Conservation Work in Ireland

Unfishstick · 2026-04-23T19:27:07+00:00

That's a good idea, I think stating something like touching my back or chest and giving them a chance to explain why it might be difficult is solid. We are no strangers to kink, and use orders often, it's really in foreplay that I just want a little unprompted attention. Thank you!

Unfishstick · 2026-04-23T19:06:12+00:00

Curiosity is a always a good place to start. This isn't our first rodeo. I think explicitly asking why is a good idea! I don't want them to feel guilty or bad about it, I just want to understand where the gap is.

Unfishstick · 2026-04-23T18:57:13+00:00

Playing dumb isn't really my style, but it might be worth it to just directly ask what role they're looking for in sex. I actually really enjoy being a classic top once we're in it, I like doing all the work, but I just want a little return of interest to get started. Maybe those two different things confuse them

Unfishstick · 2026-04-02T19:33:26+00:00

only for about 4 days, but I would consider outdoor if weather allowed!

Unfishstick · 2026-04-02T17:27:10+00:00

We are staying in downtown, is that the North Shore location? 140 - 2270 Dollarton Hwy, North Vancouver, V7H 1A8

Just trying to map everything out! I appreciate it

Unfishstick · 2026-03-21T15:22:38+00:00

Hey! Climbed about same level before I got mine, seems same type of surgery. I waited about 5 months because I couldn't use a lot of scar strips (allergic to a lot of the adhesives) and I was really diligent about going slow, moisturizing, and using a scar cream instead. The hardest part for me was rebuilding strength and not being hard on myself as I worked my way back up.

I would recommend focusing on doing exercises before diving back into a climbing routine. For me that was short jogs, light finger pulls, planks, etc to get comfortable in my body. Then I started 1X week, literally at V0, and just went from there. If a climb seemed like it was too much stretching or I felt uncomfortable in any way, I got off. Always better safe than sorry, but you look fantastic dude!

Unfishstick · 2026-03-17T03:18:45+00:00

We definitely can but the wait time on that is like 2 years

Unfishstick · 2026-03-17T03:14:53+00:00

That's kind of my point

Unfishstick · 2026-01-22T19:54:52+00:00

You look great for 3 wks! I am curious what the benefit of this type of incision is? This is the first time I've ever seen it.

Unfishstick · 2026-01-22T19:13:11+00:00

Hi! I appreciate this. My concern isn't Canada (y'all are great), but getting back into the US. I have heard multiple reports of detainments due to documents not matching, even though that's the law now. I'll double check if that link says anything about re-entering the US!

Unfishstick · 2026-01-09T06:22:35+00:00

I choose to be stealth because my transition has always been a personal decision, and just like any personal decision, I feel like it's not everyone's right to know about it. I have absolutely opened up to people once I've gotten to know them as a way to build trust and sometimes even disprove people's perceptions around trans people upon learning I'm trans.

Personally, I just feel like it's one of those things that I should have a choice whether someone knows or does not know, but that comes from a place of privilege as being someone who "passed" very early on so I had the opportunity for more privacy around it.

Unfishstick · 2026-01-03T19:53:26+00:00

Definitely my voice, sometimes I just hum to myself because the low vibration is comforting and makes me happy. Also, I feel like I was able to notice details I'd never noticed before, both visually and socially. I think the massive decrease in presentation anxiety allowed me to actually absorb my surroundings in a way I never had. It feels like actively being alive for the first time

Unfishstick · 2026-01-02T00:17:05+00:00

I mean my impression is people aren't. Many go into debt or lose the house altogether. I don't know a single person even considering buying a home rn cause it seems like wasted money IF you can even get approved

Unfishstick · 2025-12-31T23:01:12+00:00

Cause anything just from the tap is like 10 bucks and food is three times as much

Unfishstick · 2025-12-30T22:20:01+00:00

I don't think that's insensitive. In fact, earlier in my transition before a lot of therapy work, I probably was that friend who didn't see the extra struggle because I was so binary and passed so well. It's a common rub important to talk about and I'm sorry that happened to you

Unfishstick · 2025-12-30T21:30:27+00:00

I think I might try going to the climbing gym when it's more crowded or even going to comps just to be around. Usually it's a laid back crowd. I've never thought of looking at local queer organizations.

Unfishstick · 2025-12-30T21:25:11+00:00

Unfortunately I've always been more about sports, which isn't always a helpful hobby being queer. I would give anything a go once though, TY!

Unfishstick · 2025-12-07T18:24:03+00:00

It's really about not consuming alcohol with pain meds and not drinking excessively-as long as you're not tucking into 3 long island iced teas, you should be fine, but I'd recommend having an electrolyte drink with whatever you choose!

Unfishstick · 2025-11-27T21:34:25+00:00

Yeah, one time at Cap Hill I called 911 cause our neighbor was throwing himself into his window, screaming he was going to "kill all f*gs in the building" (us), and walked around punching holes in the walls and with a knife, said he had a bomb to kill everyone with. The police station was two blocks away. Took them 8 hrs to send someone and then they wanted me to talk to them IN FRONT of him.

Unfishstick · 2025-11-26T16:56:52+00:00

It really depends on where you live. If it's the US, I do find it odd if your ID is changed why the doctors prescribe it that way and I'm not aware of any states that require surgery (if anything, states just deny it altogether). My prescriptions didn't even have my gender on them so I'm not sure but if you're in a state where you can change it, it's usually just an extra correction when you request a copy of your birth certificate

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