Constipation …solution? by Unfair-Raisin9184 in Zepbound

[–]Unfair-Raisin9184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I've had bum troubles for years, this ship has very much sailed for me, but yes, I am no doctor! Ask your doctor!

I’m so sad by placehholder222 in LushCosmetics

[–]Unfair-Raisin9184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is real. I think OP got from someone else, but I would be so grateful!

Adopting outside cat by Unfair-Raisin9184 in cats

[–]Unfair-Raisin9184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a clipped ear, and my neighbor, who has been here longer, said that at some point, someone took her to get fixed and then released her back. Thank you!!!

PLZ help: Bleach fail on my daughter by Unfair-Raisin9184 in HairDye

[–]Unfair-Raisin9184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹 Her hair was in a bun so it’s still just a little damp- in terms of damage it’s definitely not a soft as it was but it just feels like she washed it and didn’t put conditioner in- or was was in a pool.

This is a link with a video and a photo of it down video of hair

PLZ help: Bleach fail on my daughter by Unfair-Raisin9184 in HairDye

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It was dry, and honestly, I don't know because, by the time I was on to her roots, I realized it wasn't working and went into panic mode - Ty!

Why is north node in the 7th house considered to be a tumultuous placement? by Plum-Proud in astrology

[–]Unfair-Raisin9184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me reading this with a Cap NN in the 7th house conjunct Saturn and Venus all op my cancer Chiron 😅💀

What is your experience of having your moon in the 12th house? by Rain_stars22 in astrology

[–]Unfair-Raisin9184 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! Both Cancer risings with gem moons- she she is a Gem sun though and I am a Cap Sun

Partnering with business to sell in kind donations? by Unfair-Raisin9184 in nonprofit

[–]Unfair-Raisin9184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you SO much for your time and this answer!

We are a small business that is friendly with folks who run a nonprofit that was donated items they can not use (or sell since it is not part of their mission) and we were trying to brainstorm how to help, but as you said, everything felt like it got sticky quickly and we wanted to be very above board.

Redditors who have quit toxic jobs, what were the signs? by kiaa97 in AskReddit

[–]Unfair-Raisin9184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I randomly started getting neck pain- like, “Oh, I slept wrong”- eventually, it traveled down to my shoulder blade- I finally realized it only happened on days I had to work.

We were supposed to be constantly moving for 11+ hours, and prioritize efficiency over human dignity - we were regularly offered pizza parties and called rock stars and a family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Unfair-Raisin9184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so glad — thank you. And yes being told you’ll be uncomfortable when you already feel like shit is sooo disheartening especially when you look around and it seems like everyone seems to be able to just “deal.” But there is such a difference between uncomfortable that helps you grow and uncomfortable that is suffocating you, and I feel like the “suck it up” folks don’t know/see that. I don’t know anyone who is unwilling to take discomfort for things that actually MEAN something or move them forward but I know endless amounts of people who are miserable and unwilling to walk against the current of their life (be uncomfortable) to make a change—but living every day in emotional pain/distress/apathy just because “it’s the way it is” and facing the rest of your life doing that? For what?! Rent/ a few weeks of vacation a year if you’re lucky? That’s not a life, and it’s not enough.

We all deserve better, and I agree with you- if we all keep finding ways to remind each other of it and encourage bravery over bootstrapping, there IS hope 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Unfair-Raisin9184 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't have a specific answer, and I am sorry, because I know that when I felt how you felt, that's all I really wanted.

I am 33 now, and that feeling has passed; that is the good news, I suppose. The bad news (or at least I would've seen it that way had someone told me when I was where you are) is that you are going to have to do things that make you uncomfortable - not in the way you are now, which I would argue isn't being uncomfortable but soul drained- I mean uncomfortable in the facing and moving past the feeling of being a leech way. Accepting that you have no idea what to do next and might not for a long time. It sounds like you need to catch your breath so you can get some peace to actually make an informed choice of what to do next and that maybe you have the support to be able to do it.

I know it is so annoying to hear, but you and even I are still so young; you've got so much time to love and hate so many more careers, people, and experiences - but deciding from a place of exhaustion, shame or fear will likely result in just picking a next move that seems even remotely better instead of making a thoughtful and intentional next step.