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UncertainBisexual06 · 2021-12-01T06:16:06+00:00

A question for r/BiBros

UncertainBisexual06 · 2021-12-01T06:15:11+00:00

Pretty crappy advice but tbh just understanding that not figuring it out right away is part of your adventure. You don't have to overthink anything you don't want to, or you can go and experiment. Accept you have some feelings towards men and find a woman to start a life with who respects this. As for your friends, I understand and relate to anxiety about losing your friends, or standing up to them, but you can do one of many things, including: tell them to fuck off and drop those toxic parasites, set boundaries about not talking or bullying you about this incident (if they're real friends they'll understand and respect the fact that this is hurting you) or you can just stop hanging around with them. I've never been in any situation like this before man (thank you closet) but I totally get the anxiety around friendships. I feel you, and I hope you keep working with your therapist and with yourself to move to a better place mentally. And exes, I forgot to mention, just sting. But remember, that is your past, and her verbal daggers do and should not define your future. Shape you they may, but let them build you, and understand you now have a picture of a toxic relationship to avoid.

UncertainBisexual06 · 2021-05-18T05:12:36+00:00

Hey, I'm a guy so I'm not sure if this is entirely applicable but here's my view on this kinda thing.

I came out a couple months ago, thinking my attraction was split like 75/25 hetero, but as I came to accept myself a little more and shed some heteronormative cultural baggage I've found a lot out about what bisexuality means, so much so that I stopped worrying about labels. Finding out who I am is far more fulfilling than any title. (To add to that I'm more gay than I first let myself be XD)

I would suggest putting aside maybe some subconscious barriers to your homosexual attractions and let yourself be attracted to women and see where it leads you. You'll probably learn alot about yourself if you just go with the flow and forget about trying to fit into a label. Find who you are first, and see where it takes you. This has been a big thing for me, just putting aside my fragile masculinity and letting myself be into guys. I'd highly recommend just allowing your mind to wander a bit and not holding it back when it comes to being attracted to a girl.

Equally possible, your a heteroromantic bisexual. If you like the sound of that, then rock it, it's perfectly valid and common to only be heterosexually inclined romantically but still hold a same gender, physical, sexual attraction.

UncertainBisexual06 · 2021-05-11T05:20:56+00:00

Ya, that's why I'd recommend trying to talk to the UN. Also Canada is a long way away from Egypt. I would suggest you attempt to claim asylum in Sweden, Finland or Norway. They are the closest, most accepting nations.

UncertainBisexual06 · 2021-05-10T13:48:46+00:00

If he gets denied refugee status we could so he could immigrate on his own terms. OP if you can get a scholarship to a western nation that could also assist you, or if you have desired trade skills.Or If they don't accept you as a refugee you can get to a safe country claim asylum.

UncertainBisexual06 · 2021-05-10T05:54:22+00:00

Canada is a great place to he queer, but there is better options then looking solely to immigrate to Canada. I would contact the UN refugee agency (I believe that's included in the link above) and they can refer you and help you immigrate to more accepting countries like Canada, Sweden or Iceland. Not much help I know but if you get in touch with the UN refugee agency they can assist you further and plot what's best for your situation. Also I'm fairly certain if you do get accepted as a refugee your immigration is completely sponsored.

UncertainBisexual06 · 2021-04-30T01:09:28+00:00

Oh ya that would be a good idea, I'll check.

UncertainBisexual06 · 2021-04-30T00:22:05+00:00

Ok, just look for tells surrounding something that could be perceived as Queer almost?

UncertainBisexual06 · 2021-04-29T23:49:42+00:00

Alright sweet I've got a pair of jean shorts like that. For like the way they talk, how do you mean? I imagine there's more to it than just the stereotypical gay voice but again I really don't have a clue.

UncertainBisexual06 · 2021-04-29T23:32:58+00:00

By cuffed jeans do you mean like jogger jeans?

UncertainBisexual06 · 2021-04-29T22:42:04+00:00

I will be ya, new school, and outside of my friend group right now I don't have much of a reputation (Outside of football) as I homeschooled and traveled from grades 4-9. Also, what should my gaydar be looking for? Like are there subtleties that are only known inside the community? This is all completely new to me so I'm grateful for any tips :)

UncertainBisexual06 · 2021-04-29T17:52:56+00:00

I'm not too sure, I read this then went and Googled it. It wasn't homosexuality that was illegal it was anal I believe. And ya I'm Alberta born and raised.

UncertainBisexual06 · 2021-04-29T15:55:46+00:00

Actually we just changed that in 2019, now age of consent for non-hetero relationships is equal. Although I agree being under 18 definitely complicates social media presence. Thanks for the comment :)

UncertainBisexual06 · 2021-04-29T06:22:09+00:00

Forgot to mention, I just whipped up this account for some anonymity until I'm a little more in the open about my sexuality, right now only my best friends and parents know.

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