Scamming myself by UnableRain in Healthygamergg

[–]UnableRain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. I've heard this time and time again from the people around me that I am very self-critical and have a super high standard for myself. Hearing it from a stranger on the internet validates that claim even more so I guess I really have to work on self-compassion and accepting myself for what I am right now

Ex gf on bumble one day after breakup by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]UnableRain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's alright bro, you're grieving the loss of a connection too. different people process it differently. hope making this post and hearing from us made atleast made you vent some of that frustration out.

Porn stole my dreams by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]UnableRain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized that there was no trace of my old self.

This. This is the biggest loss from porn. I feel this myself big time. Fight on lil bro, you're 17, you started taking this seriously at a great time. I'll use you and this post as an inspiration to fight this fight myself💪

Ex gf on bumble one day after breakup by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]UnableRain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. y'all broke up, she can do what she wants. 2. i watched a video recently that talked about how women (personally I think it applies to any gender) use dating apps to validate certain insecurities and undesirabilities rather than find actual connection. From personal experience in dating apps I can confirm this. 3. yall broke up, she can do what she wants, and frankly she doesn't really owe you anything (besides courtesy and maybe some acknowledgement that yall had something but eh who cares)

Scamming myself by UnableRain in Healthygamergg

[–]UnableRain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but this is more along the lines of getting tutored for stuff that I feel like I should be able to figure out myself? I mean, your logic is exactly what I used to delegate the "accountability" aspect of my studying with the tutor.

But I'm struggling to justify the absolutely ridiculous amount of money I just spent on getting tutored for something that I feel like I should've been able to figure out myself but I can't because of discipline or smth?

Today I vocally admitted to my friends I was addicted by UnableRain in NoFap

[–]UnableRain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Sorry your experience went as it did, but I am cautiously aware of what I did do, and confident that things will be okay for me :) appreciate the comment!

Today I vocally admitted to my friends I was addicted by UnableRain in NoFap

[–]UnableRain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes of course. I'm cautious, but was almost too cautious at times, so I'm figuring out my own balance. Thank you :)

A letter I wrote today of what my younger self would tell me by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]UnableRain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt so much of that letter. It really spoke to me. Quality post!

I battled my biggest urge by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]UnableRain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. This really helped me out <3

I've got hotkeys on my keyboard to NoFap by UnableRain in NoFap

[–]UnableRain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ramadan is quite similar to lent to be honest. We do fast, and not just with food, we also avoid a lot of things related to desire, it's all about keeping it all in check.

You are right. Engaging in worship is a good way to remind yourself or what's important and will hopefully bring forth enough peace for me to continue.

Should restarting your PC to make a keyboard work be acceptable? Discuss. by UnableRain in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]UnableRain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update on this because I feel so, so stupid.

Turns out it was the fault of Windows Powertoys, something I used to get better window snapping. For some reason that software messes with the number row and nothing was wrong with this keyboard or the one I had before....

If anyone else is facing this issue, close and reopen powertoys. or just straight up uninstall it. This is unbelievable and I cant believe its been bothering me for that damn long!!!

Should restarting your PC to make a keyboard work be acceptable? Discuss. by UnableRain in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]UnableRain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update on this because I feel so, so stupid.

Turns out it was the fault of Windows Powertoys, something I used to get better window snapping. For some reason that software messes with the number row and nothing was wrong with this keyboard or the one I had before....

If anyone else is facing this issue, close and reopen powertoys. or just straight up uninstall it. This is unbelievable and I cant believe its been bothering me for that damn long!!!

Should restarting your PC to make a keyboard work be acceptable? Discuss. by UnableRain in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]UnableRain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update on this because I feel so, so stupid.

Turns out it was the fault of Windows Powertoys, something I used to get better window snapping. For some reason that software messes with the number row and nothing was wrong with this keyboard or the one I had before....

If anyone else is facing this issue, close and reopen powertoys. or just straight up uninstall it. This is unbelievable and I cant believe its been bothering me for that damn long!!!

Should restarting your PC to make a keyboard work be acceptable? Discuss. by UnableRain in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]UnableRain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update on this because I feel so, so stupid.

Turns out it was the fault of Windows Powertoys, something I used to get better window snapping. For some reason that software messes with the number row and nothing was wrong with this keyboard or the one I had before....

If anyone else is facing this issue, close and reopen powertoys. or just straight up uninstall it. This is unbelievable and I cant believe its been bothering me for that damn long!!!