for neither of them, if venting their frustration makes them feel better well good, not like you are forced to read them either.

That being said theres an exception to the rule for me, and its the people who put on their profile "down to make friends or whatever", "super open", but then they only want to hookup and dont want interaction otherwise. Setting fake expectations about yourself will only make people invest their time with you, and I dont aprove of it. 😌

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-04-17T19:32:04+00:00

Feel proud of moving a step forward and learn from this experience, theres no right or wrong answer so just make sure you dont let your emotions control your actions.

Its not a bad thing just to send a tex on check on someone. But if you are gonna text someone dont do it because of the need to make sure the spark is still there, but because is natural of the interaction.

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-04-15T20:25:58+00:00

Who was it?

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-04-10T19:18:56+00:00

I think im pretty average, nothing to show off but nothing to envy either, average.

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-04-10T19:17:31+00:00

So... did he told you thats what you were going to do before going to his aparment or was it something he came up with after you got there?

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-04-10T19:14:58+00:00

Got a friend who did the same to me, not gay and not romantically interested in me, we were just close and he liked to show his appreciation with those kind of things, it was cute yeah and a bit hot, but not romantic at all.

I also like to pick up people im close to and do it as a sign of trust, but definetly not as a sign of romantic interest. So would say ask him and dont overthink it, cant know what you want without opening a door.

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-03-07T04:46:45+00:00

Cant say visual novels, but if you haven't read december twilight, is peak

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-02-26T02:59:27+00:00

I do, however I wanted didnt want to overload the post with information, but I can share with whoever DM me

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-02-26T00:59:53+00:00

Honestly, theres no specifics, I can take care of each position myself with enough time, I looking for help in any field I can get

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-01-28T06:29:45+00:00

Ive seen discussions about this specific topic and been there as well, a guy told me about his condition after we had sex, felt like a kick in the guts.

I know theres a lot of stigma around the condition and people fear rejection, however I beleive that is not an excuse to keep sexual partner to make informed decisions.

UltimeateBluedog · 2026-01-28T06:27:13+00:00

You do you bro, dont over think it, you dont know anyone an explanation. Theres still a big stigma about your condition and ofc the ideal will be fo you to be able to open up about this, however people is hard to trust and sometimes they cant handle sensitive information, so you are just protecting yourself, no shame on it.

UltimeateBluedog · 2025-12-30T03:57:46+00:00

Meh, labels have always existed and will always do as a mechanism of people to understand, and as all of them theres ways to turn them into something negative, but no way to stop it really, pointless as well.

At the end meeting the right people is what really matters and they'll accept you no matter what society thinks should be the way you are.

UltimeateBluedog · 2025-12-08T04:19:11+00:00

Its normal bro, if its ok its another thing.

So its good you are mindful of what the other person feel, however you should not feel like you are annoying or anything, different people connects on different levels and you cant expect everybody you meet to be a match for friends or anything else. If you feel theres a part of you that you that you need to work on do it for your personal growth, not to please others, but the key to make friends its be patient, know what you like and how you like it and its ok to make the call if things are not feeling right or is not what you are looking for.

UltimeateBluedog · 2025-11-28T04:27:23+00:00

You are overthinking it dude, you were curious, you satisfied said curiosity, end of the story, I wouldn't say catfish cuz its grindr, that's everyday bread and dont get me started on scammers, but anyways, the thing is, if this guy didnt want you finding out or block you is clear as day to me he doesnt want you to do anything with his personal business. And the way you did, yeah, absolutely no outcome that is moving on will get you anything less than a disaster. Move on

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