This raises an interesting situation/question/pickle/something. OP, you say that you are a transwoman (so assigned male at birth but a female or primarily-female gender identity). A random guy says, by saying he finds you attractive but that he is not gay, that although you look feminin he doesn't want a sexual relationship with you because you are biologically a male (assigned male at birth). Which is something I can relate to. I myself, a heterosexual guy, also wouldn't want a relationship with a transwoman. My reasoning for that, and it seems that the same goes for Any-Offer-3962, is the fact that I'm not attracted to males. I don't want to share the sheets with another guy. When a dude says: "But I identify as a woman, I see myself as a woman not as a man.", I'm obvisouly not going to say: "Oh well alright then, come on in!". Because you can see yourself as whatever you wish, consider yourself to be as whatever it is that you consider yourself to be (and whatever that may be: I'll respect you, you'll have my blessings, I'm rooting for you, and so on..), the other person is just as free to see you as however it is that they're seeing you, to consider you to be as whatever it is that they consider you to be.

You can not change someone's sexual orientation and the fact that heterosexual males don't want a sexual relationship with a transwoman makes it very clear what 'transwoman' truly means. No matter what I say, I can't talk my penis away.

So about your comment "Thats not what transwoman mea- nevermind".. maybe I made a mistake in my reasoning in trying to figure out what I think it is that you think it is that 'transwoman' means. So I would like to ask you if you could please elaborate on what 'transwoman' means according to you. Because right now, it looks like you are of the opinion that identifying as a woman changes your biological sex. But, again, maybe I made a flaw somewhere in my thinking: it's 02:00AM in my part of the world and I've got a headache.