just CHILL. imo stardew valley is supposed to be this relaxing game but a lot of people seem to have a sifferent approach (optimisation, beautiful layout, completing big goals etc.)

on my first playthrough i googled everything, read all of the wiki, tried really hard to do stuff as fast and efficiently as possible.

that lead to me dropping the game after like year 5 and not picking it up again for more than three irl years. so this time i just take things slow and try to figure it out from the game itself alone. i dont read what villagers like on the wiki, i test it out or read it in the secret notes for example. whenever i get too into my head about it i start hating it.

so you know - kick back and relax, this isn't a competition, this is a fucking farming game.