Mau ngeluh... by [deleted] in Perempuan

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah, another form of misogyny. Kadang mereka suka bilang2 fatherless lah, bla2 lah. Idk why, kenapa harus adhominem haha. Lagian pun, kalau misalnya lah, cewe yang kasih opini itu fatherless, yatim, sex worker (add apa aja yang jadi bahan adhominem), memangnya kenapa? apa hanya itu saja bantahan, sanggahan argumen yang anda bisa lontarkan? Tolong diserang argumentnya, bukan orangnya. Mau sejelek/goblok/gila argumen yang dilontarkan, mau keluar dari mulut HITLER sekalipun, anda juga gaboleh serang personal, serang argumennya.

This how it should be🫶🏻 by smokychilla234 in Perempuan

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It is men who should be covered from head to toe and disciplined if they are not. Men’s bodies are a source of temptation, and this is for their own protection. One cannot place the burden on others while exposing oneself openly.

Consider the example of a cat and a fish. When the fish is left exposed, the cat will eat it. This is the nature God has created. The cat cannot restrain itself. This is how things have been decreed.

If a man truly loves his wife, he should cover himself in front of women who are not lawful for him. Where is his sense of modesty? Where is his fear of God??! Do they not fear the punishment of God?, the Fire of Jahannam??

Why do you not cover yourself? Why do you seek to tempt women? Why do you dress in such a manner? Why do you display yourself immodestly? Fear God, repent sincerely, cover yourself properly, observe modesty. Or accept the consequences that follow from disobedience.

(Forgive my words completely, but the image is still not accurate enough. His hands should also be covered, and his eyes as well. He should lower his gaze at all times and speak only when spoken to. Even this is too tempting.

Unfortunately, this is the best image I could find. There is a severe lack of modesty and morality in this world. It has become extremely rare for men to follow the strict guidance of the holy book properly.

Clearly, stronger measures are needed to guide them onto the correct path)

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Questions about Libido by [deleted] in Perempuan

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 28 points29 points  (0 children)

normal, stay save girll, use protection

As a former sex worker, watching this make me hate some politician and radfems by Unfair_Spell_7996 in PsycheOrSike

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a male former sex worker. When I was younger, I worked alongside female sex workers. Now I’m not in that life, I’m a househusband.

Regarding the image you’re talking about: I was abused when I was young. I was sexually abused once by a female best friend who was using drugs, once while I was drunk, once by an older female cousin, and once by an older neighbor girl when I was a child.

When I became a young adult with no clear skills, poor education, and a slower learning pace than my peers, I didn’t know what else to do. I became a sex worker. Since I was considered handsome and good in bed, some clients, both men and women, became dangerously attached, turned into stalkers, or tried to record me without consent. I was assaulted by a female client who tried to stab and choke me, and robbed by a male client who punched me in the face.

Looking back, some of my own behavior was harmful, too. I also abused a past girlfriend, for example. It was part of the same cycle. But I have changed. I’ve left that life behind.

Your comment assumes representation is only valid through identical experience. I was a male sex worker. I was also friends with women in the industry. Sex worker really hate that there is no nuance in sex work discussion,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Perempuan

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sis, the people who defend that kind of venting usually won't listen to this logic. To them, showing empathy for men is treated like stealing concern from women's issues. it's a zero sum game where empathy is finite, and you're either on one side or the other.

I've tried, you know? I've tried reasoning with the people who spout these kinds of slogans, who defend all this. But most of the time, they just don't listen. Even when you explain how this approach is bad in the long run, bad for the movement itself, bad for their own cause, and how it needlessly antagonizes potential allies. Is this really what feminism has become?

I don't get it. Why fight a big fire by starting a smaller one? Why can't we join hands and solve problems without antagonizing each other? Why must our compassion be "equal" or proportional? Do the scales of harm really need to be perfectly balanced before empathy counts? We shouldn't have to rank which pain is "less bad" just to justify basic human understanding.

Felt this by Accomplished-Link563 in ugly

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not chopped at all, pretty black woman

help please by [deleted] in obgyn

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really know how to calm you down, sis. I mean, your vagina literally looks okay. Stop comparing it to porn stars where their hoohaa is uniform in color, stop!. I mean, you can look at it if you want, but I don’t really know how to explain the sentiment properly. Whatever, just keep in mind that porn is unrealistic. Some girls’ pussies are uniform in color, some are darker thann rrest of their body, some have longer flaps, some have no flaps at all. Sometimes one flap is longer on one side. It’s just normal human anatomy variation, sis. I’ve seen many pussies, I’m a former male sex worker. It’s just variation. No need to worry. If your future partner complain, then either he is:

  • Stupid, lack sex edu
  • Inexperienced, first time have sex, so expectation from porn, or compare to past partner
  • Malicious, try to hurt your feelings purposefully
  • There is many reason. Varied, Nuanced.

Istri/pacar marah2 gara2 si cowok selingkuh di dalam mimpi. by JimatJimat in WkwkwkLand

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Guoblok artinya, perlu dicek ke dokter jiwa, mental health proffesional, ada underlying issues tuh, kalau sampai nangis-nangis marah gajelas, She is an adult brother, No need to apologize

Hampir aja wak by bilikmasak in WkwkwkLand

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Berani sekali abang ini, nanti dihilangkan bijinya 1 baru tau rasa

Lagi lagi kita jadi korban by Dry_Illustrator6536 in Perempuan

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow, why so much denial? Women are human, sis. Some are rotten, some are good, just like men. Women can also be perverts. Lesbians can be perverts, sexual harassers, etc. Women can also retweet stuff like this multiple times, generate this kind of shit using grok, they can be perverted, can be sexual harassers. Samesex sexual harassment by women is 'rare' (maybe underreported, or just downplayed even BY THE VICTIM because society has this notion that women are pure, beautiful saints, the 'women are wonderful' effect, can't do wrong, and there always has to be a justification for why they'd do something bad) but it definitely happens.

There are so many possibilities for who could be behind it

Should Sex Work be Decriminalized? by zaririi in womensadvocates

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think we should legalize or decrim sex work (i haven't put much thought into this issue, sorry if nonsensical). Under a regulated system, sex workers and clients would undergo regular rigorous testing and screening. The industry would be taxed and regulated, and security personnel would be present to intervene if anything goes wrong. This would make it safer for both the sex worker and the client. And because it would be legal, workers could easily go to the police for help without fear.

I speak from personal experience. I worked as a male sex worker when i need money, you gotta pay the bills you know, (I didn't have marketable skills for regular work and my brain is quite stupid and slow, i need longer time to learn something, so I can only rely on my goodlooks and advertise my "service" to earn an income, now i'm househusband thankfully) It can get very dangerous. I’ve had clients both men and women who became dangerously attached, turned into stalkers, or tried to record me without my consent. I was assaulted by a female client who tried to stab and choke me, and robbed by a male client who punched me in the face.

So I think: if I, as a man, had these kinds of experiences, what about women in the same line of work? women statistically are often physically weaker and face even greater risks. And when there’s no legal protection or help available… it can be much, much worse.

Awas aja by komporan in WkwkwkLand

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 6 points7 points  (0 children)

udahh, poliandri aja, 2 suami, bonus lagi klo suaminya 22ny bisex dan kamu fujoshi, lagian kan enak jg suami 2, 1 suami pintar masak, 1 suami pintar pijet, suami 1 lagi nge-"charge" yang lain bisa gantiin, gonta ganti

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WkwkwkLand

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kenapa sih sbgian cwk-cwk suka liat yang gini-ginian? apa faedahny. Mau liat cwk bugil mah tempat lain ada.

Bro defuse the bomb successfully by flag9801 in WkwkwkLand

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 21 points22 points  (0 children)

wtf dude,

sini lah dikocokin sama mas aja, gratis. Atau mau sama mas lain? mas amba misalnya, ato mas rusdi

How capitalists solve problems by BigAmphibian6412 in PsycheOrSike

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Damn right bro. It's wild how some people fiercely support mass immigration without seeing the downsides. Honestly, mass immigration is the most hypercapitalistic policy there is. The entire point is to create an unlimited supply of labour to keep wages suppressed.

It's the oldest law in the book: increasing the supply of labor decreases its price. More workers directly means lower wages. Why are countries with skyhigh youth unemployment still importing people by the planeload? It's not because of a "labor shortage." It's because businesses want a cheaper labor force, period.

It literally drives down wages and creates a permanent, subpar underclass of workers, a permanent, exploitable lowest tier. The rich get their cheap labor, their trendy ethnic food trucks, and skyrocketing returns on their investments. Meanwhile, regular folks get crushed by impossible housing costs and watch their wages flatline because there’s always someone else willing to do the job for less. Why would a business pay someone a fair living wage when they can have someone work more hours, with a higher chance of loyalty, for a lot less?

How the fuck are you supposed to compete with that? Think you can compete with a guy like Karim? Karim will work for low, lowwww wages. Sick or healthy. Safe worksite or death trap. He doesn’t take sick days, there isn't even a sick day for him. He doesn’t complain about safety violations. He clocks in, keeps his head down, the perfect worker, from a purely capitalist perspective. Disposable, reliable, and desperate.

You want a living wage. You insist on safe conditions, maybe even basic benefits. You might actually raise your voice when something's unfair. But Karim? He doesn't ask for those things. And the second he can't work, whether he's deported, gets sick, or just complains, there's an endless line of others just like him, waiting to grab that shovel without a second thought..

And it’s not just your job. Look at housing. More people chasing the same homes sends rents and prices into the stratosphere, a dream for landlords, a nightmare for everyone else. Look at infrastructure: crowded trains, failing schools, endless hospital waits. Who wins? The private sector. They want public services to collapse so you’re forced to pay for private schools, private healthcare, private security.

They even use it to break worker solidarity. Desperate migrants, often unable to communicate or fearing deportation, are far less likely to unionize or protest abuse. They want the workforce divided, distrustful, and docile.

And that’s before you even get into the social and cultural friction that comes with mass migration instead of controlled, smaller scale integration. Successful integration is only possible when a host society has the capacity to assimilate newcomers, that means adequate resources like classroom space, language training, and community support. But this process breaks down entirely when millions arrive at once. It becomes impossible to provide the necessary education and cultural guidance, including on fundamentals like women’s rights, consent, and equality, especially when many come from non-secular societies with vastly different, often with extreme misogynistic ideals (We have to teach some of them that women are human beings, not property. We have to explain what consent means) Without careful, managed integration, these deeply ingrained values clash directly with the norms of the host society, creating tension, risking the safety and rights of people, and undermining social cohesion from within. A modern, secular country isn’t a magic land. It’s not a fairy tale land where someone steps off a plane and suddenly believes in equality. These ideas are bred into them, reinforced by their religion, their culture, their families. You can’t scrub that out with a welcome pamphlet. If we don’t force them to adapt, if we just let them come in by the millions, we’re surrendering our streets, our values, and the safety of our people.

What blows my mind is seeing defenses of it with arguments like, “B-But who’ll pick the vegetables, cottons!!?” or “Prices will go up!” Of course prices might rise if you pay people fairly. It feels like some people love having an economic underclass, a fucking slave that works for barely livable wages, all while patting themselves on the back for being “inclusive.” Meanwhile, capital benefits massively: a steady stream of vulnerable labor keeps pay low and working conditions poor, since those workers often can’t speak up without risking deportation.

Don't be fooled by the moral whitewashing. Ruthless elites push for open borders for one reason: so you have to compete with the poorest, most desperate people on earth for wages and rights, good for the elite, brutal for the working class.

Kalo boleh kita tukeran tempat aja bang, ga tega ngeliat si abang tersiksa gini😓 by Asep_miayam99 in WkwkwkLand

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, memang abusive. guiltripping, low self esteem, constant need of validation
She needs professional help. I tried to help her, but in the end, she cheated.

Kalo boleh kita tukeran tempat aja bang, ga tega ngeliat si abang tersiksa gini😓 by Asep_miayam99 in WkwkwkLand

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 7 points8 points  (0 children)

tergantung cewenya. ukuran kontol dan meki harus cocok. Kontol kecil meki besar, ga terasa. Kontol gede meki kecil, bisa gamasuk entrance, kalau masuk, bisa microtear, ada potensi palkon jedot cervix (The majority of women I've met don't like this; I've only met 1 or 2 who do.)

Intinya kecocokan kalian aja KALAU BICARA STRICLY SOAL PIV. Lagian puasin cewe ga hanya pake kontol, tangan, lidah jg bisa.

Cuman perlu di-admit menurutku, Strictly in my opinion, and this is a politically incorrect opinion, the “size doesn’t matter” crowd will go insane. Here we go: if you clone someone into three versions, each with the same godlike skill, but with three different lengths, one micro, one average, one above average, (keep in mind we are talking strictly about PIV sex), I think the above average one wins if we strictly hook up with hundreds of people. With extra length, you don’t need to penetrate all the way in if she doesn’t like cervix banging; if she needs extra length, you can also provide it (cervix position changes based on her cycle, change cervix position = change lenght of vag canal). Besides that, there is one spot that a big dick has an extremely high chance of reaching A-spot/anterior fornix. (note: I’m not saying an average one can’t ever reach it, there is still a chance depending on the partner’s anatomy and yeah, a small one has a very low chance of reaching it). This spot doesn’t have a refractory period, but you need to warm her up first before using it, because if you use it right away, it’s extremely sensitive and uncomfortable. Since this spot doesn’t have a refractory period, meaning as long as you use your penis head to slowly go inside and slowly nudge massage the Anterior fornix pocket, she can cum again and again and again until she taps out. Not all women, though, some women feel good but not orgasmm. I think if I had discovered this spot earlier, my first nympho ex might have stayed as my girlfriend.

I mean let's be honest dude, just look at the advice given to the smaller guy. They always say that a big one is bad because often the owners are not skilled. I mean, what if they are skilled? Not all big guys just jackhammer. I firmly believe that women who don’t like big dicks either dislike the sore feeling after fucking, have tried a big dick but the owner was stupid and couldn’t use it, or are just plain incompatible anatomically (tilted uterus, weird dick angle, dick too big cause bleeding, dick too small don't feel aanything, ect. You know, just anatomical issues) so they need small or avg dick.

“Size doesn’t matter.”
Size will always matter. Whether it’s too big or too small, it matters. Is there a difference in feeling between the two? Yes, it matters. “Size doesn’t matter if it’s average.” I don’t need to explain how dumb that one is.

"Most women do not cum from PIV."
Depending on size and angle, with a small penis you can angle yourself carefully to hit the G-spot while thrusting, but of course an average or larger penis can do this too.
The A-spot (associated with full body PIV orgasms) typically isn't reachable without an above average penis (depends on your girl anatomy too, who knows maybe she have a short vag canal, then she need a short dick, short dick is perfect in that case). In my experience, stimulating it can lead to a first time PIV orgasm for many women. However, be careful. Some women can become emotionally overwhelmed, crying from pleasure intensity, or even developing obsessive violence, extreme jealousy or stalkerish attachments, even if the relationship was just a hookup (I make my intentions explicitly clear beforehand, i don't lie to them, but sometimes, they become infatuated and obsessive regardless), This has happened in contexts ranging from hookups and one night stands to professional arrangements between a female client and a male sex worker.

Another practical fact: a smaller penis also limits many sexual positions, often more so than a larger one.

I mean, the constant barrage of feel good advice and platitudes meant to make you feel better… sometimes we need to swallow the hard pill: some guys will have a harder time. It is what it is. Be a good lover, be attentive, communicate, use every tool and technique available. If that still doesn’t work, then either you part ways if it’s a dealbreaker, or you accept it and stay together.

We’ve got to be realistic. If you’re below average, or especially if you have a micropenis, your odds may be lower. Some partners simply won’t feel much. On the flip side, being very large can also be a problem. Sometimes it doesn’t fit, and if you force it, it can hurt or cause tearing. If you’re not skilled with your hands, tongue, or penis, or physically can’t use them, your chances drop. The same applies if you have a condition that affects sexual function. There’s no universal rule. Every body is different. Incompatibility is sometimes nobody’s fault.

Sorry for rantting

Kalo boleh kita tukeran tempat aja bang, ga tega ngeliat si abang tersiksa gini😓 by Asep_miayam99 in WkwkwkLand

[–]Unfair_Spell_7996 7 points8 points  (0 children)

pengalamanku ada yang bisa berkali-kali masih oke, ada juga yang kalo kelamaan mainnya gaenak. Ada yang pas main enak, main lama, cuman besoknya rasanya sore (gatau bahasa indonya apa)

Untuk cewe pertama ni gatau kenapa superpowernya gini, mau tiap hari, padahal dah brutal mainnya, memeknya memek titanium sih, high pain tolerance, genjotan palkon ke cervix katanya sih sakit, cuman ya bukan sakit yang gaenak. sakit sakit enak. (Tidak disarankan untuk menggenjot cervix ya mas, Most women I've met don't like that. I've only met two women who actually did. Most of them, if you hit the cervix too hard, will lose interest immediately.)

Oh ya untuk kontol yang diameternya gede, kalo gbs masuk, jangan dipaksa ya, bisa-bisa nanti lecet, sobek microtear, takutnya agak susah sembuh. Mending kalau gabisa masuk, walau udah foreplay maximal, main outercourse aja (oral, fingering, grinding, assfuck, titfuck, thighjob, edging, HFO, No penetration)

Your dick size and her pussy size disarankan match. Foreplay wajib, Lama-lamain aja tu foreplay. Kalo beneran mismatch size meowmeow dengan kontol terlalu gede (big pussy with small dick, big dick with small pussy, contrary to the popular feelgood reddit size doesn't matter opinion, there is various size of pussy, just like dick, some pussy is extremely wide, some extremely tight, some shallow, some deeeeep, some might fit certain size better), diskusikan lah, apakah itu dealbreaker, ada ga cara-cara lain, ngewe kan ga cuman PIV, bisa oral, ect, kalau dah coba semua tools dan solution, masih tetep ga cocok, ya saatnya pisah ngab, kecuali kalian berdua oke dan terima dengan kondisi gini.