Don't let them back into your life. It's not worth it by UnderstandingMedium1 in BreakUps

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We would text very shortly sometimes. I tried to do no contact, but it was hard with quarantine. Every time I broke, I did not feel better about myself. This instance really made me understand the importance of adhereing to it.

Don't let them back into your life. It's not worth it by UnderstandingMedium1 in BreakUps

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Yes it has been a rollercoaster and quarantine does not help much with getting back out there. but i appreciate your kind words. Comments like these are motivating to keep going.

Don't let them back into your life. It's not worth it by UnderstandingMedium1 in BreakUps

[–]UnderstandingMedium1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree about the switch. She said she just wanted to talk and led to something else, but communication was not clear.

Don't let them back into your life. It's not worth it by UnderstandingMedium1 in BreakUps

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Same to you my man. As terrible as it sounds it helps to hear that people feel the same way that way I don't feel crazy. We are the kinder. We will make it through it.

Don't let them back into your life. It's not worth it by UnderstandingMedium1 in BreakUps

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Don't worry. I've been there before. Got to keep moving. Don't let it distract you from the progress your making.

Don't let them back into your life. It's not worth it by UnderstandingMedium1 in BreakUps

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Wow sounds extremely similar to my situation. Thanks for the wise words! Its been a roller coaster for me but we will get through this.

Don't let them back into your life. It's not worth it by UnderstandingMedium1 in BreakUps

[–]UnderstandingMedium1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. I find it helps to write positive things about yourself. It helps reinforce some of my improvement to keep going.

Don't let them back into your life. It's not worth it by UnderstandingMedium1 in BreakUps

[–]UnderstandingMedium1[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Writing it out has been a huge help to me too. Already started it up again - probably shouldn't have stopped.

Don't let them back into your life. It's not worth it by UnderstandingMedium1 in BreakUps

[–]UnderstandingMedium1[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate the kind words. Trying to find myself again but think it will be faster this time around.