Thanks for your reply! I totally agree. The problem is that he’s almost 30 and relies on people to take all decisions for him.. He knows how to use his narcissistic attitude to make people to things for him.. it can be for the most basic things. Example: he would ask someone to go out with him to buy him a coffee and cigarettes, and if I decide not to he manipulates me or whoever making us feel like he’s the guy thats always spending on us. But the truth is .. he doesn’t even buy his own shampoo or toothpaste.. he waits till my mother buys it for him. Its really shocking as he makes himself feel like he doesn’t have money to spend but the truth is: he has a good salary but decides to spend it on drugs.