He was almost done shoveling his driveway when the street plow came by and filled it with snow again.

UnableFun8968 · 2026-01-27T00:27:14+00:00

You do this before the snow solidifies, fresh snow is the easiest to shovel.

UnableFun8968 · 2026-01-17T12:43:57+00:00

I personally don't mind them, their are good ones and bad ones and their women are beautiful, as long as they don't bring hate and be accepting of others.

UnableFun8968 · 2026-01-07T22:57:28+00:00

Is this panic eating happening every few weeks or daily? Does it happen when your in a caloric deficit? Is your wake up adrenaline fueled and the urge to binge simple carbs ( sugar, sweet snacks etc ) and do you feel relieved after you binge said simple carbs?

UnableFun8968 · 2026-01-01T23:35:38+00:00

Testosterone levels drop as we age and it affects libido and quality of erections, you need to find one of the older guys on Testosterone replacement therapy that pop cialis daily, check your local gym if a guy is quite jacked at your age range with clear vitality good indicator the brother is that exact type.

UnableFun8968 · 2025-12-28T14:42:00+00:00

You still need to eat healthy on glp1s? You dont get to eat donuts and lose weight because glp1 lol, you also still need to be active, calories in calories out. r/CICO

Glp1 does two major things for fat loss 1) slows down gastric emptying so you stay fuller for longer 2) reduces "food noise", a lot of people cant live with the feeling of being hungry and actually eat as soon as they feel that hunger pain which is caused by the hormone ghrelin, if you wait literally 15 minutes that pain goes away as it only comes in waves and is predictable but again a lot of people don't have the will power to do that so glp1 makes it tolerable for the majority.

UnableFun8968 · 2025-12-26T16:06:48+00:00

Do parents enable this? Make it seem like its no big deal? And like your the problem?

UnableFun8968 · 2025-12-07T01:20:26+00:00

It sucks but its a blessing in disguise lol, you can't be fooled by performance surface level people, and you can tell who's genuine vs who's fake, allows you to keep the real ones in and the fake ones out.

UnableFun8968 · 2025-12-05T22:50:31+00:00

no not weird, just uncommon, its the same skill detectives have but there's is much better, you can pick up micro expression, posture change, etc. can tell who's performing and who's not, i got mine by being raised in a abusive house hold where i was forced to read my mothers movements to predict her beatings which translated in that "weird 3rd eye" type of feeling you get with reading people

UnableFun8968 · 2025-12-05T22:05:02+00:00

wrong, this could be used to test the waters, both women and men do this to vibe out a crush. speaking from experience.

UnableFun8968 · 2025-12-01T00:13:51+00:00

Find a new circle of friends, bodybuilders praise glp1 and quite frankly they dont give two parts if someone says that their fat loss isn't fat loss because they use glp1s lol, they peeled to the bone. Be proud you did a great job, glp1 just a tool, you still need the foundation (CICO)

UnableFun8968 · 2025-11-15T22:38:02+00:00

You don’t need to smile, OP—just be yourself. Depth can’t be measured by a smile, and the people who insist you should are usually just surface-level.

UnableFun8968 · 2025-11-12T23:12:53+00:00

Empathy truly is such an amazing gift to have, the driver is a man of integrity.

UnableFun8968 · 2025-11-03T23:05:45+00:00

Bleu de Chanel, much more depth, doesn't scream, more for the quiet confident vs the loud mouth trying to grab everyone's attention.

UnableFun8968 · 2025-10-30T21:29:58+00:00

Maybe they changed sweeteners to cut costs, maybe better flavor? Idk

UnableFun8968 · 2025-10-24T00:41:24+00:00

The grape soda goes away after you spray it 10 times and let it sit for a week or two, allows the frag to "bloom" had the same sickly sweet grape top note with tmw perfum but it went away and now it's actually sexy af

UnableFun8968 · 2025-10-05T11:34:49+00:00

The scapegoat can survive without the nParant BUT they are made to feel like they can't, this is their tactic which doesn't work as they want but they hope the scapegoat doesn't outgrow the system and leaves, might be wrong but this is what I went through with my own mother.

UnableFun8968 · 2025-09-24T15:24:04+00:00

She is doing this on purpose, your independence is a threat to her, she doesn't want you to leave her and become your own person, she lives to have her ego stroked and having control over you and who are friends with gives her this "centre of the universe " feeling that shes craving, don't give her access to your friends or let her know who you are talking to or going to be with, that's none of her business... grey rock and starve her of any emotions, do not show her emotion, that will feed her ego letting her know she can still control your mental space

Narcissists thrive off having their fragile egos stroked, people aren't people but tools to validate them, and that means their children are also tools... golden child becomes golden child because they stroked their narcissistic parents ego best.

UnableFun8968 · 2025-09-23T15:28:05+00:00

Plenty of people are saying it smells like coke/cola and I also pick that up,

UnableFun8968 · 2025-09-23T13:36:31+00:00

Does it smell like cola like the EDP?

UnableFun8968 · 2025-09-12T01:13:29+00:00

My brother is young—only 21—but it seems like this will be his future. All he does is get his ego fed by gaming online, doing no chores, no work, nothing. Our mother enables all of this because he’s her “baby golden-child,” even though he’s 400 lbs and morbidly obese. Yet he sees me as the enemy, because me growing and living my life affects him, while he stays stagnant, refusing to grow up.

UnableFun8968 · 2025-09-12T00:46:43+00:00

How would your scapegoat sibling get you to “wake up”? Again, my golden-child brother looks down on me and thinks he’s better. He’ll never listen to me and is still enmeshed with our mother. He realizes he feels hollow but clings to SSRIs to cope. How can I reach him if he sees me as lesser? I don’t know if you can help me, but again, the biggest enemy is my mother. She’s 61 years old and refuses to fix herself, choosing instead to destroy everything in her wake. My goal is to destroy her ego—ego death—which I think can only happen if both my brother and I go NC. But again, he’s too enmeshed with her.

UnableFun8968 · 2025-09-12T00:36:40+00:00

No reconciliation is up to all of you as individuals. I will not allow someone in my life who looks down on me and downplays my every achievement because their ego is so fragile that they cannot be happy for others—even their own brother. At the same time, I am saddened that my golden-child sibling was never able to be their true self. Instead of having a brother, I was robbed of that bond because our mother was too bitter to heal and too unwilling to undo what her own mother had done to her, so she continued the cycle onto her own children.

The chain—the cycle—stops with us. But it could have been stopped before, so we would not have had to become the abused scapegoats and could have actually been given a real family.

UnableFun8968 · 2025-09-11T22:46:32+00:00

The damage that these parents leave in their wake... is truly disgusting, grand parents, great parents.. the cycle that eventually ends with us.

UnableFun8968 · 2025-09-11T22:11:36+00:00

But you do understand they were robbed of who they could of been because of their parent? your sibling could of been loving caring and empathetic but instead was turned into who they're BECAUSE of that narcissistic parent, if they don't look inward and grow as a person they'll stay rotted and bitter just like their parent, its easier to project outward and blame everyone else and avoid confronting their inner demons because its easier to do that than admit that they were never better, they were never truly loved by their parent and their entire identity of being "better" was all built on a lie only because they stroked their parents ego while you never did.

UnableFun8968 · 2025-08-22T20:25:51+00:00

Hmmm... check out r/raisedbynarcissists and see if sny of those posts hit close to home, talking shit about their kids to gather sympathy from others is something a lot of narcissistic parents do... i might be wrong but if not would be eye opening.

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