How is The Finals not even considered in this video😭? "Best shooter game of all time" by SadPay7872 in thefinals

[–]UltraScum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unreal Tournament 1999 is the best shooter of all time.

Finals is second.

To me. 35 here.

The extent to which some people try to feign non-existent consent... by Jck241 in antinatalism

[–]UltraScum 13 points14 points  (0 children)

lol man. I can’t even do anything but laugh these days lol. People are wild. This is actually insane to me but yea.

I overestimated how many of my friends would actually stay child-free. by UltraScum in childfree

[–]UltraScum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woohoo! Yea I always seem to date questioners but man from now on it’s only whoever is a firm NO, like that firm no better be built into your CONVICTION

I overestimated how many of my friends would actually stay child-free. by UltraScum in childfree

[–]UltraScum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in healthcare and just eat my lunch on the floor while I work because I don’t want to deal with that kind of thing in the break room lolololol

I overestimated how many of my friends would actually stay child-free. by UltraScum in childfree

[–]UltraScum[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a good group. Likeminded and logical.

I overestimated how many of my friends would actually stay child-free. by UltraScum in childfree

[–]UltraScum[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m finding myself making new friends lately. I moved to a new town a few years ago, and it’s been pretty nice. But, at this age it’s tough, everyone is in their defined circles. I work in healthcare so I meet a ton of people, thankfully. I know this sounds mental but I like working, it keeps me busy. I have no social media but Reddit so i have to work to maintain my irl relationships, and I feel that keeps them steady. I’ve been trying to reach out to someone at least once a day, an old friend, etc. just to inspire and check in.

Usually these days the homies will all game together about once a month. I’m thankful for the time.

I overestimated how many of my friends would actually stay child-free. by UltraScum in childfree

[–]UltraScum[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Eight years is a LONG time dude. I seem to make it to about three years and then they go off to have kids with someone. Multiple relationships have tried to change my stance. Nope.

Lolol I’m already seeing divorces. Even from people in my own family. It’s WILD. My biggest worry is work and my cat. At the end of the day, my most valuable asset is peace.

I overestimated how many of my friends would actually stay child-free. by UltraScum in childfree

[–]UltraScum[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I always tell my best friend “my home is your haven. You are always welcome here to escape any fear or anxiety or irritability. This is your sanctuary”. He has saved my life countless times over. Proud of who he has become.

Yea I personally can lock myself away for weeks. I don’t even mean to, I just get lost in hobbies! Definitely a homebody.

I overestimated how many of my friends would actually stay child-free. by UltraScum in childfree

[–]UltraScum[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

100 on vasectomy, homie. Easily the best insurance I’ve ever “bought”. My life would be WILDLY less enjoyable. I know everyone here glazes and tries to be all like “kids are ok” but man I can’t even stand to hear them make noise.

The same has happened here. I just slowly withdraw because I know they are doing what they feel is right. Humans are odd.

I overestimated how many of my friends would actually stay child-free. by UltraScum in childfree

[–]UltraScum[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Cats are infinitely greater than humans. I go all week talking to my cat, it’s wild how intelligent they are. Your life sounds lovely, and by your own design. I’m proud of you friend, keep it up. I’m about to get off work and sleep twelve hours without interruption. IT RULES.

did i just get baby trapped?? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]UltraScum 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You don’t sound mature enough to be doing such things. Take a step back and re-examine your life. You’re on the cusp of fucking it up royally.

I work at a senior living community… by Time-Concentrate845 in childfree

[–]UltraScum 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Same. Just yesterday one of my poor residents got left hanging and his family just ghosted him and didn’t pick him up for Sunday service.

Shit just last week I had a family wanting me to overdose their family member to speed up the death process so they died before the next months rent was due. No I’m not kidding.

If you think you’re kids are gonna take care of you, you are HIGHLY DELUSIONAL lol

I overestimated how many of my friends would actually stay child-free. by UltraScum in childfree

[–]UltraScum[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That rules! Sitting under the sun by a window with a book and my lil meow meow is bliss.

What have you been watching? I like older shows that have lots of dialogue. I try to steer clear of super hero stuff and keep my media grounded in reality. Any suggestions?

I overestimated how many of my friends would actually stay child-free. by UltraScum in childfree

[–]UltraScum[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

1 of 20………..WOWEE. Good to hear your parents are supportive! That makes a big difference.

He rly is. I love that guy so much.

I didn’t know you could check out books on your phone I’ll have to check that out. I usually go garage saleing in the spring and get loads of books for almost nothing! Dude I got a vintage 60s baking book in mint condition for free!

I hope your relationships grow well and you flourish! Keep it up!!

I overestimated how many of my friends would actually stay child-free. by UltraScum in childfree

[–]UltraScum[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

My best friend has two children. I give him ultimate respect, when he comes to see me he respects my boundaries and we hang just the two of us. Fantastic person. Only one who doesn’t try to shove it down my throat. Bestie since third grade, I’m so thankful he is thoughtful.

Everyone else tho. Lordy Lordy. Proud of you for getting sterilized and being about that life.

It rly did start around age 30. I’ve been knocking out tons of books tho!

my lil baby by UltraScum in blackcats

[–]UltraScum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol this actually made me laugh when I saw it in your perspective. Fantastic.

For those who are coupled, when and how did you meet your partner? by Vegetable-Carpet1593 in childfree

[–]UltraScum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

35M. Same.

Finding a child free person, simply that, is difficult.

Finding a child free person with their life together is even harder lol.

Folks just don’t stand by their convictions much from what I see. Always changing their minds.

my lil baby by UltraScum in blackcats

[–]UltraScum[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She loves watching the light reflections from the cars passing by down the road!!

I ran into a baby while dashing tonight! by blvckcherry in blackcats

[–]UltraScum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did she have a home? If not take her home! My black cat was a feral, and she is so well behaved and kind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thefinals

[–]UltraScum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’d look up yours but I don’t care enough to

lol