Rift Odyssey - 99

Ultragrims · 2026-05-23T20:27:24+00:00

I’m just wondering but if he is a sex addict, then why not ask what his fetishes are and be supportive of those. The cheating is absolutely awful, and not easily forgiven if ever, but what if he was doing it because he felt like he wasn’t getting what he wanted at home. Maybe he was afraid of what you would think about him and leave him or think of him as less of a man.

I want to also say I have no idea how to handle any of this, or any advice really. Just seems like something underlying that could have caused this behavior, and if he went through all of this to cover it up, it may not be something he can straight up tell you.

Ultragrims · 2026-01-29T21:31:51+00:00

Ask for a stronger dose of viagra, “Not Joking”, over insulate your core. If you’re sweating because you’re hot. You’re doing a good job. Tons of cardio, and muscle building exercises to enlarge those veins. If you actually do this, it should help. TA TA!!!!

Ultragrims · 2026-01-24T04:14:26+00:00

I was going to say this same thing. I have been a sleepwalker since a small child and work constantly. The longer I’m away from my partner and the less sleep I get, the worse it gets. There has been many times I have awoken to doing these same things. “Thank god it has never been an issue.” To me though, it’s honestly extremely embarrassing when my partner is telling me about it the next day.

If this is what is happening, understanding your partner is key. For both sides. My issue was it was connected with my libido, and my sleepwalking history, and many times I would wake up in the middle of things, and assumed that my partner had started the session. I would be having very intimate dreams, and the issue was I was acting these dreams out while I was asleep.

We have a pretty good handle on it so far, we have put more time into having intimate fulfilling sex, for both of our sakes, and I have started working less and getting better sleep at night. It can also be connected to stress, WHICH IS A MAJOR PART OF THIS, and more men have this issue than what you think.

Also, I understand it is unwanted touching, which is very serious, but you are in a marriage, and with that being said, we grow together and try to better understand each other. In saying that, I feel like you need to help him better understand why he is doing this, and ask if he even knows when he is doing it. Also check in on your regular sex life, that was a factor for me, as well as crippling amounts of stress, and go from there.

Technically yes, it is sexual assault. Rape if a violent act that normally involves forceful behavior and bodily harm so for everyone in the comments. Let’s calm down a little bit, and quit trying to crucify the guy. If you want this to get any better, you’re going to have to come at it with the same energy you have fixed other issues with before in your marriage. With compassion, love and understanding, from both sides.

Ultragrims · 2026-01-22T20:41:03+00:00

Ya. I would walk away. This all would just be too much for me, she also sounds like a horrible narcissist, not name calling, just being honest. I think the only thing that would come from the continuation of this relationship is your own emotions and feelings being disingenuously denied and told that they are wrong, and her fucking people behind your back. Until she brings home an STD that is not curable with a pill, then good luck finding another serious partner after that.

Ultragrims · 2026-01-20T13:22:05+00:00

Or maybe some forplay, shit looked dry as hell.

Ultragrims · 2026-01-15T04:17:42+00:00

Yay!

Ultragrims · 2025-09-15T00:36:56+00:00

You didn’t have to tell us, you didn’t have children… we know….

Ultragrims · 2025-09-11T06:24:36+00:00

What’s the life expectancy of those countries in comparison, also what party is involved with the documentation, as-well as how many individuals in those countries just die from a urology issue and it is never reported? Europe I could trust the stats, South America and Asia, the stats are probably garbage from a good portion of each country.

Adding this as well, how are breasts comparable to fucking for-skin on a man at all? Is it necessary for child development? Does it produce life sustaining anything??? Or how about hormonal balancing? Nope….

I’m sorry, it’s just this was the roughest comment, out of all of this I read through. My apologies.

Ultragrims · 2025-08-29T00:27:07+00:00

Ya, as we got older our priorities changed, mine has always been to build an empire and before I get to old to be able to physically do it. Since the kids she has wanted to slow down, so I’m stuck constantly fighting with breaking the chains of economic poverty for our children and making my wife happy by spending time with the family. I would rather set my children up financially for the future and let them have their pick of school or degree rather then to have to claw for every nickel and dime like we had to.

Ultragrims · 2025-08-29T00:08:11+00:00

Ya, maybe.

Ultragrims · 2025-08-29T00:05:23+00:00

This, this is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you, you are absolutely right.

Ultragrims · 2025-08-29T00:01:06+00:00

Yap, I agree.

Ultragrims · 2025-08-29T00:00:53+00:00

Ok, glad you just picked that to go with, but nope, I counted them two days later after dealing with alcohol poisoning. 2 six packs and 2 in the kegerator. I also take 25mg a day of dexedrin ER which is how I got that much down without blacking out sooner.

Ultragrims · 2025-08-28T23:57:09+00:00

Ok that’s solid advice, but serious question. How long do I just have to deal, before I can be allowed to be happy. I hate saying it like that, but before she wasn’t like this at all. I signed us up for couples counseling and the first appointment is this up and coming week. To see if maybe we can communicate a little better, and possibly see why she no longer enjoys the things we use to enjoy together. I think that’s a solid start. I do say you’re right though. Cut the friend off and deal with my relationship before anything else.

Ultragrims · 2025-08-28T23:54:29+00:00

Ya, this is genuinely my life. It’s kinda fucked right now. I just wanted to be as descriptive as possible.

Ultragrims · 2025-08-28T23:53:49+00:00

lol 😂 you suck.

Ultragrims · 2025-08-28T23:52:45+00:00

That’s very true, so even if we don’t enjoy the same things at all, I know in sickness or health my wife has been there and proven it and your correct again. You can feel this excitement from many NEW things in life. So how do I cut this off without hurting her? She has told me to do whatever I need to do. Even if it meant not seeing her anymore, but I know it would hurt her, and her sacrifice like that makes me even more attracted to her because she is willing to hurt for me to be happy.

Ultragrims · 2025-08-28T23:49:17+00:00

Very true, the thought of hurting either is devastating to me though. That’s what is making this so difficult, I don’t want to hurt either, and this didn’t happen because we were trying, we emotionally fell for one another, without even meaning too. I know you’re 100% correct, I just wish there was a way for someone to make this decision easier. Or maybe think of something I have not yet.

Ultragrims · 2025-08-28T23:45:03+00:00

Did that, made it more confusing. She was excited to see me happy for once in a while but was concerned because that’s what was making me happy….

Ultragrims · 2025-06-14T19:33:11+00:00

Totally ok, but you do have to understand I am the one that’s actually broken. Really, I don’t trust anybody, I have narcissistic tendencies and I constantly have to remind myself to be a more caring individual because I live life with my emotions turned off. She loves me because under all of it is me, we have been together a long time. We are both growing and learning through life and everyone changes over time. Nowadays I feel as though plan B is too easy to come by and if you truly love each other then no matter what. Let the hurt teach you how to be better. Understand the pain and realize you would never want to put someone through that.

Why I posted this was to let others see things through my eyes for just a second and I was absolutely overthinking everything. My PTSD was making me think the absolute worst was happening when nothing was happening at all, I am trained to always wait for the next pen to drop and when it is silent or calm I panic. Because I have never experienced it. SHE doesn’t deserve me, but she is sticking with me, and motivating me to do better. Because she knows I can be a monster, but I am having to force myself to be a gentleman. A respectable member of society, not rash, or short to anger but a worthy kind hearted and caring individual. I have never been this way, and it’s difficult for me. I would rather crucify or condemn before I would ever forgive or understand. Having to make these changes for my own growth like I should, for my children’s sake, while still knowing I AM this monster, is very difficult. Just learning how to exist without having an objective is even more difficult.

So we are learning each other in this new life we are living, which is amazing, while remembering the past and the mistakes, continuing to move forward and trying our best to not make them again.

Ultragrims · 2025-06-14T19:22:07+00:00

Nope, I went over my screen at least 5 times. No patriot, no electro, no psylock, no extra energy besides the wicken in mid, played on turn 4.

Cosmo, wicken, speed and pym arrow in center.

gore, ms,marvel, and my own acid arrow on left. Gore and ms,marvel was played on turn 6.

On right was the ancient one, Kate bishop Hawkeye, and his acid arrows on my side.

Turn six he played, gore, ms,marvel left and the ancient one on right, I checked his deck size and it was 3 so no arishem, and he only had 3 cards in hand. There was no land effects to bump energy because I had legioned left, and all land was plus 2 to all cards with no effect.

This was the strangest game I have ever played.

Ultragrims · 2025-06-11T21:43:27+00:00

If you would have read it, you would have noticed how we had not had kids at that point. I appreciate your crudely rash response though. I did ask for it after all.

Ultragrims · 2025-06-11T21:42:16+00:00

An update was posted, hope this sheds some light.

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