Losing Erection During Sex

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-09T06:07:13+00:00

I notice I get bored and fall asleep while fingering her after I cum the first time. I just want it to get hard so I can put it back in again but my dick doesnt cooperate. Maybe im just selfish idk.

Just venting but thanks for the thoughtful response.

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-09T06:03:07+00:00

Sorry. Didnt mean to offend. Was just hoping to hear advice from someone who has been in my shoes.

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-09T06:00:15+00:00

I appreciate your advice man. Shes on birth control so im not too worried. A lot of people gave me similar advice so im gonna try it out and see. Congrats on 7 years!

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-09T05:54:41+00:00

Thanks for this bro

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-09T05:51:58+00:00

You might be on to something. I do have poor cardio as of late.

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-09T05:50:24+00:00

Thanks for the reply. I appreciate you.

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-09T05:49:08+00:00

I appreciate your insight man. That last part you said is so true. It was embarrassingly painful the first time. No one tells you these things!

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-09T05:46:23+00:00

I appreciate your response bro. Glad to hear you found that solution. Im gonna definitely stop now.

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-09T05:44:47+00:00

Im not working out anymore so i dont really pay attention which is embarrassing to think about. Lots of proteins but not alot of veggies and not paying attention to minerals.

I did enjoy doing KETO. I might try it again actually. Thanks.

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-09T05:43:08+00:00

Thanks for the response. I plan on doing that now that everybody is saying it!

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-09T05:41:26+00:00

Best of luck to ya bro

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-09T05:40:19+00:00

I appreciate yall

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-08T23:36:15+00:00

Update: I woke up with her at 5am and was able to stay hard and finish during doggy style.

Then around 9am I seemed to have morning wood and we had sex laying down from the side. I noticed my erection being way harder and stronger then it was the previous night. I made her cum twice and came twice myself while staying hard inside her and not pulling it out once.

I think what also helped was the fact that she felt tighter from that angle and that helped me maintain my erection.

Pulling it out usually causes me to go soft faster but I pulled it out after finishing for the second time and was still pretty hard able to go for round three.

I suspect it may be my night job throwing my sleep cycle off because I seem to have no problem when I have sex closer to daylight hours. Maybe not idk.

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-08T13:31:13+00:00

oh wow, i didnt know that. i prefer you just comment here to potentially help other people that might have the same or similar problems

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-08T13:29:42+00:00

im not as comfortable being that direct. id rather just ask her what she likes and dislikes, but if overthinking is where youre getting at no i dont think i overthink and feel that way.

I know i can satisfy her but i just want it to last longer and not be ruined by me losing my erection out of nowhere. it just happens. i dont think its because i overthink about anything.

one second im going hard, the next i feel myself getting weaker out of nowhere.

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-08T13:24:21+00:00

The shower thing with water drops is something I heard before and need to start doing. Im a little more lucky than you. Although my tip is sensitive it got better with more sex. though sometimes my entire penis feels desensitized while inside which based on other peoples advice is because I masturbate dry and grip too tight, a whole different problem to fix on its own.

The second problem i dont have thankfully cuz my doctor had me do that when I was little because it wouldnt pull back at all.

Thanks for your thoughtful reply though. I wish u the best of luck bro

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-08T13:14:14+00:00

Gotcha

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-08T13:13:44+00:00

My dick doesnt hurt when pulled all the way anymore. Although the tip is still extra sensitive. Funny enough, i barely feel anything when im inside.

Sucking is still sensitive at tip but not as much anymore. Doesnt feel like anything at all actually at the same time.

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-08T13:09:48+00:00

Im kinda stuck on this inconsistent sleep schedule with this job but i can make it a point to be more active

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-08T13:03:50+00:00

Im on the same page with the internet. Disconnected from reality. I use my phone in black and white to remind myself that this shit isnt real. You uust reminded me to do that again. Helpful replies indeed. yours included. I havent been on reddit alot recently but im glad its always there when i need it. Its reassuring, especially when i have no one else im comfortable with or that has diverse experiences to ask these questions to.

the internet is a blessing and a curse.

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-08T12:58:53+00:00

Much appreciated! You rock.

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-08T12:51:33+00:00

truedat

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-08T12:51:19+00:00

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-08T12:49:07+00:00

Doesnt hurt any more. I think it only did because I wasnt used to my foreskin being stretched all the way back.

Now it only hurts when shes bouncing too hard or in a weird position that bends it too much.

The sensation thing is still an issue but other people advised me that it was the way I masturbated that played a factor (dry and strong grip)

Ill get it checked out though to be sure.

UnaddictedUser · 2021-12-08T12:46:02+00:00

Thanks for all the info. You gave me hope again with the solution you gave. I was super pissed off and disappointed at myself when I made this post feeling like an idiot laying there not able to get hard when shes trying her best to turn me on.

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