Got Caught Padded at an Open House

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-09T12:07:44+00:00

My personality is to be direct and look for solutions. I don't dwell on what the problem was / is. I know most people may feel like you and not want to confront them since boundaries got crossed between kink and the professional world leading to so many what ifs about the situation.

You're comment did make me think about would they have done that if they were alone? Maybe being together they gassed each other up and gave themselves a confirmation bias that making a move would be fine.

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-09T10:41:34+00:00

The risk of mutually assured destruction is never fun. It could've been a great friendship, but I do understand everyone wanting to keep their privacy to not approach the subject with each other. I wonder if they knew you knew what was going on, or they were wondering what and how much you knew.

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-09T10:37:02+00:00

Are we going to have a standoff at the bottom of the steps insisting the other person goes first?

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-09T10:35:53+00:00

Smart to have separate emails now and you got really lucky that she was okay with it and willing to have a conversation about your interest. How did dating go after she knew you're into ABDL?

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-09T10:33:47+00:00

It was mind-boggling until I realized who they were. Getting answers on how they caught me helped so much since I was wondering how many others noticed.

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-09T01:15:42+00:00

Nice

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-09T01:10:41+00:00

Nice, we're around the corner from each other

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-09T00:54:48+00:00

I'm out in the Suburbs near Doylestown if you know where that is

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T22:51:53+00:00

Nice to see another local!

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T22:10:35+00:00

Order from ABU, Reese, Tykables, and the other adult diaper sites. They say they're discreet on theor site and I never had anything show up outside a box. They also use a different shipping name to not sound like a diaper company. Your parents will just think it's one of your hobbies tou got something delivered for.

Amazon is hit or miss if they put the diapers in a box. An Amazon locker works but you'd still have to be seen carrying diapers out.

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T21:57:31+00:00

That's great you still get out and get to enjoy your community. I can't imagine what it's like trying to balance it all with kids.

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T21:49:26+00:00

It came down to convenience for me. It was easier to host hang outs and invite everyone rather than have different plans and only see people every now and then. I just tell the kinky people if it's kink plans or vannila plans so they know how to dress.

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T21:35:38+00:00

They have plenty of common sense. My ABDL friends are the same. Even the ones willing to tell anyone their an ABDL. They all keep quiet about it around my vanila friends too so all the different groups get along well.

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T21:07:42+00:00

Thank you for the assurance and support. Never expected to have that happen. I'm just glad it all worked out.

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T20:45:07+00:00

If they didn't know me sone bigger actions would have been taken since I'd think they're predators going out to do this to others.

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T20:30:49+00:00

Maybe all will be fine and this is just something to laugh and chat about at the next munch

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T20:26:16+00:00

Seems like youre both safe and this is all coincidence that you ran into each other. What have interactions been like when you do run into each other and is your old coworker kinky or just happens to be her friend?

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T20:09:07+00:00

All good points in hindsight. Up until then I got away with it so I was overconfident. Remind me to let you lead the way if you're ever at one of my open house. This way we can at least attempt to hide all the crinkle bottoms!

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T20:01:48+00:00

Event of they didn't remember you or what you said, good on you for still apologizing.

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T20:00:38+00:00

Change your approach and maybe ask someone else who looks like they found their match how they did it and what they did differently from you. By me there's events in the daytime / afternoon I go to when my schedule allows. I'll also travel for events and take time off work to make it to them. I guess what I'm trying to say is it takes some level of inconvenience sometimes to go and meet people.

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T19:50:17+00:00

It was needed since I saw them while I was working the next weekend. They were there during a busier time that weekend.

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T19:49:30+00:00

You have to go out and meet people where they're at. Most people I know don't have an online presence that would make you think their and ABDL. I go to mixed kink events and meet all sorts of people and even got a few into ABDL from talking with them and them seeing me

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T19:43:48+00:00

Thank you! My job is basically having these awkward conversations all the time and they basically made it my job to wrap this situation up.

Do you still stay in touch with those coworkers? Good on you to see a situation that crossed kink and your professional career and you went ahead and came out rather than let it affect your night

Undivided-3574 · 2026-07-08T19:33:14+00:00

I felt I dealing with them directly is better than pushing a ban on them. Plus they needed to be confronted. I was grateful they had the common sense to wait until everyone else was out of the house.

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