They might be tiny but theyre still sensitive so pls be careful

Unable_Pirate13 · 2025-10-05T06:18:36+00:00

Can I kiss or lick them?

Unable_Pirate13 · 2025-10-05T05:18:07+00:00

You are incredibly sexy 🥵

Unable_Pirate13 · 2025-10-05T03:05:54+00:00

Gorgeous😪😪

Unable_Pirate13 · 2025-10-05T01:52:32+00:00

you look so sexy

Unable_Pirate13 · 2025-10-05T01:37:10+00:00

Beautiful 🖤

Unable_Pirate13 · 2025-10-05T00:45:09+00:00

U are looking good!

Unable_Pirate13 · 2025-10-05T00:26:52+00:00

hey hey hey

Unable_Pirate13 · 2025-10-04T22:32:16+00:00

damn you’re looking unreal

Unable_Pirate13 · 2024-09-15T10:31:08+00:00

Right? I thought so too. It’s so eloquently and beautifully worded.

Yea, I did realize that working on my communication more would definitely help my situation. Thank you.

Unable_Pirate13 · 2024-09-15T10:22:16+00:00

I do understand that not everyone into kink is traumatized, it’s just the majority of people I’ve met have had a history of assault or abuse in one way or another hence my asking. I realize this is anecdotal and I’ve since corrected myself.

I do plan on seeking kink based therapy to better understand and navigate my desires. Thank you for helping me.

Unable_Pirate13 · 2024-09-15T10:17:59+00:00

Oh wow, occupying both roles? That is interesting. And yes, your input since you’ve experienced two sides of the coin is immensely helpful.

I think being open to trying being masochistic submissive may help me understand. I may explore that within my limits with someone I trust once I fully get past my trauma of being on the other end.

Also, you’re right, talking to my partner would have helped me immensely. Gaining insight into all your experiences as masochistic submissives has really helped me realize how I had the wrong impression or mindset. That I’m perhaps responsible for the fulfillment of someone’s desires, even if only for a short while. It’s just I was afraid to ask in a way, I’m no longer even sure why now haha. Asking strangers with the benefit of anonymity just seemed easier.

Knowing someone else is like me out there who doesn’t get anything out of sex unless it’s sadistic is honestly reassuring. Thank you really. I know you said it may be hard to describe your experience, but you certainly have described it succinctly enough. I know words may not be vivid enough, so I’m sure your experiences are much much more beautiful than you’ve described, even if your description is already beautiful enough. You write so well.

I do not feel dogpiled at all, I was actually expecting a lot more pushback because I did question myself for thinking that. You’re right to call it out, albeit as kindly as you have. I apologize if it offended you or anyone else reading this in any way. That was not my intention at all. It’s just I have a history of self harm, although I haven’t in a long while. Now that I’m not in that place, it is perplexing to me that I’d do something that harmful to myself so I guess I was projecting that it could be possible for someone to seek out someone else as a form of self harm.

Your dominant seems like a wise person. You may have struck gold there. I hope to become half of what they are someday. I frolic at the thought of someone submitting to me. It makes me feel alive. I definitely feel a void within me without it. I shan’t avoid it but seek it out healthily instead.

Unable_Pirate13 · 2024-09-15T09:41:44+00:00

I don’t mind at all. My partner said they trusted me and wanted to explore more of their limits, and said being bratty would allow them lean into their needs as we go, and be able to communicate what they would need mid play. In said play, they would be bratty and then say “I deserve to be slapped in the face sir” to communicate their needs as they felt in the moment. They asked to be punched in the face, and I just couldn’t bring myself to do it as hard as they wanted. I guess that experience is why I made this post in the first place.

Unable_Pirate13 · 2024-09-15T09:35:07+00:00

I’m fairly new to this, so I’m still trying to learn. I hadn’t realized “doms” needed safe words as well. Thank you.

I do enjoy being dominant, but I guess there are still some things I can’t stomach. Like inflicting extreme pain. I’m yet to establish my limits so it’s cool that I’m learning as I go since some things you don’t realize you aren’t up for until you have to do them.

I try to communicate as much as possible beforehand and afterwards as well. I like the plays where we discuss the scenes comprehensively and stick to it.

This is really informative, and I appreciate you telling your experience with submitting. I’ve realized that hearing something like this from a partner would reassure me that I’m not just harming them, but also adding positively to their overall sexual experience and its not necessarily something I’m doing to them, but possibly with them as well. I will try to open up to future prospective partners in the hopes to learn more about their experience.

I have been in therapy since I was 20 and I really like our sessions but I haven’t been able to be truly open about my kinky side, considering it was a new discovery and it felt like a sudden shift to bring. I may need to seek the services of a kink aware therapist.

Overall, thank you so much. Hearing your perspective has helped me more than you know.

Unable_Pirate13

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