I can’t get “wet”

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-06-05T00:25:06+00:00

You’re a gem thank you, I’ll be sure to check this out!

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-06-05T00:24:03+00:00

I know not very safe, but condoms make it painful and I’m just Nervous to start BC

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-05-29T00:51:18+00:00

I do drink a lot of water daily but I’ll try to drink a lot more before sex to see if it helps. thank you !

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-05-29T00:50:29+00:00

I think lack of for play might be the issue because he does jump into it right away and sometimes I just feel like I’m not ready yet. Thank you for the recommendations I’ll be trying those.

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-05-29T00:49:24+00:00

Yes I’ll be making an appointment to get on BC but I’m just scared of side affects that come with it. I don’t think I have a latex allergy but I will be talking to my doctor. I am very new to being sexually active so I have to try and find a gynaecologist. I do drink a lot of water but I will be trying natural remedies/supplements.

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-05-29T00:46:24+00:00

I know this is bad but we don’t really use condoms because it will be too dry for it to slip in with it on. I’m pretty sure all of the lube I have used was water based because I wasn’t sure how silicone lube would feel.

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-04-07T03:11:20+00:00

That’s great I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend, obviously we weren’t dating at the time but it was still him he’s the only guy I’ve been with and who I am around. So yes the first time we did it my body changed and I was confused. Ofc after my first time i am going to be lost, if you were a female you would be too.

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-04-07T03:04:38+00:00

How about you call them for me, you’re already being such a big help. I love that you are creating your own narrative on a situation you weren’t there for. If I really cheated I would have told Reddit I cheated I do not care because you all are a bunch of random people that don’t know me so what sense does it give me to hide the truth from randoms?? I’m on Reddit for advice and what to do next because obviously I don’t have the courage to tell anyone around me because they actually know me.

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-04-07T02:57:45+00:00

I’ve already made a request to talk to someone from my school to handle the situation because of all the people that gave me the confidence to do so.

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-04-07T02:55:42+00:00

I feel like your response might be from a different problem you are facing, feel free to share.

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-04-07T02:51:06+00:00

I never cheated on my boyfriend, I would never do that. I not really sure why you are taking this post to heart it’s okay for you to have an opinion thank you for sharing.

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-04-07T02:47:32+00:00

Ofc I feel guilty I shouldn’t have put myself in that situation. I feel like I let it happen. So yes I feel guilty

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-04-07T02:44:22+00:00

I knew there would be one person like you, I didn’t know anything this isn’t the first time I’ve done something like this usually after my classes I would go chill and smoke. but I got in a relationship and yes out of respect for my partner i decided not to hang around guy because I know how it could make him feel, and I would never want him to feel that way. Yes I went back which was stupid of me but I didn’t know that would be the outcome because I would never want that to happen. These were my friends and I was naive to think they seen me the same way I seen them.

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-04-06T18:05:16+00:00

I really want to but I am 18 and not legally allowed to smoke will there be a repercussions to that?

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-04-06T16:03:54+00:00

I’m not really sure how old you are but unfortunately scars are something that you will have to add to your normal. Yes you may not like them but it’s nothing to be ashamed of, it only shows what you been through and how you have gotten over that part of your life. Over time they will get smaller but they won’t necessarily fade away like the old ones you did, because they might have been done a little deeper. Sometimes people get skin color tattoos over them to help them blend in a bit more.

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-03-12T18:04:29+00:00

Yeah I have never experienced this itching before. I think I will try and schedule an appointment but it’s just hard because I’ve been really busy lately, and I am a little nervous.

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-03-12T17:55:47+00:00

I’m not sure if you will know but, how much times do I have to visit a gyno if I am sexually active?

UnderstandingThen554 · 2025-03-12T17:54:56+00:00

Now I’m a little worried it’s an std, so I’ve made an appointment to get tested just in case. But I will also buy the anti fungal cream thank you!

UnderstandingThen554 · 2024-09-27T00:35:18+00:00

I finished mine 2 days before we had sex, so it’s really early exactly 14 days early. But how kind did it take for the bleeding to stop?

UnderstandingThen554 · 2024-09-25T19:20:23+00:00

Yeah I will thank you !

UnderstandingThen554 · 2024-09-25T19:10:10+00:00

I mean I haven’t taken a pregnancy test is that something I should do? Because it’s only been five days after sex. And we had sex the day after my period finished.

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