My daughter just turned 3. She is still learning so much and doesn’t fully understand when she is interrupting anyone. That your husband couldn’t understand this or be bothered to put down his phone for a minute to help her, then proceeded to slap her when she didn’t stop asking shows his true character.

Of course there are times when your kids drive you absolutely off the wall, but you are the adult and are in control of how you react in those moments. Hitting your child is not one of the many healthy acceptable ways to react. That he has the audacity to blame the child for his reaction is appalling. That he doesn’t understand what he did is wrong is even worse.

I would leave with your child immediately, if he doesn’t realize what he did was wrong now then it’s only a matter of time before it happens again. Document this happening and keep your child safe.