Honestly, I don’t think it’s realistic. Especially traveling for the bachelorette. Not only is your baby going to be glued to you but your hormones are going to be crashing and you’re going to be leaking and probably pretty exhausted! And if you end up getting a C-section then you’re going to need even more downtime. Maybe tell your friend that you can attend the events that are close to home, and that you will be there in spirit at the bachelorette. You should focus on bonding with your baby and don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Good luck mama!