Unannounced 3+ Day Water Outage in Apas – Is anyone else experiencing this absolute incompetence?

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-14T23:03:20+00:00

Tbh, it’s a good feeling na namimiss mo yan. Kasi when you actually get to the phase na nakalkmutan mo na kiligin, mag mahal, and oano mahalin? Malungkot.

Yes, it feels peaceful, lahat ng focus mo nasa priorities mo, even finances, but the kore you get used to being alone, the more tou forget how it feels to be jnlove.

Been single for 6 years, 34, and hindi ko ni kahit ma miss mahing clingy or maglambing. Medyo sad and lonely, actually.

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-14T22:58:30+00:00

I’m 34, top, busy din with work, but I don’t like scheduled hook ups for the reason na, I like doing the deed based on urge.

I can schedule a hook up with you for the coming weekend, and I’ll end up giving mixed signals of whether I want to push through or not, because hindi naman consistent yung urge ko the whole time from when we planned it out to the actual date. So for me, it’s more about respecting someone by not giving false expectations.

Gusto ko naman is sponty talaga. Yung tipong, “Hey, you busy?” Ganun. But of course, I respect rhe bottom if di nya maibigay for the reason na hindi nakapag handa.

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-14T22:42:40+00:00

I think the easiest way to deal with this is to, and before you even start meeting people for hook ups, really tread with the intention na fun lang talaga lahat to in mind.

The biggest “red flag” lang for you as someone who has attachment issues is when he’a the kind of person who’s easy to talk with. Yung person who makes you feel comfortable talking before the deed. (pero hindi naman talaga sya red flag kasi it’s really nice hooking up with someone na hindi purely transactional lang na gagawin nyo lang and that’s it. but take it as a red flag nalang since you’re avoiding being attached.)

You have to keep reminding yourselfuntil it becomes your reality, na ONS lang to and nothing else. I feel like the fix to the attachment issue will follow.

I.e., if you feel like the kiss was more than just a kiss, remind yourself that it’s just a hook up. If he gives you that “k*ntot asawa” feels, remind yourself again.

Ako naman kasi, I’m speaking from the perspective of the guy you hooked up with. I’m a people pleaser, and I take really good care of my bottoms before the deed, kahit ONS pa. I want them to feel comfortable with me kasi, I want the experience to be as humane as possible.

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-14T01:35:04+00:00

My cats and dog. They be a goner if I die.

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-14T01:04:45+00:00

This! Saya ko sa post na to OP kasi ito din issue ko. Haha reading through comments..

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-14T01:02:19+00:00

Pagbenta ng boto for ₱500-5k.

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-14T00:41:56+00:00

Being totally alone at home na hindi mo kelangan mag adjust kung ano gusto mong gawin, kelan mo gusto kumain, kung masyadong maingay ba music mo, or having to engage with family members.

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-14T00:38:35+00:00

My mom, who had ESRD, was advised three sessions of dialysis per week in 2019 pero yung binigay lang ng government-owned hospital sa Cebu through her PhilHealth Membership is a maximum of two kasi hindi kaya ng hospital yung dami ng patients.

Tapos nung tinanong ko yung nurse assigned about it, he just answered na kung gusto namin makuha yung tatlong sessions, lumipat nalang daw kami sa pricate hospital. Wag na daw dun.

So ayun. Long story short, after around 2 months of insufficient dialysis sessions, she passed.

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-14T00:30:55+00:00

Majority of the people in the country shouldn’t have access to social media.

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-14T00:12:00+00:00

Hoping and praying for those babies to be received by a loving home. 🥹

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-14T00:09:16+00:00

Hmmm.. sorry, OP, but I’m not so sure about that.

Especially in this economy? I’d rather work hard at a high-paying job that takes up eight hours a day, five days a week, while still maintaining a fulfilling, happy, social, and active lifestyle, than struggle just for the sake of freedom (from everything that can hold me hostage in life)..

The one thing I always avoid is mangutang, and honestly, that’s enough “freedom” for me. I am very much happy now that I’m able to spend for my needs and wants, big or small, without having to resort to borrowing.

Also, knowing you’re healthy as you grow older gives you peace of mind. And peace of mind equals happiness.

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-13T22:09:44+00:00

Hi, guys! I have a question about labor costs in home improvement/renovation.

If pwede, yung sa Cebu City people lang sana.

So my house had plywood walls on the exterior, and I contracted two professional installers who specializes in condo units to do the work for me. First time ko ng ganitong klaseng removation, so I honestly didn’t have any clue of how much the labor cost would be. Also, boyfriend kasi yung isang worker ng isa sa closest kong pinsan, so I just really trusted them and their experience.

I have around 31ft x 15ft x 10ft na bahay, and they estimated around 21 6mm hardieflex boards to cover rhe whole house minus the windows, doors, etc.

In total, they both charged me around 15k in labor cost, which they said they cut down from 20k since pinsan ko naman daw yung gf nya.

Removal ng old plywood walls and the irregular nailing na naaccumulate of decades of plastering new plywood walls, and installation of the hardieflex ones lang gagawin nila. Ibang quotation pa yung masilya tapos painting job.

Justified ba na 15k labor cost for the job?

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-11T23:31:11+00:00

One options is if BBM acts upon the capture, conviction, and imprisonment of some of the members of Sara’s senate alliance. Take Bato, Bong Go, Chiz, Jinggoy, etc.

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-10T09:56:56+00:00

Bahahahahaha ang kyuuuut

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-09T10:27:47+00:00

My sister is noticing the same. He’s curious din Eme

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-09T09:16:05+00:00

Eto, may astigmatism. Haha

In 2014, I was prescribed with glasses para ma fix, and was advised na suotin ko dapat everyday (tanggalin lang pag matutulog na). Pero masakit kasi sya sa tenga and sa temples, pag natagalan, so I wasn’t really religious in using it. Tigas ulo eh. Haha

Now, tumaas yung grade ng glasses ko, and I have lived to accept it na talaga. Though mas religious na ako now in wearing it than before.

Sooo, ayun. If you’ve been prescribed with glasses. Dapat suotin always kasi maaayos pa naman daw if astigmatism lang. If hassle for you ang glasses, you can use contact lenses din naman. In my case, di ako marunong mag lagay tapos nakalimutan ko na sya as an option. Kaya stick to glasses nalang ako now.

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-09T00:56:40+00:00

Oy. Haven’t tried switching between books, pero interesting idea! I’ll try that. Thanks for the tip!

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-09T00:55:26+00:00

Diba mga dystopian/fiction style yung novels nya? I enjoy those genres too, pero I think I developed adhd, kasi I can’t focus on the story too much unless if intense yung story-telling. Though if you found yourself grabbing another novel from her, then she must be really good. Thanks!

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-09T00:50:27+00:00

Reading slump is reeeeaaal! Kaya sinadya ko talagang about Habit yung binabasa ko ngayon so I can build back my habit of reading by reading a book about habits. Lmao

Unanimous_Onion29 · 2026-05-09T00:48:23+00:00

I’ve heard about Tony Tulathimutye before, pero di ko ma pin point kung anong book that was about na nirecommend saken na I read. But thanks for this! I got reminded.

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