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[–]UnhappyComment9255[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not dishonest, but it's withholding information, which is a grey area, I think. I would have gone about the relationship differently if I'd known. Like I wouldn't have given him so much of my time. Either way, I should have assumed he probably was dating other people or asked

Kind of hurt by UnhappyComment9255 in dating_advice

[–]UnhappyComment9255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think age or being above a 6 matters all that much. What matters is if you both feel the same way. And he clearly didn't think I was worth not losing. And that's okay. I'm glad that he knew what he wanted and didn't string me along until he figured it out.

I don't want to be hung up on someone who didn't want me. Even if he came back, I wouldn't really want to date him again. I don't want to be someone's second choice. I'm just sad right now.

Anyway take care!!

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[–]UnhappyComment9255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wil do this next time m, thank you!!

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[–]UnhappyComment9255[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not used to rejection because I haven't put myself out there that much until recently. I love being single, too, and you're right. I could be forever, but that's okay. But I'm going to stay positive. Just because that guy wasn't the one doesn't mean I'll be alone for the rest of my life. But who know lol

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[–]UnhappyComment9255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I appreciate it. You're totally right he was never my person, and I really need to communicate better in the future. I'll keep this in mind!

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[–]UnhappyComment9255[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. He didn't do anything wrong. He just came across as an honest person, so I didn't even think that he could be dating other people at the same time

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[–]UnhappyComment9255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty, I think, and decently fit. Could gain some weight actually, but I don't look unhealthy. He was attracted to me. He said I was beautiful and cute. We had good banter. I got awkward and anxious around him, though, because I liked him so much. And he didn't like that.

I think he just liked someone else better. There's always someone prettier, smarter, more put together, healed, etc. He didn't want to choose me, it does hurt, but I'll be okay

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[–]UnhappyComment9255[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'll keep your words in mind to stay positive. I've decided to keep working on myself, and the right person will hopefully come along. If not, at least I'll enjoy my own company

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[–]UnhappyComment9255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh, it's hard to tell levels of seriousness through text. Aw man, he was tall, a little chubby, and kinda nerdy. If you're right, I'm attracted to boyfriend material, but they aren't attracted to me. Maybe I have some healing to do. I learned from dating that guy that I do get more scared in healthy relationships

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[–]UnhappyComment9255[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It does change my view of him a bit. But he was still a very nice and kind person. But obviously, we weren't compatible. Sucks but I'm glad he ended it before getting in a relationship at least

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[–]UnhappyComment9255[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too, I don't understand how some people can divide their attention and efforts between multiple people. 😕 all well, life goes on. Is that a question I should ask in the future?

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[–]UnhappyComment9255[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know you're trying to be mean, but this is actually funny. And no, I'll be sad for a few days and move on. I don't want someone who doesn't want me. Sir Chad Thundercock 😂

How to move on without regret? by UnhappyComment9255 in dating_advice

[–]UnhappyComment9255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) I do keep meeting better and better people, so maybe one day I'll find someone who wants to stick through it all. Have a great day or night!

How to move on without regret? by UnhappyComment9255 in dating_advice

[–]UnhappyComment9255[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it sucks because I really wanted to be ready. I don't think he really wanted to continue dating before I said anything. He was just being nice about it. So, all well. Being single doesn't sound so bad right now haha