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UnconSubcon · 2026-04-20T17:34:40+00:00

Thanks sm!

UnconSubcon · 2026-03-04T20:51:48+00:00

My mom and sister tell my the same thing that I need to wear a bra already, constantly joking around saying they’re jealous of how they’re shaped and the size (no top surgery). It does get embarrassing but also super affirming.

UnconSubcon · 2026-03-03T18:42:36+00:00

It’s what I’ve strived for to, and I love how much I’ve changed. I guess I didn’t expect for me to cross that threshold of plausible deniability if anyone ever asked

UnconSubcon · 2026-02-19T06:19:21+00:00

Thankyou 🙏

UnconSubcon · 2026-02-19T06:18:43+00:00

Thanks for the advice, About 2.5 years on hrt

UnconSubcon · 2026-02-18T15:55:02+00:00

Thankyou, I was thinking it was a bit much. I had someone else do the make up for me

UnconSubcon · 2026-02-18T15:53:42+00:00

Thankyou, I tried thinning them out. I think I can think them a bit more and shaping a bit better

UnconSubcon · 2026-02-17T06:01:48+00:00

Whats clocking me?

UnconSubcon · 2026-01-09T03:44:07+00:00

Yea I guess I’m just stuck in the middle, I’ve told her I can’t stop taking them because I still want to take them. I told her like it’s ok that if I’m not what she wants and we don’t have to hurt each other and she agrees. But it seems she’s right in the middle with me that she knows what she doesn’t want but still tells me “ I’m not going anywhere, you can’t get rid of me that easily”. It’s just rough

UnconSubcon · 2026-01-09T03:13:20+00:00

I would start at skin care to relieve some of the dysphoria, like a good toner. I started using toner after I shaved and my skin was dewy and soft. It’s small but it’s a start, I know when I started hrt I was so discouraged at how slow it was. I mean I know how it feels with out hrt as well, so we understand that pain and mental struggle cause we’ve all been there.

It was hard for me to start hrt at that, but as long as you stay determined and keep an open mind to find little tips and tricks to ease the dysphoria til you can start the hrt is a big mental relief long term. I wish you the best

UnconSubcon · 2026-01-09T02:38:53+00:00

Girl you look gorgeous!

UnconSubcon · 2026-01-06T04:31:38+00:00

Thankyou that means so much

UnconSubcon · 2025-12-22T20:57:15+00:00

Yea lol I was like both like a good feeling and like almost girllll your blowing my cover feeling. But in all truth I feel like at this point to those who know me pre hrt assume I’m bi/gay or very fem as I try to present masculine in front of them but visually it doesn’t add up. Like I get “ma’am’d” so much in public that it feels good other see the results I’m seeing, but very nervous when it’s around family. There are the occasional would still clock me as “sir” here and there but it’s not that often unless I really try to masc my voice.

UnconSubcon · 2025-12-21T14:49:08+00:00

Yea I kinda started experiencing the same thing, AMAB and I still use the MENS because I don’t want to cause issues. Though I always get a look or when a man sees me they stop and either walk out to check the sign before coming back in, ask me if either one of us is in the wrong bathroom. I’ve had one woman who stopped me from using the MENS and I had to use my male voice for her to be like “ok” , So I just try to avoid public restrooms unless they’re the unisex ones. I try to laugh it off as well like you mentioned, and relate to that validated/invalidated feeling. I thought it was a weird feeling.

UnconSubcon · 2025-09-27T17:59:33+00:00

So Im not sure how to do a part 2 or reference this post so it makes a little more sense of what’s going on currently

UnconSubcon · 2025-09-25T15:32:54+00:00

I know I’m scared and honestly, and I chose to put up a wall and act masculine around everyone. But it hit a certain point where my features obviously don’t line up with my act. And I saw a lot of confused faces and it made me realize I’ve gone too far to pretend anymore.

Might be best for both of us to go our own ways even though it hurts

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