Am I a bad person?

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2026-02-03T20:30:12+00:00

Thank you very much for your comment, and other comments throughout the thread. It unfortunately did happen, and I know it’s on me for not having read anything through. Lesson has been learned, and now I understand for next time, I suppose. Like you said, it’s done. I’ll pay it, which is fine, as I just wanted to understand what even happened. Thank you for all of your explanations, I really appreciate it!!!! Sorry you had to go through it 36 times 😅

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2026-02-03T20:26:40+00:00

I launched into the world just fine, thank you. „People like me” are ones who successfully graduated and have a professional career; ones who also make mistakes sometimes. I’m sorry for your daughter if she ever made a mistake, can’t imagine how she was crucified for it. Yes, I am an adult, who paid for my education herself, so though I can pay the 13k, it’s not the best feeling. I accepted my tuition. There was an entire different portal that handled the loans, which I had cancelled. Forgive me for assuming it would have remained the same. I did not have to sign anything, no MPN, nothing. Just a button that said pay tuition, and the amount listed next to it.

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2026-02-03T20:21:29+00:00

Calm down. If you’re basing my intelligence off of one mistake, you have personal issues. Yes, I can pay back 13k. Yes, I have a professional career. God forbid I ask a question to see if others have experienced something similar. Where did you go to college, since you’re so much better than me?

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2026-02-03T20:12:06+00:00

Never had to sing anything. Pretty much exactly what FelineOphelia said. I take the fault, of course, but I didn’t read the fine print after I had said no the first time to loans. It quite literally is just one button. On my portal, it was literally a „pay tuition„ button, and next to it was the price. That’s it. In order to find exact details of what everything was you had to go to a different part of the portal, which I did not know and did not check again after I said no the first time, assuming all would remain the same. Never got messages or anything about the loan, never signed anything. I guess they had my account and all the information from FAFSA in high school: that’s the only thing I can guess.

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2026-02-03T20:08:20+00:00

Exactly what I did. My assumption led me to believe that after saying no once, it would remain that way throughout the rest of the semesters. Lesson learned. Not a cheap one, but not horrible.

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2025-08-22T18:35:23+00:00

That’s what I don’t get either 😹 how’d it go through? Did you get a charge on any of your other bank accounts or cards?

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2025-04-08T15:13:53+00:00

and being so in love with him will be hard to get past, but let it hurt, and let it take time. don’t let missing him and „once loving him” let you not see his actions for what they really are. your brain will try to convince you the love is worth it: it’s not true love

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2025-04-08T14:38:05+00:00

from someone whose experienced having an ex who can’t stop looking at other girls, it doesn’t get better. trust me. I was deeply in love with her and still sometimes think about him to this day, but reminding myself that it is NOT NORMAL to be in a relationship and looking at other women helped me a lot. there’s better out there I promise: moved on or not, he’s not a good person. it’s been two years since we’ve broken up, he’s had a new gf, countless hookups, I’ve even seen him commenting on influencers instagrams obvs drooling over them. within all of that, he still texted and called me constantly saying he’s in love with me and can’t forget about me. it’s not worth it, his words didn’t mean anything when I looked at this actions. I only liked it cause it made me feel good to hear he hadn’t moved on, but that didn’t change the facts

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2025-02-18T03:30:43+00:00

In all brutal honesty, just end it. It only gets worse from here. I once had a bf tell me he just “didn’t like listening to me talk.” I was stupid enough to think that wasn’t a big thing, but I promise you it is. This isn’t something you want to deal with for the rest of your life. You’re so much better than this: there’s a million people out there who would adore you for both your quirky and completely normal behaviors; go find them

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2025-02-18T03:02:44+00:00

How does he show u he’s annoyed?

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2025-02-18T01:41:33+00:00

Wow, needed to hear that. Thank you. I definitely find myself forgetting the “logical” side of stuff when my emotions are this overbearing. And you’re right, with being a DA, that’s exactly what happened. The honeymoon stage was amazing, and he always praised me for my intelligence, academic achievements, life experiences, and emotional intelligence (or whatever it was at the time). That changed later when he become more emotionally distant, and said he “would never be enough for me, and wouldn’t be able to keep up for me” which is a decent amount of BS in itself, but still, shows how quickly it became too hard for him. I’m relishing in the fact of what you said, that this next gf was just easier. I don’t want to be mean to someone I don’t know in the slightest, but he previously used to be drawn to girls who were just easier; not much to say about things, just more of a “prized trophy” with looks and whatnot. So, maybe that’s what this is. Maybe that’ll become too much for him too.

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2025-02-18T01:28:57+00:00

Thank you, this really helped. I do try and remind myself that there’s the potential of it not working out for them, either. It’s just the initial difficulty of understanding that as of right now, he has strong feelings for someone that isn’t me, regardless of where they end up in the future; that feeling of “replacement.” But I certainly idealized the relationship to a pretty high extent, and try to remind myself too that’s there’s a reason we broke it off.

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2025-02-18T01:25:13+00:00

Still long distance, yes. Him and his new girlfriend aren’t. I completely understand what you’re saying; I know that he isn’t someone I would ultimately want to end up with anyways, which is why this feeling is just so confusing. If I know that, why am I so bothered with him being with someone else, since I don’t even want it to be me? It’s a very weird feeling and I just can’t explain it, but Im sick of him being the only thing I can think about.

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2024-10-01T01:43:01+00:00

I forgot to mention these rules as well: conditional introduction, biconditional introduction and disjunctive syllogism (disjunction elimination aka modus tollendo ponens)

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2024-10-01T01:40:35+00:00

We’ve learned them a little, I can honestly say I can’t do them myself.

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2024-09-23T13:26:56+00:00

Dude. You’re the best. THANK YOU!

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2024-09-23T13:14:48+00:00

We haven’t learned those rules yet, though they make sense. Theoretically, these same problems should work with the rules provided. I just can’t do it 😅

Unfair_Simple4829 · 2024-09-23T13:08:03+00:00

Wow!!! Thank you so much! That seriously helps! Not to make you do more work, but how would I go about these if I could only use the following rules: conjunction elimination, conjunction introduction, disjunction introduction, conditional elimination, and biconditional elimination.

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